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Shout for joy, O daughter Zion! Sing joyfully, O Israel. Be glad and exult with all your heart, O daughter Jerusalem. The Lord has removed the judgment against you, he has turned away your enemies. The king of Israel, the Lord is in your midst, you have no further misfortune to fear. Zephaniah 3:14-15

Nine days until Christmas! Today is “Gaudete” Sunday, Latin for "Rejoice". We light this candle to mark the beginning of the third week of Advent, but this year it comes close to end of Advent. Next Sunday when we light the fourth candle it will be Christmas Eve – not another week of Advent, but just two days.

When we lit the pink candle on the Advent wreath at Mass today, we heard the joyful entrance prayer: “Rejoice in the Lord always; again I say, rejoice. Indeed the Lord is near.” (Philippians 4:4-5) Liturgists tell us we rejoice on Gaudete Sunday because we’ve passed the midpoint of Advent and the Church lightens the mood a little to encourage us to continue our spiritual preparation. But this year we’ve more than passed the midpoint.

With such a short time until Christmas the tension mounts – both spiritual and secular. There is so much to do in so few days. This is the time to stop, pray, and take a deep breath. You can’t do everything. This week I will remind myself to set my priorities in the light of the spiritual values of Christmas.

Now the people were filled with expectation, and all were asking in their hearts whether John might be the Christ. John answered them all, saying “I am baptizing you with water, but one mightier than I is coming. I am not worthy to loosen the thongs of his sandals. He will baptize you with the Holy Spirit and fire.” Luke 3:15-16

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Blog Post December 9, 2018, Second Sunday of Advent

When the Lord brought back the captives of Zion, we were like men dreaming. Then our mouths were filled with laughter, and our tongue with rejoicing. Then they said among the nations, “The Lord has done great things for us.” We are glad indeed. Psalm 126:1-3

In our churches today the Second Advent Candle was lit with anticipation and joy as we continue our journey toward the celebration of the birth of Christ on Christmas Day. At least that’s the way it’s supposed to be.

Unfortunately, for many of us the prospect of the Second Week of Advent is greeted with dread that the season is galloping along with cards to be written, shopping to be done, decorations to finish – to say nothing of the festive plans for Christmas Eve and the elaborate family dinners on Christmas Day.

When I had coffee with friends last week they told me they are sick and tired of hearing complaints from their friends about how much work Christmas is and how they can hardly wait until it’s over so they can get back to their usual routines. We commiserated over how the meaning of Christmas has been put on a back-burner in the flurry of our secular preparations.

So how can we return to the true meaning of Christmas during this season of Advent? I take to heart St. Anslem’s words in Friday’s Office of Readings: “Break off from your cares and troubles and be less concerned about your tasks and labors. Make a little time for God and rest a while in him.” * This is my heartfelt resolution during our Second Week of Advent – ‘to make a little time for God and rest a while in him’.

In the fifteenth year of the reign of Tiberius Caesar…the word of God came to John the son of Zechariah in the desert. John went throughout the whole region of the Jordan, proclaiming a baptism of repentance for the forgiveness of sins. Luke 3:1-3

* liturgy of the Hours, p.184, Vol. 1

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Blog Post December 2, 2018, First Sunday of Advent

Behold, the days are coming, says the Lord, when I will raise up a righteous shoot to David. As king he will reign and govern wisely, he shall do what is just and right in the land. Jeremiah 23:5

Today is the first Sunday of Advent. The Advent wreath has been around since the middle ages as part of the spiritual preparation for Christmas. The evergreens of the wreath signify continuous life – the circle signifies the eternity of God and the immortality of the soul. During the weeks ahead, we are meant to prepare our hearts for the coming of the Child Jesus.

As we light the first candle in our Advent wreath, we begin the count-down to Christmas. The four candles represent the four weeks of Advent. The three purple candles symbolize prayer and penance. The rose candle, lit on the third Sunday, celebrates the midpoint of Advent and symbolizes rejoicing.

As we focus on the joys of Christmas – the family gatherings, the lights, the beautiful nativity scenes – it’s easy to forget that Advent has a penitential dimension as well. In Today’s gospel we are reminded that Advent is not only about the first coming of Jesus 2,000 years ago, but also about his second coming.

Jesus makes this very clear in today’s gospel as he cautions his disciples about what his second coming will look like: “People will die of fright in anticipation of what is coming upon the world, for the powers of heaven will be shaken. And then they will see the Son of Man coming in a cloud with power and great glory.” And again, “Beware that your hearts do not become drowsy from carousing and drunkenness and the anxieties of daily life, and that day catch you by surprise like a trap.” (Luke 21:26-27, 34-35)

As I celebrate this First Sunday of Advent, my resolution is to spend these weeks to prepare my heart for the coming of Jesus at Christmas and never to forget that the birth of the child in Bethlehem marks the first step on his way to Calvary.

For God so love the world that he gave his only Son, so that everyone who believes in him might not perish but might have eternal life. John 3:16

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Blog Post November 25, 2018, Feast of Christ the King

The Lord is king, in splendor robed; robed is the Lord and girt about with strength. And he had made the world firm, not to be moved. Your throne stands firm from of old; from everlasting you are, O Lord. Psalm 93:1-2

Today is the Feast of Christ the King – Lord over the world and all within it. Yet just a few days ago we were faced with the image of the crucified Christ. When Luke describes Jesus driving out those who were selling things from the temple he tells us that the chief priests, scribes, and leaders of the people are now seeking to put him to death. (Luke 19:45-48) Every year as the liturgical year nears its end we are presented with this juxtaposition of the basic tenets of our faith: Jesus was born among us to be crucified for our sins – and to rise again as our Lord and King. It’s hard to hold these two realities in mind at the same time.

Every year we begin this journey over again – the Feast of Christ the King followed by the beginning of Advent to prepare for the birth of Jesus. Every year it is the same, but not the same. I’m reminded of the ancient saying: “You can’t step into the same river twice” – the river is never the same and neither are you. I think the danger is to treat it as the same – to fall into the old patterns encouraged by our culture. I used to spend far too much time shopping for gifts and decorating the house for Christmas – inside and out. But as our secular world has grown bolder about cutting God out of our life, especially at Christmas, I see Advent as the opportunity to renew myself spiritually.

This year as I ‘step into the river’ I’ll pray for the time and space to ready myself for the real gifts of the season.

But when the Son of Man comes in his glory, and all the angels with him, he will sit on his glorious throne and all the nations will be assembled before him. And he will separate them from one another, as the shepherd separates the sheep from the goats. Matthew 25:31-32

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Blog Post November 18, 2018, Thirty-third Sunday of Ordinary Time

I see the Lord ever before me; with him at my right hand I shall not be disturbed. Therefore my heart is glad and my soul rejoices, my body too, abides in confidence; because you will not abandon my soul to the netherworld, nor will you suffer your faithful one to undergo corruption. Psalm 16:8-10

Are we there yet? That’s a familiar refrain from kids heading to some special place in their parents’ car. And somehow we never lose that impatience about where we are going and how soon we will get there.

In our last few gospels we’ve been hearing a lot about the end of the world. When will it come and how will we know it? In today’s gospel Jesus tells his disciples that in those days “the sun will be darkened and the moon will not give its light, and the stars will be falling from the sky”. What a terrifying image. Will it come soon, or in some distant future? Jesus tells us, “But of that day or hour, no one knows, neither the angels in heaven, nor the Son, but only the Father”. (Mark 13:24-32)

The end of the world is a pretty dramatic thing to think about, but more relevant for me is the end of my own world – my own time on this earth – and how I am preparing for it. The Church has designated November 2nd as the feast of All Souls. The practice of a day of prayer and commemoration for the dead dates back to the 10th century and over time the entire month of November has become known as the month of the dead. I appreciate the practice of many churches to display a “book of the dead” during November in which we write the names of our departed friends and family. The book is brought to the altar at Mass to remember the dead in a special way.

During this month I think especially of those who have gone before me: my mother and father, aunts, uncles, friends. Every year that list gets longer and every day I am more aware that one day I will be among them. In the Catechism of the Catholic Church we read, "We believe in the communion of all the faithful of Christ, those who are pilgrims on earth, the dead who are being purified, and the blessed in heaven, all together forming one Church; and we believe that in this communion, the merciful love of God and his saints is always [attentive] to our prayers." (CCC, 962)

My prayer this week is to keep in mind that now is the time for me to get ready for the end of my own world – that there is no time to waste.

Then the sign of the Son of Man will appear in heaven, and then all the tribes of the earth will mourn, and they will see the Son of Man coming on the clouds of heaven with power and great glory. And he will send out his angels with a loud trumpet call, and they will gather his elect from the four winds, from one end of heaven to the other. Matthew 24:30-31

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Blog Post November 11, 2018, Thirty-second Sunday of Ordinary Time

Now with you is wisdom, who knows your works and was present when you made the world; who understands what is pleasing in your eyes and what is conformable with your commands. Send her forth and from your glorious throne dispatch her that she may be with me, that I may learn what is pleasing to thee. Wisdom 9:9-10

Several weeks ago I visited a hospice patient in a nursing home – she is a widow who said I was very lucky to have my husband still with me. I told her I agreed, but that you never know what tomorrow may bring. Then on Sunday, October 21, husband Charles tripped and fell just before the finish line of the Columbus Nationwide 1/2 marathon. The result was a broken hip which was replaced with a titanium one – and the prospect of many months of recovery.

This was not only hard for Charles as a life-long athlete, but also as a dedicated volunteer involved in many charitable works. Once Charles was settled at home, he sent his colleagues an email explaining what happened. It read in part “God had a reason for this”. Then he told them that although he has to withdraw from his active charitable works, he will use his recovery time to return to his writing on morality that he began as a philosopher a few years ago.*

It started me thinking about how eager we are to accept the good things God sends us and how much we recoil at the bad. Yet we know that God in his wisdom sends us only what is for our good. Someone once wrote “The good is not to make us necessarily healthy or happy but to make us holy, to make us like Jesus”.

Is there anyone among you who, if your child asks for a fish, will give a snake instead of a fish? Or if the child asks for an egg, will give a scorpion? If you then, who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will the heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him!” Luke 11:11-13

*Confronting Sexual Nihilism: Traditional Catholic Sexual Morality as an Antidote to Nihilism, Tulsa 2014

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Blog Post November 4, 2018, Thirty-first Sunday of Ordinary

Hear, O Israel: The Lord is our God, the Lord alone. Therefore, you shall love the Lord, your God, with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your strength. Take heart with these words which I enjoin on you today. Deuteronomy 6:4-6

This has been quite a week in the Liturgical Calendar – On Thursday we celebrated the Feast of all Saints and on Friday we celebrated All Souls Day, which commemorates the faithful departed. The grade school children were at Mass for the Feast of all Saints, and the first graders were all imaginatively costumed as a favorite saint. I’m sure that for some the costume did double duty on Halloween, the night before.

In his homily Father told the kids that there are many more saints than we find in the official Church calendar, and that in fact, all of them are called to be saints. Then he addressed the adults sitting at the back saying his message was for us as well. “In fact,” he said, “some of you among us right now, may already be saints.”

Wow! That made me think – who might they be? What is the measure of a saint? How do we know if we are even moving toward that goal? Personally, I always feel like I’m crawling on hands and knees in my spiritual journey - with little progress. But the fact is, we are all called to be saints, and God would not issue a call like that if he did not mean it to be fulfilled. But we need to do our part too. How do we do this? Step by step, knowing God’s grace is there for us if only we ask for it.

One of the scribes came to Jesus and asked him, “Which is the first of all the commandments?” Jesus replied, “The first is this: Hear, O Israel! The Lord our God is Lord alone! You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind and with all your strength. Mark 12:28-30

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Blog Post October 28, 2018, Thirtieth Sunday of Ordinary Time

Who can ascend the mountain of the Lord? Or who may stand in his holy place? He whose hands are sinless, whose heart is clean, who desire not what is vain, he shall receive a blessing from the Lord, a reward from God his savior. Psalm 24:3-5

On Friday we will celebrate All Souls Day, the feast that comes just a day after All Saints Day. It is one of the few days where priests can celebrate more than two Masses. On All Souls Day we remember the dead with prayer, almsgiving, and Holy Mass, to obtain their release from Purgatory.

One writer describes it this way: “All Souls’ Day, then, brings together many crucial themes of Christian theology: divine justice and mercy; human responsibility and dignity; solidarity in prayer and suffering; life now viewed from the perspective of eternity, in a Church and a Lord which gather us up into that Mystical Body of His, truly a communion of saints whose bonds are not broken by death but actually fortified.”

This is a good time for us to remember all those who have died in our families and among our friends, and to pray for them. I’m comforted by the fact that the Church refers to them as “the holy souls in purgatory”, which reminds us they are well on the way to their destination in heaven.

“And this is the will of the one who sent me, that I should not lose anything of what he gave me, but that I should raise it on the last day. For this is the will of my Father, that everyone who sees the Son and believes in him may have eternal life, and I shall raise him on the last day.” John 6 :39-40

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Blog Post October 21, 2018, Twenty-ninth Sunday of Ordinary Time

Our Lord is great and almighty; his wisdom can never be measured. The Lord raises the lowly; he humbles the wicked to the dust. O sing to the Lord, giving thanks; sing psalms to our God with the harp. Psalm 147:5-7

Today we heard the gospel where James and John ask to sit at the right and left hand of Jesus when he comes into his glory. Astonishing that they would even be thinking about this after Jesus had told them earlier that he was to suffer and die in Jerusalem. Then I thought how we do the same thing all the time, putting ourselves first, in the center of our little world, immune to the suffering and needs of others. Later in this gospel Jesus makes it clear that to be great in his eyes is to serve, not to lord it over others. (Mark 10:35-45)

Sometimes we forget that these words of Jesus were meant as much for us today as for his disciples. One writer reminds us: “Regardless of what season of life you’re in, there are small, simple acts that can be done every day to serve those around you and ultimately, to serve Christ.” We need to remember that the smallest task when offered to God will help us develop a servant’s heart.

You know that those who are recognized as rulers over the Gentiles lord it over them, and their great ones make their authority over them felt. But is shall not be so among you. Rather, whoever wishes to be great among you will be your servant: whoever wishes to be first among you will be the slave of all. Mark 10:42-44

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Blog Post October 14, 2018, Twenty-eighth Sunday of Ordinary Time

He has given food to those who fear him; he will forever be mindful of his covenant. He has made known to his people the power of his works giving them the inheritance of the nation. Psalm 111:5-6

On Friday we heard the gospel of Luke (11:15-26). I’ve always been a little puzzled by the last part of this gospel where Jesus says:
“when an unclean spirit goes out of someone, it roams through arid regions searching for rest but, finding none, it says, “I shall return to my home from which I came”. But upon returning, it finds it swept clean and put in order. Then it goes and brings back seven other spirits more wicked than itself who move in and dwell there, and the last condition of that man is worse than the first.” (Luke 11:24-26)

It used to be that whenever I heard this gospel I was always side-tracked by the part where the unclean spirit returns to find the house ‘swept clean and put in order’. That sounds like a good thing, right? But then come the seven other evil spirits.

One scholar suggests that driving out an evil spirit is only half the job, that we can’t just leave ourselves empty. A stronger spirit must be invited in to prevent the evil spirit from coming back and bringing his friends. And of course, the stronger spirit is God himself.

Another scholar says without the demon’s presence the man’s life may have become more orderly, but it is still empty and there can be no emptiness, no neutrality in the spiritual battle. To be empty is to be vulnerable. Six months before Christ began His ministry, John the Baptist was preparing the way for him with his preaching. We know that people came from near and far to hear John and to receive his baptism of repentance. But by the time Christ came on the scene many of the hearts of these people had already grown cold. It is thought Jesus’ response to their emptiness was this parable of the evil spirit who returns to find the house ‘swept clean and put in order’.

So how do we keep our emptiness from allowing demons to enter? Jesus tells us how:
“I am the vine, you are the branches. Those who abide in me and I in them bear much fruit, because apart from me you can do nothing.” (John 15:5)

This week I will try to think about how to fill the emptiness of my own house instead of being satisfied that there aren’t any demons in residence.

When an unclean spirit goes out of someone, it roams through arid regions searching for rest but, finding none, it says, “I shall return to my home from which I came.” Luke 11:24

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Blog Post October 7, 2018, Twenty-seventh Sunday of Ordinary Time

I remember the days that are past: I ponder all our works. I muse on what your hand has wrought and to you I stretch out my hands. Like a parched land my soul thirsts for you. Psalm 143:5-6

Friday, October 5th was the feast of St. Faustina Kowalska who died in 1938 at the age of 33. Her apparitions of Jesus led to devotion to the Divine Mercy. Faustina wrote that the purpose for the prayers in the Chaplet of Divine Mercy are threefold: to obtain mercy, to trust in Christ's mercy, and to show mercy to others.

On April 30, 2000 Faustina was canonized a saint by Pope John Paul II who said the message she brought is “the appropriate and incisive answer that God wanted to offer to the questions and expectations of human beings in our time, marked by terrible tragedies. Pole John Paul II established the Feast of Divine Mercy to be celebrated on the first Sunday after Easter.

Much has changed in our world in the 18 years since Pope John Paul II said the need for Divine Mercy was great because the times were marked by “terrible tragedies”. Things have only gotten worse. The need for prayer is greater than ever before.

In the past 18 years many people have begun to pray The Chaplet of Divine Mercy. Some pray it for nine days as a novena, others pray the chaplet at 3:00pm in honor of the hour of Jesus’ death on the cross. But of course, the chaplet can be prayed at any time.

The Chaplet of Divine Mercy is recited on ordinary rosary beads. It begins with the Our Father, Hail Mary and the Apostles’ creed. Then on each of the Our Father beads we pray:

Eternal Father, I offer you the Body and Blood, Soul and Divinity of Your Dearly Beloved Son, Our Lord, Jesus Christ, in atonement for our sins and those of the whole world.

On each of the 10 “Hail Mary” beads, we pray:

For the sake of His sorrowful Passion, have mercy on us and on the whole world.

The concluding prayer is repeated three times:

Holy God, Holy Mighty One, Holy Immortal One, have mercy on us and on the whole world.

Often, I find myself simply repeating the prayer on the “Hail Mary” beads: “For the sake of His sorrowful Passion, have mercy on us and on the whole world.” I believe we need God’s mercy today more than at any other time in our history. The least we can do is ask for it.

By the tender mercy of our God, the dawn from on high will break upon us, to give light to those who sit in darkness and in the shadow of death to guide our feet into the way of peace. Luke 1:78-79

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Blog Post September30, 2018, Twenty-sixth Sunday of Ordinary Time

Because you have made the Lord your refuge, the Most High your dwelling place, no evil shall befall you, no scourge come near your tent. For he will command his angels concerning you to guard you in all your ways. On their hands they will bear you up, lest you dash your foot against a stone. Psalm 91:9-12

Yesterday was the feast of the Archangels Michael, Gabriel, and Raphael, which made me think about the role of angels in our lives. We know that each of us has our own guardian angel. The Catechism of the Catholic Church tells us: "Beside each believer stands an angel as protector and shepherd leading him to life." (CCC 336)

We’re used to thinking about angels on a personal level but if we look at scripture we see that angels have had a broader role in our world from the very beginning. After Adam sinned God “drove out the man; and at the east of the garden of Eden he placed the cherubim, and a sword flaming and turning to guard the way to the tree of life”. (Genesis 3:24)

Later it was an angel who announced to Mary that she was to be the mother of God, the beginning of our redemption. Finally, at the resurrection of Jesus it was an angel who rolled back the stone at his tomb and gave the women the joyous news: “Do not be afraid, for I know that you are looking for Jesus, who was crucified. He is not here; he has risen. (Matthew 28:2-5)

As I think about these things I ponder what do angels mean to you and me in our everyday life? For myself I see them as a bridge to God. Knowing that I have my own guardian angel is like having channels of grace flowing from God into my heart. I still pray the little Guardian angel poem I learned in grade school:

Angel of God, my guardian dear
to whom God's love commits me here.
Ever this day be at my side
to light and guard to rule and guide. Amen

The word “Angel” means messenger. This week I’ll remind myself that angels are indeed the messengers of God and that we are too when we speak with prudence and charity.

And suddenly there was a great earthquake; for an angel of the Lord, descending from heaven, came and rolled back the stone and sat on it. His appearance was like lightning, and his clothing white as snow. For fear of him the guards shook and became like dead men. Matthew 28:2-4

Email whether or not the following suggestion helps you think what angels might be. Messages from other people's intelligence come to our intelligence via input on our senses. Messages from God's intelligence come to our intelligence directly. That function of God's intelligence acting directly on ours is the function of God we call angels

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Blog Post September 23, 2018, Twenty-fifth Sunday of Ordinary Time

God is the shield that protects me, who saves the upright of heart. God is a just judge slow to anger; but he threatens the wicked every day, men who will not repent. Psalm 7:10-12

Last week was going to be a busy one for me. I was scheduled to participate in a bible study group on Monday and on Friday I was going to leave for the LCG weekend retreat at Gethsemane Abbey in Kentucky. None of that happened. I suddenly got very sick on Monday – tests on Thursday ruled out the worst but there was no way I could manage the four-hour drive to Gethsemani.

It’s awful to feel that sick. It brings home my total dependence on things beyond my control – it’s scary and humbling. Yet there was good in it. I saw how easy it is to be kind and loving, forgiving and generous with those around us when we are feeling happy and life is going our way. I did not feel very kind and loving last week. It made me realize how little credit I can take for any good when everything is going well. I thought of all the people who are poor and sick and even homeless, and how sometimes they seem demanding or crabby with our efforts to help them. For a few days I got to walk in their shoes.

Fr. Bede Jarrett writes: *”…the worse our natural temperament is, the better for us…for it is surely highly probable that, if I had a good temper, I would be obliging and kind, not from any supernatural motive but from sheer nature.”

Much as I hate missing the LCG weekend retreat at Gethsemane, being sick has given me much to think about.

But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in My name, He will teach you all things, and bring to your remembrance all things that I said to you... Do not let your hearts be troubled, and do not let them be afraid. John 14:26-27

*Magnificat, Vol 20, p.306

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Blog Post September 16, 2018, Twenty-fourth Sunday of Ordinary Time

Commit your life to the Lord, trust in him and he will act, so that your justice breaks forth like the light, your cause like the noon-day sun. Be still before the Lord and wait in Patience. Psalm 37:5-7

On Friday we celebrated the Feast of the Exaltation of the Cross. The true cross was lost to us until Saint Helena, mother of the Roman Emperor Constantine, went to Jerusalem in search of the holy places of Christ’s life. She discovered the cross on September 14, 326. Workers at the site found three crosses during their excavation. Legend has it that the one on which Jesus died was revealed when its touch healed a dying woman. Constantine built the Church of the Holy Sepulcher on the site of the discovery of the true cross. Both Catholic and Orthodox churches celebrate the Exaltation of the Cross on September 14th. The feast entered the Western calendar in the seventh century.

I was surprised to learn that in the early days of the Church the cross seldom appeared in Christian art. It must have been hard for those who knew the cross only as an instrument of torture and humiliation to suddenly switch gears to see it as a sign of triumph and glory. Today the cross is sometimes described as “a symbolic summary of the Passion, Crucifixion and Resurrection of Christ — all in one image”.

The reality of the cross in our lives is that Jesus himself tell us we must take up our cross and carry it if we want to be his follower. He never said it would be easy, but we know he will never give us more than we can bear.

Whenever I feel my cross is too heavy I think of the story about the man who complained so much about the weight of his cross that he was allowed to enter the storeroom of crosses to choose his own. Once inside he went from cross to cross, trying each of them out and rejecting each in turn – they were too heavy, or too long, or they would not fit his shoulder. Finally, as he was about to leave, he caught sight of a cross near the door that was perfect for him – it was not until he was outside that he realized this was the same cross he come in with.

He summoned the crowd with his disciples and said to them: “Whoever wishes to come after me must deny himself, take up his cross, and follow me. For whoever wishes to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake and that of the gospel will save it.” Mark 8:34-35

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Blog Post September 9, 2018, Twenty-Third Sunday of Ordinary Time

I turned every way, but there was no one to help me, I looked for one to sustain me, but could find no one. But then I remembered the mercies of the Lord, his kindness through ages past; For he saves those who take refuge in him and rescues them from every evil. Sirach 51:6-8

On Friday we had a “First Friday Day of Penance” at our church. The purpose was to, in the words of Pope Francis, “Come before the Lord and our wounded brothers and sisters as sinners imploring forgiveness and the grace of shame and conversion.”

This is a hard time for Catholics as the scandals unfold of bishops and even Cardinals who were involved in one way or another with the sexual misconduct of priests in God’s Holy Church. I think Bishop Robert Barron voiced the feelings of most of us in his response, “We're all devastated by the horrific suffering of these many victims, and we're all wondering what to do next.” In his video Bishop Barron responds to the question of what to do next, urging us to recommit ourselves to Christ – to return to our spiritual resources – to the Gospel, to Mass, to prayer.

This is what we tried to do at Immaculate Conception Church on Friday. After morning Mass confessions were heard and there was Exposition and Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament until 7:30 p.m. At 3:00 p.m. the Divine Mercy Chaplet was sung. At 7:30p.m. the day of prayer and penance closed with Benediction. It is consoling to know that when all else fails God is with us, that in these hardest of times, we can call upon Him.

I baptize you with water for repentance, but one who is more powerful than I is coming after me; I am not worthy to carry his sandals. He will baptize you with the Holy Spirit and fire. His winnowing fork is in his hand, and he will clear his threshing floor and will gather his wheat into the granary; but the chaff he will burn with unquenchable fire.” Matthew 3:11-12

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Blog Post September 2, 2018, Twenty-Second Sunday of Ordinary Time

But see, the eyes of the Lord are upon those who fear him, upon those who hope for his kindness, to deliver them from death and preserve them in spite of famine. Our soul waits for the Lord, who is our help and our shield. Psalm33:18-20

We are all so familiar with the gospel of the talents that we heard at Mass yesterday (Mt 25:14-20) that we tend to see it in the same unchanging way. The story is pretty straight forward. God gives each of us our talents – some a great deal and some just a smidgen – but whatever He gives is up to Him. Our job is to make the best use of those talents.

I read a slightly different take on this parable in “Magnificat” that made me see it in a new way. The writer suggested the talents aren’t the personal skills or abilities we are born with. Instead: “The talents are something added to our life out of mercy of the Master…Jesus Christ is the One whom the Master hands over to us. The talents are Christ.”

I’m still trying to wrap my head around that. But the more I think about it, the more I see the “talents” as God’s grace which is purely gift. I think it is grace that prompts us to use our individual skills and abilities to offer help and kindness beyond the basics of ordinary human interaction. It is our responsibility to use that grace to the best of our ability.

Someone once wrote “As Christians, we have additionally the most valuable resource of all – the Word of God. If we believe and understand Him, and apply His Word as good stewards, we are a blessing to others and the value of what we do multiplies.” St. Paul tells us we are aided by the fruit of the Holy Spirit, “love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control”. (Galatians 5: 22-23)

I remind myself that in the parable of the talents the slaves have not earned the five, two or one talent from the master. They were given to them. So it is with us and grace. We will all be held accountable for the use of it.

All good giving and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no alteration or shadow caused by change. He willed to give us birth by the word of truth that we may be a kind of first fruits of his creatures. James 1:17-18

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Blog Post August 26, 2018, Twenty-First Sunday of Ordinary Time

Many are the troubles of the just one, but out of them all the Lord delivers him: he watches over all his bones; not one of them shall be broken. Evil will slay the wicked; the foes of the just will be condemned. Psalm 34:19-21

In a homily on Matthew St. John Chrysostom wrote: “It took the power of Christ to free men from the corruption caused by sin; it was the task of the apostles through strenuous labor to keep that corruption from returning.”*

Those words struck home in Monday’s reading from the Prophet Ezekiel where God commands him to say to the House of Israel: “I will now desecrate my sanctuary…the sons and daughters you left behind shall fall by the sword…you shall rot away because of your sins…" Ezekiel (24:15-24).

I tremble at those words. How depraved and decayed that civilization had become for God’s wrath be loosened on it with such fury. The other day a friend was lamenting the fact that you can’t tell a Catholic from the rest of the population anymore. We used to be set apart by some dramatic differences – starting with things like no birth control, no divorce, no meat on Friday and always Mass on Sunday. I think of the courageous tasks begun by the apostles and carried through the centuries “through strenuous labor to keep the corruption from returning”, and I look around to see that as with the Israelites, corruption has returned in us full force. What can we do? It’s easy to get discouraged at the corruption of our day – to think we can do nothing may be our greatest temptation. When the apostles asked Jesus why they could not cure the boy possessed by a demon he replied, “This kind can be cast out only by prayer. (Mark 9:14-29)

Those words speak to me today. I remind myself that prayer is the most important thing we can do to stave off the corruption of our times. The second most important is to work to let our lights shine in the darkness. We’re all in this together. Jesus said to the twelve, “Will you also go away?”

Simon Peter answered him, “Lord, to whom shall we go? You have the words of eternal life; and we have believed, and have come to know, that you are the Holy One of God.”John 6:67-69

* liturgy of the Hours, p.121, Vol. 4

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Does not wisdom call, and does not understanding raise her voice? On the heights, beside the way, at the crossroads she takes her stand; beside the gates in front of the town, at the entrance of the portals she cries out: “To you, O people, I call, and my cry is to all that live. Proverbs 8:1-4

A few months back I had to get a new computer. My old one did not have Windows 10, the latest operating system. The problem is with all its bells and whistles Windows 10 means learning a lot of new stuff – and being faced with stuff I never knew was out there. Did you know you can instantly download the whole collection of emojis with a click of your computer and speak your writing instead of typing it?

According to Wikipedia, as of November 2017, Windows 10 is running on more than 600 million devices. I ask myself, what are we doing with all these devices? Are we making our lives more meaningful or surrounding ourselves with a world of our own creation with ourselves at the center? I’m finding the greatest challenge with my new computer is deciding to say “no”. There is so much out there – much that is very good and very beautiful – but all of it takes my time away from the things I need to do. Fr. Ronald Roheiser writes, “Every choice is a thousand renunciations. To choose one thing is to turn one’s back on many others.”

Every time I sit down at my computer I remind myself to exert the discipline to skip what I do not need to know. This week as I investigate the ability of my new computer I need to ponder: “As long as it is day, we must do the works of him who sent me. Night is coming, when no one can work.” (John 9:4)

Brothers and sisters: Watch carefully how you live, not as foolish persons but as wise, making the most of the opportunity, because the days are evil. Therefore, do not continue in ignorance, but try to understand what is the will of the Lord. Ephesians 5:15-17

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Blog Post August 12, 2018, Nineteenth Sunday of Ordinary Time

A clean heart create for me, O God, and a steadfast spirit renew within me. Cast me not out from your presence, and your Holy Spirit take not from me. Give me back the joy of your salvation, and a willing spirit sustain in me. Psalm 51:10-12

On Thursday we heard the gospel where Jesus tells Peter he is the rock upon which he will build his Church. No matter how many times I’ve heard that gospel, I’m always a little shocked at what comes next. When Jesus tells his disciples he will suffer greatly and be killed, Peter – the rock on which our Church is built – rebukes him for saying such a thing! Jesus responds, “You are thinking not as God does, but as human beings do.”

It’s easy to focus our attention on Peter’s weakness – one moment he is given the keys to holiness and in the next he’s tempting the Lord. How could Peter be so blind when so much was given to him? But then I think of how much is given to us in Christ’s church, and wonder if that gift is reflected in our lives when we come up against suffering and hard times. Not only for ourselves but how do we respond to the suffering of others?

Our world is filled with quick solutions. As a Christian I need to keep Jesus’ words before me: “You are thinking not as God does, but as human beings do.” And act accordingly.

Then Peter took Jesus aside and began to rebuke him, “God forbid, Lord! No such think shall ever h appen to you.” He turned and said to Peter, “Get behind me Satan! You are an obstacle to me. You are thinking not as God does, but as human beings do.” Matthew 16:22-23

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Blog Post August 5, 2018, Eighteenth Sunday of Ordinary Time

Open to me the gates of holiness: I shall enter through them, I will enter and give thanks. This is the Lord’s own gate where the just may enter. I will thank you, for you have answered and you are my savior. Psalm 118:19-21

Last week I visited a woman with Alzheimer’s disease who I’ve been seeing in a nursing home for the past year. On this visit Kay surprised me by asking me why I had changed my name. She insisted I was no longer “Marge”, but “Char”, an old friend who was her boyfriend’s sister many years ago. In Kay’s eyes there is no more “Marge” – now I was only “Char” with a history unknown to me.

I’ve been thinking about that visit with Kay and asking myself why I found it such an unsettling experience. The fact is sometimes we forget how dependent we are on how others see us, how we know ourselves more deeply through their eyes. Whether we are aware of it or not, the people we choose to pay attention to and consider friends frame our reality. They are a barometer of what is normal, what is possible – an affirmation of who we are.

Our ‘self’ is constantly in the process of development. The way people see us can bring out the best or worst in us. That’s why parents are so careful about who their kids hang out with. But it’s not just copying behavior. We do not exist in a vacuum. Others can bring out the best (or worst) in us. One of the burdens of old age is the loss of those who have known us for many years, who help to validate who we are, to keep us with a solid center.

When I think about being known, I think of the words of Isaiah: “I have called you by name; you are Mine. (Isaiah 43:1) The joy of faith is knowing that Jesus sees us as we are and if we listen, brings out the best in us. I ask myself what did Jesus see in Matthew when he called him from his seat at the tax collector’s table?

This week I ask myself ‘what does Jesus see in me?’ – and try to live up to it.

When the Pharisees saw this, they said to his disciples, “Why does your teacher eat with tax collectors and sinners?” But when he heard this, he said, “Those who are well have no need of a physician, but those who are sick. Go and learn what this means, ‘I desire mercy, not sacrifice.’ Matthew 9:11-13

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Blog Post July 29, 2018 Seventeenth Sunday of Ordinary Time

Though I walk in the midst of trouble, you preserve me against the wrath of my enemies; you stretch out your hand, and your right hand delivers me. The Lord will fulfill his purpose for me; your steadfast love, O Lord, endures forever. Psalm 138:7-8

In last Thursday’s gospel the disciples asked Jesus why he spoke to the crowd in parables. He replied, "Because knowledge of the mysteries of the Kingdom of heaven has been granted to you, but to them it has not been granted.” (Matthew 13:10-11)

In his commentary on Thursday’s gospel Bishop Barron wrote “Many parables are strange and initially off-putting and puzzling.” Then he says something I find very enlightening as I sometimes grapple with the lessons they offer. “Of course, that is the point of parables: to bother us, throw us off base, confuse us a bit… Why? Because in many cases stories reveal truth that arguments can’t quite capture.”

This morning I thought of Bishop Barron’s word as an odd sequence of events unfolded in my office. I had scarcely settled in my chair to begin my meditation when a cool breeze swept in I and got up to close the window. Unfortunately, at the instant I was closing it my little cat leapt onto the sill to watch the birds. He was knocked to the floor and tore out of the room as though he thought I was trying to kill him. I tried to resume my mediation but couldn’t get the image of that poor little cat out of my mind. So I opened the window again and was glad to see him saunter in behind me. But instead of leaping to the window, the little cat resolutely curled up in my chair. There was nothing to do but gently pick him up and place him on the windowsill. But I had scarcely sat down when my little cat leapt from the sill in a huff and strode out the door.

One lesson for me in that little incident is that despite all the good will in the world I may not be helping those I want to help the most. The help I offer is not the help they want – there are misunderstandings, hard feelings. Sometimes I think I am helping and I miss the mark.

It also makes me think about the many ways that God offers us his help – ways that we do not understand. How often we totally miss the point that what happens in our life may be God’s answer our prayers.

But blessed are your eyes, for they see, and your ears, for they hear. Truly I tell you, many prophets and righteous people longed to see what you see, but did not see it, and to hear what you hear, but did not hear it. Matthew 10:16-17

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Blog Post July 22, 2018, Sixteenth Sunday of Ordinary Time

Give me Wisdom, the attendant at your throne, and reject me not from among your children; for I am your servant the son of your handmaid, a man weak and short-lived and lacking in comprehension of judgment and of laws. Wisdom 9:4-5

As I start my morning meditation, I ask myself, ‘why the great appeal of meditation these days?’ It seems everyone is trying to find some method to get away from themselves, to make life more bearable. It’s an old problem, with an old history.

We know that the price of our original ‘Fall from Grace’ is a sense of something basic being out of order in our lives. The practice of meditation is an effort to restore that order. It takes a lot of forms. Meditation has been practiced since antiquity as part of numerous religious traditions and beliefs – whether yoga from ancient India or lectio from the monastic tradition, meditation seeks to tap into that deep inner center where God dwells in each of us.

It seems that the more we live on the surface of life and the more superficial we see the values around us, the more we hunger to get to that center.

I’ve always been touched by the story of Anthony of the Desert (ca. 251–356) the son of wealthy parents who inherited everything on their deaths when he was twenty. One day in church he heard the Gospel words to the rich young man: "If thou wilt be perfect, go and sell all thou hast and give to the poor, and thou shalt have treasure in heaven: and come and follow me.” He was so moved he disposed of all his property and goods and headed for the desert. For the next fifteen years he lived in a tomb and after that moved to an abandoned Roman fort where he spent 20 years engaged in prayer and penance. Most of what we know about Anthony comes from a biography written around 360 by Athanasius of Alexandria. He tells us when Anthony was finally persuaded to come out of his enclosure (to direct a colony of ascetics drawn to the same life) he appeared, to everyone’s amazement, to look exactly the same as when he had gone in twenty years before.

Anthony was not the first Christian hermit, but from the middle of the fourth century he was regarded as the founder and father of Christian monasticism. Newman’s Church of the Fathers notes this of Anthony: "His doctrine was pure and unimpeachable; and his temper is high and heavenly…”

Meditation bears marvelous fruit. A wise person wrote: “Give an hour to reflection and prayer no matter how busy you are. No one is too busy to eat, nor too busy to feed his soul."

Remain in me, as I remain in you says the Lord. Whoever remains in me, and I in him, bears fruit in plenty. John 15:4-5

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Blog Post July 15, 2018, Fifteenth Sunday of Ordinary Time

How long, O Lord, will you forget me? How long will you hide your face? How long must I bear grief in my soul, this sorrow in my heart day and night? How long shall my enemy prevail? Psalm 13:1-2

In a recent homily on Jesus’ casting out demons, Father suggested we take a long hard look at our own demons, those dark places we do not want to think about, that we tend to side-step as though they do not exist. He suggests the best way to come face to face with them is in the sort of examination of conscience we do before confession. Except if we want to make any headway in shedding those dark places in ourselves we need to examine our conscience every single day. But naming the demons is just the first step – the next is work and prayer.

The thing about demons is that they have a way of keeping themselves off our radar. I was thinking about this as I began an internet search for a writing project and half an hour later was still immersed in some postings that were completely irrelevant. Was that really so bad? Is there anything wrong with watching a few cat videos or checking some Face book postings?

Marshall McLuhan who coined the phrase “the medium is the message” was famous for his study of the cultural effects of media – and its dangers. I think the Internet has brought a whole new occasion of sin into our midst. It may start small – perhaps with a waste of time – but quickly can escalate into gossip, bullying, pornography. Someone said that instead of the Christian goal of humility the internet supports “a culture obsessed with watching others look at us”.

Marshall McLuhan wrote: “There is a deep-seated repugnance in the human breast against understanding the processes in which we are involved... Such understanding involves far too much responsibility for our actions.” I take that to mean we don’t want to look too closely at our choices – it would make us far too responsible for the results.

McLuhan died in 1980. In 1964 he wrote, “Understanding Media: the Extensions of Man”, a book that warned against many of the things we’re encountering today with the exponential growth of technology. My prayer this week is that I will keep in mind the fact that time is a gift – every day is an opportunity to cast out my hidden demons, to work out my salvation. The time I waste is fodder for those demons.

Behold, I am sending you like sheep in the midst of wolves; so be shrewd as serpents and simple as doves. But beware of men, for they will hand you over to the courts and scourge you in their synagogues, and you will be led before governors and kings for my sake as a witness before them and the pagans. Matthew 10:16-18

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Blog Post July 8, 2018, Fourteenth Sunday of Ordinary Time

Have pity on us, O Lord, have pity on us, for we are more than sated with contempt; our souls are more than sated with the mockery of the arrogant, with the contempt of the proud. Psalm 123:3-4

St. John Bosco, founder of the Salesian order devoted to the education of youth, had this advice about the road to sanctity. He said instead of looking for special penances we should focus on the acceptance of everyday sufferings – “heat, cold, sickness, and other people’s tiresome ways.”

Dealing with those ‘tiresome ways’ is no small thing. I’m reminded of St. Theresa of Lisieux and how the holy sisters in her convent helped her on the path to sainthood, whether with the rattling of a sister’s rosary or the accidental splashing of water in her face in the laundry. All of it became part of her “little way” to God. Our life is full of little irritants – someone has the TV on too loud, or they talk with their eyes glued to their smart phone, or they contradict everything we say - one way or another they ‘rub us the wrong way’. For most of us the road to holiness will be a humble one – no heads lopped off or lions in the arena. Instead it is in the little trials of our daily life that we will learn little by little to reshape our fallen self into the image God has of what we are to be.

And they took offense at him. Jesus said to them, “A prophet is not without honor except in his native place and among his own kind in his own house.” So he was not able to perform any mighty deed there, apart from curing a few sick people by laying his hands on them. Mark 6:3-5

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Blog Post July 1, Thirteenth Sunday of Ordinary Time

The Lord heard my cry. He drew me out of the pit of destruction, out of the mud of the swamp; he set my feet upon a crag; he made firm my steps. And he put a new song into my mouth, a hymn to our God. Psalm 40:2-4

I’ve heard many homilies based on the way Jesus’ instructions turn our normal view of things upside down – “Do good to those who hate you – love your enemies – turn the other cheek”. All of this is in dramatic oppositon to our basic inclinations. Yet we try – sometimes it’s harder than others.

Last week a woman called St. Vincent de Paul about a sad situation – one that is all too familiar to its members. The request was in behalf of a young homeless woman whose small daughter had been sick for some time. The woman had gathered together enough money for the down payment on an apartment but the cost of her child’s sickness meant she could not pay the first month’s rent. If it wasn’t paid immediately the apartment would go to someone else and she would lose the deposit. The caller said she had talked to the landlord who agreed to wait two more days for the check.

Charles and another SVdP member met the caller and the child’s mother at her day care center to verify the situation. They then gave the rental check to the caller who said she would give it to the landlord. The next day Charles got an email that this was a scam that had targeted other parishes as well.

So how is a person to react to this sort of thing? For some it incites anger against the poor, for others bitterness, and always there is the feel of being taken as a fool – one should have known better. The fact is sometimes one will be scammed in helping people – Jesus never said it would be easy to follow his way. But in the process of following that way we are is gradually having the dirt on our soul burnished away to make it shine. The issue is not about others – it is about us – about the process of our transformation to make our way through the narrow gate.

St. Gregory of Nyssa writes: “When the mists of sin no longer cloud the eye of your soul, you see that blessed vision clearly in the peace and purity of you own heart. That vision is nothing else than the holiness, the purity, the simplicity and all the other glorious reflections of God’s nature, through which God himself is seen.”*

According to his promise we await new heavens and a new earth in which righteousness dwells. Therefore, beloved, since you await these things, be eager to be found without spot or blemish before him, at peace. And consider the patience of our Lord as salvation. (2 Peter 3:13-15)

*Liturgy of the Hours, Vol. 3, P.412

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Blog Post June 24, 2018, Twelfth Sunday of Ordinary Time, The Nativity of John the Baptist

The Lord swore to David a firm promise from which he will not withdraw: “Your own offspring I will set upon your throne. Psalm 132:11

Today notes the beginning of the fulfillment of God’s promise for our redemption – the birth of John the Baptist. In another six months we will celebrate the birth of Jesus. It is the beginning of a new era in man’s relationship with God. But as we approach this milestone I’m struck by Friday’s Old Testament reading. It tells of the murder of the children of the royal family by Athaliah, a worshipper of Baal who was determined to gain power after her son died. But one boy was safely whisked away and raised in the temple until seven years later when he was crowned king – and Ahaziah was slain. We read that after her death “all the people of the land went to the temple of Baal and demolished it”. (2 Kings 11)

The good news was that the people returned to God. The bad news is that it did not take them long to lapse into their old ways and drift away from him once more. By the time John the Baptist was born we hear over and over how the people have fallen away from the worship of God. Then God sends John to make way for the coming of his son. I would have thought when the people saw the wonders of Jesus in his public life they would be so filled with faith and piety that the whole world would drop to its knees at God’s feet. Instead we crucified him.

I’m reminded of the 1955 Pete Seeger song “Where Have all the Flowers Gone?” It’s a melancholy description of the cycle of life – flowers grow in fields – young girls pick the flowers – they marry – their husbands become soldiers – the soldiers are killed and their graves become a field of flowers. It’s an anti-war song in which the key line is “When will they ever learn, when will they ever learn?” I think about our troubled world today, about how much we have turned our back on God and ask myself the same question: When will we ever learn?

The thing is time is running out. I look around and it feels like we’re losing ground. So what are we to do in such hopeless times? When the disciples asked Jesus why they could not cast the demon out of the boy brought to them, he answered, “This kind cannot come out, except by prayer.” (Mark 9:29) And so it is for us – we need to pray.

And what else? St. Katharine Drexel writes: “Peacefully do at each moment what at that moment ought to be done. If we do what each moment requires, we will eventually complete God’s plan, whatever it is. We can trust God to take care of the master plan when we take care of the details.”

You, my child, shall be called the prophet of the Most High; for you will go before the Lord to prepare his way, to give his people knowledge of salvation by the forgiveness of their sins. Luke 1:76-77

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Blog Post June 17, 2018, Eleventh Sunday of Ordinary Time

It is good to give thanks to the Lord, to sing praise to your name, Most High, to proclaim your kindness at dawn and your faithfulness throughout the night. Psalm 92:1-2

Our church in Columbus, Immaculate Conception, is settling into a new normal. The Wednesday children’s Masses came to an end with summer vacation and our daily Masses have been moved (for much needed renovations) to the gathering space. Today will be the last Sunday Mass in our church until Advent. We will soon find out how much the externals of a “sacred space” are involved in our internal sense of the sacred.

The altar, tabernacle and pulpit sit on a stage made for that purpose and rows of chairs are carefully spaced for parishioners. Without kneelers we will sit or stand at Mass, except for the Consecration.

I’m a little embarrassed to admit I was tempted to check out the daily Masses in nearby churches. It was a passing fancy. This is the time we need to help each other both by example and by working together to make this space into a sacred one.

What makes a sacred place? The key thing about a sacred space is that you choose it. According to the dictionary “A sacred place is first of all a defined place, a space distinguished from other spaces.” It goes on to say the rituals people practice in that space mark its sacredness.

Sacred spaces can be anywhere. Many of us create a sacred space in our homes – I have one in my office. The icon and crucifix above my bookcase define it as the place where I pray and meditate twice a day. When I enter that space I am drawn into a deeper sacred space, my inner self. In those times I find it difficult to pray or meditate I’m consoled by St. Paul’s words: The Spirit helps us in our weakness; for we do not know how to pray as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with sighs too deep for words. (Romans: 26)

In the months to come I need to remember that the gathering space is the new sacred space for our community, the space where all of us raise our voices to God as one – and know that he will hear us even without the kneelers.

To what shall we compare the kingdom of God, or what parable can we use for it? It is like a mustard seed that, when it is sown in the ground is the smallest of all seeds on the earth. But once it is sown, it springs up and becomes the largest of plants and puts forth large branches, so that the birds of the sky can dwell in its shade.

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Blog Post June 10, 2018, Tenth Sunday of Ordinary Time

After the man, Adam, had eaten of the tree, the Lord God called to the man and asked of him, “where are you?” He answered, “I heard you in the garden; but I was afraid, because I was naked, so I hid myself.” Genesis 3:9-10

No Posting for today. We have been traveling the past week.

Amen, I say to you, all sins and all blasphemies that people utter will be forgiven them. But whoever blasphemes against the Holy Spirit will never have forgiveness, but is guilty of an everlasting sin.

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Blog Post June 3, 2018, Feast of Corpus Christi

He rained down manna for the people to eat; he gave them the grain of heaven. Human beings ate the bread of angels; he sent them all the food they could eat. Psalm 78:24-25

Today we celebrate the Feast of Corpus Christi – the Solemnity of the Most Holy Body and Blood of Christ.

I love the Feast of Corpus Christi – partly because it always feels like the start of summer. After the 11:30 Mass at church this morning, we will have our annual Corpus Christi Procession which will end with Benediction at the Marian grotto. This is followed by a picnic for all of those (and their families) who have been a part of Perpetual Eucharistic Adoration at Immaculate Conception.

The endurance of this devotion at our church still amazes me, that each and every hour of each and every day there is someone offering prayers before the Eucharist in the Adoration Chapel of the old convent. This devotion first began at Immaculate Conception in August of 2002 – and has continued uninterrupted, with the Eucharist exposed on the Altar 24 hours a day. Charles and I have been a part of this devotion from the beginning. For me it’s pretty easy to fit the hour into my schedule – my designated time is Wednesday afternoon from 2:00 to 3:00 pm. But Charles amazes me with his faithfulness to his hour which is also on Wednesday – at 2:00 to 3:00 in the morning!

Although we celebrate the institution of the Eucharist on Holy Thursday, that liturgy also celebrates Christ's washing of the disciples' feet and the institution of the priesthood. With so many events honored on that day the Church decided the Holy Eucharist should have a day all its own and the Feast of Corpus Christi was formally instituted by Pope Urban IV in 1264. Thomas Acquinas composed this beautiful sequence capturing the essence of the celebration:

Behold the Bread of Angels,
For us pilgrims food, and token
Of the promise by Christ spoken…

On Holy Thursday the gift of the Eucharist is always mingled with sorrow knowing that Jesus will soon be crucified for our sins. But the Feast of Corpus Christi focuses on the pure joy of the gift of the Body and Blood of Christ that is there for us each and every day at Holy Mass. Truly an event to celebrate with joy.

Whoever eats my flesh and drinks my blood remains in me and I in him. Just as the living Father sent me, and I have life because of the Father, so also the one who feeds on me will have life because of me. This is the bread that came down from heaven. Unlike your ancestors who ate and still died; whoever eats this bread will live forever. John 56-58

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Blog Post May 27, 2018, Feast of the Most Holy Trinity

Now with you is Wisdom, who knows your works and was present when you made the world; who understands what is pleasing in your eyes and what is conformable with your commands. Send her forth from your holy heavens. Wisdom 9:9-10

The Trinity is indeed a sacred mystery. The Church presents this not as a riddle, but rather a reality above our human comprehension that we ultimately must know through worship, symbol, and faith. As I try to digest this, I am helped by the comment that mystery is not a wall to run up against, but an ocean in which to swim.

For me Trinity Sunday is a time to return to thoughts on Pentecost Sunday – a time to dwell a bit more on the Holy Spirit. God our creator and Jesus our redeemer seem so much more real to me than God the Holy Spirit, our sanctifier. I keep searching for ways to wrap my mind around the Holy Spirit, especially in his description as “the fire of love”.

In her book “Houses of Hospitality” Dorothy Day wrote, “Love and ever more love is the solution to every problem that comes up. If we love each other enough we will bear with each other’s faults and burdens. If we love enough, we are going to light that fire (of the Holy Spirit) in the hearts of others, and it is love that will burn out the sins and hatreds that sadden us ... I cannot worry too much about your sins and miseries when I have so many of mine own. I can only love you all, poor fellow travelers, fellow sufferers. I do not want to add one last straw to the burden you already carry.”

Thomas Merton, a great admirer of Dorothy Day, wrote in one of his many letters to her (29 in the last ten years of his life), “If there were no Catholic Worker and such forms of witness, I would never have joined the Catholic Church.” *

It’s thought-provoking to read the exchange between these two converts to the Catholicism – one a Trappist monk, the other a social activist. Through their writings Thomas Merton and Dorothy Day emphasized that the Christian is not only to witness to the presence of the Spirit to those outside the Church, but also to look for and to find the Spirit already present in other cultures and religious traditions. This statement of Merton is especially relevant as we face issues of immigration: “If we cannot see the Spirit unexpectedly in the stranger and the foreigner, we will not understand the Spirit even within the Church.”

On this Trinity Sunday I am inspired by Dorothy Day’s words: “My prayer from day to day is that the Holy Spirit will so enlarge my heart that I will see you all, and live with you all, in his love.”

After Jesus was baptized, he came up from the water and behold, the heavens were opened (for him), and he saw the Spirit of God descending like a dove (and) coming upon him. And a voice came from the heavens, saying, “This is my beloved Son with whom I am well pleased”. Matthew 3:16-17

*Hidden Ground of Love: The Letters of Thomas Merton

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Blog Post May 20, 2018 ,Pentecost Sunday

When the spirit from on high is poured out on us, then will the desert become an orchard and the orchard be regarded as a forest. Right will dwell in the desert and justice abide in the orchard. Isaiah 32:15-16

One of most profound doctrines of our faith is that of the Holy Spirit, the Spirit of Truth sent to dwell among us. This is what we celebrate on the Feast of Pentecost. With the descent of the Holy Spirit on the apostles Jesus is able to continue his work among us without the restrictions of time and place imposed by his physical body.

What is that work of the Holy Spirit? I used to think of it mostly in a macro way – a formal founding of God’s Church on earth with the powerful scene of the apostles speaking in tongues to the crowd gathered from many nations. But the Holy Spirit also speaks to each of us individually – teaching, inspiring, and shaping us to become what God intended at the moment of our creation. It’s up to us to pay attention. We are all called to different jobs in God’s world and the work of the Spirit is to help us do that job in the best possible way. St. Paul tells us we all have different kinds of gifts and all of them are the work of the same Spirit. (1 Corinthians 12)

On April 9, 2018, Pope Francis released his third apostolic exhortation “Gaudete et exsultate”* to address the universal call to holiness in a practical way for us today. He writes “We should not grow discouraged before examples of holiness that appear unattainable…. The important thing is that each believer discern his or her own path, that they bring out the very best of themselves, the most personal gifts that God has placed in their hearts rather than hopelessly trying to imitate something not meant for them”.

Pope Francis repeats the call of Jesus that all of us are to be holy as our heavenly Father is holy – that all of us are all called to holiness in our ordinary lives. He counsels us to “live our lives in love” and “bear witness” to God in all we do – to be the “saints next door”.

This would be a hopeless task without the Holy Spirit whose feast we celebrate today. St. Cryil of Alexandria writes that with the Holy Spirit in us, “it is quite natural for people who had been absorbed by the things of this world to become entirely other worldly in outlook, and for cowards to become people of great courage.”

These are the thoughts for us to keep in mind as we leave the Easter Season behind and prepare ourselves for the liturgy of Ordinary Time.

The Spirit too helps us in our weakness, for we do not know how to pray as we ought; but the Spirit himself makes intercession for us with groaning that cannot be expressed in speech. Romans 8:26-27

*“Rejoice and Be Glad”, from Matthew 5:12

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Blog Post May 13, 2018, Seventh Sunday of Easter, Feast of the Ascension of the Lord

All you peoples, clap your hands, shout to God with cries of gladness. For the Lord, the most High, the awesome, is the great king over all the earth. Psalm 47:1-2

Thursday was the Feast of the Ascension of the Lord – but in most dioceses in the U.S. it is celebrated on the following Sunday – as it will be celebrated today at Immaculate Conception Church.

The blog I wrote for the Ascension last year expresses my thoughts on this celebration so well, that I am repeating it today. I hope it will give you something to think about, as it does me.

I’ve always thought of the Ascension as the public triumph of Jesus proving to the world he was indeed the Son of God. Even as I write these words “triumph” and “proving”, I realize how much I’m affected by the same values as those of the people who crucified him.

What is the real meaning of the Ascension? What does it mean for you and me?

Pope Benedict XVI writes:

“The meaning of Christ’s Ascension expresses our belief that in Christ the humanity that we all share has entered into the inner life of God in a new and hitherto unheard of way. It means that man has found an everlasting place in God.”

St. John Paul II wrote:

”And renew your faith today in the promise of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has gone to prepare a place for us so that he can come back again and take us to himself.”

This seems pretty straight forward until I read in St. Augustine:

“For just as he remained with us even after his ascension, so we too are already in heaven with him, even though what is promised us has not yet been fulfilled in our bodies.”

I’m filled with awe as I think about these words even though I don’t understand them. I guess that is part of the human condition – to endure the lack of clarity and keep trying. I take comfort in the words of St. Anselm of Canterbury,
“I do not seek to understand that I may believe, but I believe in order to understand.”

They said, “Men of Galilee, why do you stand looking up toward heaven? This Jesus, who has been taken up from you into heaven, will come in the same way as you saw him go into heaven.” Acts 1:11

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Blog Post May 6, 2018, Sixth Sunday of Easter

I saw the Lord always before me, for he is at my right hand that I may not be shaken; therefore my heart was glad, and my tongue rejoiced; moreover my flesh will dwell in hope. For thou wilt not abandon my soul to Hades, nor let thy Holy One see corruption. Acts 2:25-27

Have you ever wondered why the Easter season is so long? Why it goes on for 50 days from the resurrection of Our Lord to Pentecost Sunday – seven full weeks? The Church tells us that this is a time of celebration that cannot be expressed in anything less than these fifty days. And of course there is much to celebrate throughout the season. Not only have we been redeemed but as the season ends on Pentecost we celebrate the gift of the Holy Spirit and the birth of the Church. (Acts 2)

But there is something more than celebration going on during this Easter season. We hear many of the same stories over and over in the liturgy of the season. I think it’s because we’re slow learners when it comes to Christ’s teaching. I’m always amazed when I hear a familiar gospel that speaks to my heart in an entirely new way – as though it was waiting for me all those years, poised to reveal itself only when I was able to hear.

Thursday was a gospel like that for me when Philip says to Jesus, “Master, show us the Father, and that will be enough for us.” There is sadness in Jesus’ reply, “Have I been with you for so long a time and you still do not know me, Philip?” (John 14:6-14) My heart cringes at those words. “Have I been with you for so long a time and you still do not know me?”

I ask myself, how many times do I need to hear Jesus’ words before they sink in. They are words of reproach that he has given all and still we do not know how to listen. We hear his words day after day, teaching us The Way and yet, “you still do not know me?”

There are fifteen more days before the end of the Easter Season. My prayer is that during these days I will be able to hear the words of Jesus with a heart that is able to listen.

Jesus said to Thomas, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. If you know me, then you will also know my Father. From now on you do know him and have seen him.” John 14:6-7

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Blog Post April 29, 2018, Fifth Sunday of Easter

The favors of the Lord I will sing forever; through all generations my mouth shall proclaim your faithfulness. For you have said, “My kindness is established forever”; in heaven you have confirmed your faithfulness. Psalm 89:1-2

Last Sunday as we drove back from Minnesota and the funeral of Charles’ brother George, we talked about what a good man he was. George went to daily Mass for years and was a faithful adorer in the church’s 24/7 Adoration Chapel. Most people sign up for an hour a week – George signed up for five.

At the funeral Mass the pastor pointed to a chair he had put on the altar that morning and told us “That’s George’s chair.” He said not only did George sign up for five hours a week, but every time Father went into the chapel, George was there – in that chair. The family will always treasure the memory of that homily about George.

It made me mull over the sort of imprint we might leave behind – how will we be remembered? A death in the family is a good time to examine our own lives. What will people remember most about us? What kind of example do we leave behind? I find it a useful exercise to look at my life through someone else’s eyes. I think one of the biggest dangers in trying to live a virtuous life is to become satisfied with where we are in our journey. It’s easy to look at ourselves with the log in our eye that obscures our view. (Matthew 7:5). This week I will think about how far I am from where I want to be, and how I can change that.

I am the vine, you are the branches. Whoever remains in me and I in him will bear much fruit, because without me you can do nothing. If you remain in me and my words remain in you, ask for whatever you want and it will be done for you. John 15:5,7

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Blog Post April 22, 2018, Fourth Sunday of Easter

No Posting for today. We were traveling back to Columbus.

Blog Post April 15, 2018, Third Sunday of Easter

The Lord is good and upright is the Lord. He shows the path to those who stray, he guides the humble in the right path; he teaches his way to the poor. His ways are faithfulness and love for those who keep his covenant and law. Psalm 25:8-10

This afternoon I’m having a birthday party for husband Charles. His birthday is tomorrow but Sunday is the best day for everyone to celebrate it. Charles has three brothers – a younger brother Jim, and two older brothers, Lawrence and George who are twins. A week ago Saturday, near the end of the Octave of Easter, George died unexpectedly.

This afternoon we will celebrate the gift of life for my husband Charles and on Thursday we will celebrate the gift of everlasting life at the funeral of his brother George. A death in the family, especially one with little warning makes me stop short and think how each day could be the last for any of us. It’s a good thought – a thought that makes me see with a keener eye the shabbiness of my spiritual self – a thought that spurs me to new resolve. The Easter season begins with Easter Sunday and continues for fifty days to celebrate the Ascension of Jesus on the 40th day and to end with Pentecost Sunday. It’s a jubilant reminder that we are an Easter people. In the daily readings we hear the many times where Jesus appeared to his disciples to assure them that he is indeed risen from the dead. The promise he gave to his followers in that long ago time is the same for us today: “I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in Me will live, even though he dies; and whoever lives and believes in Me will never die.” (John 11:25)

This week, starting with the celebration of Charles’ birthday to his brother’s funeral Mass and burial in the little cemetery at Cohasset, MN. I will remind myself that the gift of life is temporary – and will be comforted by the promise of everlasting life to come.

God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten Son, so that everyone who believes in him might not perish but might have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world might be saved through him. John 3:16-17

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Blog Post April 8, 2018, Divine Mercy Sunday also Second Sunday of Easter

Let the house of Israel say, “His mercy endures forever.” Let the house of Aaron say, “His mercy endures forever.” Let those who fear the Lord say, “His mercy endures forever.” Psalm 118: 2-4

Easter Sunday has come and gone. Lent is over and our Easter Sunday celebrations are finished. But we go forward with the magnificent truth that Christ is risen and we are an Easter people. Every year Easter gives us a fresh start in our spiritual journey.

Even though we have been celebrating the Octave of Easter all week my thoughts keep returning to Lent. Why? Because during Lent I was trying to focus more closely on my spiritual life to show my gratitude for the terrible sacrifice made for me in the crucifixion. I don’t want to lose sight of that in the on-going celebration of the Easter season. Although Easter Sunday is the pivotal event, its significance is manifested in what comes after that – in what we, as God’s people do with it.

The question for each one of us is, “has Easter Sunday changed your life yet?” If not, why not? How many Easter Sundays are in your past and how have you been enriched by the knowledge that Jesus died and is risen for us – the knowledge that we might have our sins forgiven and never die? For people of faith Easter is just the beginning.

Today is also Divine Mercy Sunday. When we fall short of our vocation as an Easter people, we can take comfort in these words of Jesus: “My mercy is so great that no mind, be it of man or of angel, will be able to fathom it throughout all eternity. Everything that exists has come forth from the very depths of My most tender mercy. Every soul in its relation to Me will contemplate My love and mercy throughout eternity.” (Diary of Sr. Faustina)

He touched me with his right hand and said, “Do not be afraid. I am the first and the last, the one who lives. Once I was dead, but now I am alive forever and ever. I hold the keys to death and the netherworld.” Revelation 1:17-18

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Blog Post April 1, 2018, Easter Sunday

I am the Resurrection and the life says the Lord; whoever believes in me shall never die. John 11:25

An early name for Christians was “the Easter people”. The celebration of Easter began sometime in the fourth century, replacing an old pagan festival in which colored eggs were exchanged.

The Venerable Bede (672-735), Benedictine monk and English historian, tells us the name Easter is taken from the Teutonic goddess, Estre – goddess of the rising light of day and spring.

What does it mean for us, to be an Easter people? In the Gospel of John, we hear Jesus’ first words after his resurrection: “Peace be with you.” To be an Easter people is to live in the peace of Christ – to be at peace within ourselves, our families and everyone around us. To be an Easter people is to be a people of eternal life and union in the love of God.

We are an Easter people. Let us celebrate and enjoy the triumph of this wondrous day.

You have been born anew, not from perishable but from imperishable seed, through the living and abiding word of God. (1 Peter 1:23)

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Blog Post March 25, 2018, Palm Sunday

Through his suffering, my servant shall justify many, and their guilt he shall bear. Therefore I will give him his portion among the great and he shall divide the spoils with the mighty. Isaiah 53:11-12

Take a deep breath and “Gird your loins", for the most sacred time of the year begins today. All of our Lenten practices have been preparing us for this journey through Holy Week which will culminate in the Triduum – Good Friday, Holy Saturday and the triumph of Easter Sunday.

Today, as we celebrate Palm Sunday, it’s hard not to succumb for a moment to the festivity that surrounds Jesus triumphal entry into Jerusalem. At last the people acknowledge him as the holy one of all the ancient prophecies. The one sent by God for their redemption – the Messiah. But as Jesus entered Jerusalem amid the cheering throngs that day, he must have suffered greatly knowing their hearts were irrevocably hardened against him.

Even as the palm branches and cloaks were strewn across his path, even as the air rang with their acclamations: “Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord! Hosanna in the highest!” Jesus knew that in just a few days they would cry out with the same fervor: “Crucify him! Crucify him!” The week that followed must have been one of deep anguish for Jesus knowing what was about to happen.

On Monday we see Jesus in Bethany where Mary anoints his feet with costly oil. When Judas objects Jesus says:”Leave her alone. Let her keep this for the day of my burial.” (John 12:3-7)

On Tuesday Jesus reclines at table with his disciples and he is deeply troubled. He tells them: “Amen, amen, I say to you, one of you will betray me.” (John 13:21)

On Wednesday Judas makes his deal with the chief priests to hand Jesus over for thirty pieces of silver. (Matthew 26:14-15)

On Holy Thursday, at the last supper, Jesus institutes the sacrament of Holy Communion – knowing he will be crucified the next day. (Luke 22:19-20) Later that night Jesus will enter the garden of Gethsemani to prepare himself to gain our redemption.

These are the things I need to meditate on this Holy Week as I walk this journey with Jesus, our Savior.

The Jews picked up rocks to stone Jesus. Jesus answered them, “I have shown you many good works from my father. For which of these are you trying to stone me? John 10:31-32

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Blog Post March 18, 2018, Fifth Sunday of Lent

O Lord, my God, in you I take refuge; save me from all my pursuers and rescue me, lest I become like the lion’s prey, to be torn to pieces with no one to rescue me. Psalm 7:1-2

Lent is nearing its end – next week will be Palm Sunday. In today’s gospel Jesus tells us: “unless a grain of wheat falls to the ground and dies, it remains just a grain of wheat; but if it dies, it produces much fruit.” (John 12:24)

This has been our aim during Lent – that the grain of wheat will fall to the ground and die. Every dessert we gave up in these past weeks, every prayer, every kindness offered for our Lenten journey draws us a little closer to that goal.

The sadness and gloom of Lent deepens as we draw nearer to Holy Week. There is a reluctance to immerse ourselves in those horrible sufferings of Christ – the sufferings we brought on him through our sins. But it is necessary to bear witness to Jesus suffering and death as fully as we can to make Lent a time of spiritual growth. For me one of the most effective ways to do this is with the Stations of the Cross (which originated with the early pilgrims to Jerusalem and evolved until 1731 when the number was fixed at fourteen by Pope Clement XII).

From the first Station where Jesus is condemned to death to the last, we follow him on the terrible road to his crucifixion. The more we immerse ourselves in these images, in the heart-breaking meeting with his mother Mary, in his falling under the weight of the cross, in his exhaustion and the ridicule of the soldiers, the more we open our hearts to a true sorrow for our sins – sins that made him endure such suffering to save us.

My goal during this Fifth Week of Lent is to focus more deeply on the Stations of the Cross in order to prepare myself for the special observances of Holy Week.

“Now is the time of judgment on this world; now the ruler of this world will be driven out. And when I am lifted up from the earth, I will draw everyone to myself.” He said this indicating the kind of death he would die. (John 12:31-33)

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Blog Post March 11, 2018, Fourth Sunday of Lent

“Even now,” declares the LORD, “return to me with all your heart, with fasting and weeping and mourning.” …. Return to the Lord your God, for he is gracious and compassionate, slow to anger and abounding in love, and he relents from sending calamity. Joel 2:12-13

On this Fourth Sunday of Lent I’ve been thinking about the three pillars of Lent: “Prayer, Fasting and Almsgiving”. Most of us are familiar with prayer and almsgiving. For many they are a part of our ordinary life – we say our daily prayers and contribute to our favorite charities. But during Lent we may add a little to it – perhaps go to Mass more frequently and increase our charitable donations. But what about fasting? In our modern world fasting is often viewed as some sort of action – like limiting TV time or helping out at a food pantry. But what about fasting from food? The fact is that fasting from food is at the heart of the matter – the forty days of Lent are meant to honor Jesus’ forty days of fasting in the desert.

One spiritual writer defines fasting as voluntarily going without food for the sake of some spiritual purpose. And that is the key, “for some spiritual purpose”. A significant part of fasting is the incentive it creates for prayer and meditation on God’s word or some act of love for others. He says, “Without a purpose and plan, it’s not Christian fasting; it’s just going hungry.”

St. Basil the Great writes: “Fasting is a good safeguard for the soul, a steadfast companion for the body, a weapon for the valiant, and a gymnasium for athletes. Fasting repels temptations, anoints unto piety; it is the comrade of watchfulness and the artificer of chastity. In war it fights bravely, in peace it teaches stillness.” As important as fasting is as a discipline, Spiritual Directors advise against leaping into any penance like an untrained athlete. If you intend to fast start small – perhaps no snacking between meals or maybe just two meals one day a week. Whatever you do remember: “Without purpose and plan, it’s not Christian fasting; it’s just going hungry.”

But when you fast, put oil on your head and wash your face, so that it will not be obvious to others that you are fasting, but only to your Father, who is unseen; and your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you. Matthew 6:17-18

Email how you should control small fasting from getting bigger and bigger indefinitely. For instance, if cut down to two meals a day once a week you soon find out that you get used to that so you add another day in order to notice missing a meal. Soon you get used to just two meals a day twice a week. So a third two-meal day seems necessary to keep up a sense of spiritual discipline. How should you put a stop to this before becoming anorexic?

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Blog Post March 4, 2018, Third Sunday of Lent

My offenses truly I know them; my sin is always before me. Against you, you alone, have I sinned; what is evil in your sight I have done. Psalm 51:3-4

On Thursday we heard the parable of Lazarus lying at the door of the rich man’s house, covered in sores. The rich man must have passed him day after day as he went about his business, taking no notice. Then both men died and Lazarus is safely with Abraham while the rich man is in torment in the netherworld. Something in me protests is that fair? We aren’t told if Lazarus ever cried out for help or stretched out his hand for alms. I think of him as just huddled there on the steps, probably cringing off to one side so he won’t be conspicuous. I’m sure the rich man was always in a hurry – he had things to do, people to see. No one ever told him,”If you don’t help this poor man, you’re going to pay big time.”

But this parable comes from the mouth of Jesus himself. It tells me that there is no excuse for closing our eyes to the wounded among us. Not to notice is no justification. It is our obligation to pay attention to the sufferings around us and to do something about it. Jesus tells us it is not enough to wait to be asked – we are obliged to be attentive, to make ourselves aware of the needs of others. We may not have a Lazarus on our doorstep, but what about the other people in our lives? They may not need alms, but they may need a little of our time, a few acts of kindness. We need to be vigilant, to ask ourselves, ‘am I missing something?’

Fr. John Main writes:
“The development of our own personal consciousness and the deepening of our own spiritual journey is not just a personal matter… By deepening our commitment to our own human journey each of us is also deepening our commitment to the whole of humanity, in particular, of course to that part of humanity that we encounter in our daily round." *

During this Third Week of Lent I ask myself: Have I been paying attention to Jesus’ teachings these past weeks and trying to act on them? If not, I need to try a little harder.

But woe to you Pharisees! You pay tithes of mint and of rue and of every kind of garden herb, but you pay no attention to judgment and to love for God. These you should have done without overlooking the others. Luke 11:42

*From Silence and Stillness in Every Season p.82

Email what you think of the following proposal as a response to Luke's parable. In the coming week I will give $10 to the first street or freeway exit beggar I encounter.

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Second Sunday of Lent The Transfiguration

Wash yourselves clean! Put away your misdeeds from before my eyes; cease from doing evil; learn to do good. Make justice your aim; redress the wronged, hear the orphan’s plea, defend the widow. Isaiah 1:16-17

Today we celebrate the Transfiguration of Jesus which occurred just days after Jesus foretold his death in Jerusalem. Why did the Transfiguration happen at that juncture? The Catechism tells us “Christ’s Transfiguration aims at strengthening the apostles’ faith in anticipation of his Passion: the ascent onto the 'high mountain' prepares for the ascent to Calvary.” (CCC 568)

But what does the Transfiguration mean for us? St. Thomas Aquinas said, “The Transfiguration is meant to give all followers of Christ making their way through the difficulty of this life, a burst of hope about what awaits us. We need that hope. It helps us to keep our eyes fixed on the glory of God even when we have to face our own suffering”.

Despite the glory of the Transfiguration, Lent is about suffering – the suffering of Jesus and the minor sufferings we undertake to make ourselves more worthy of his redemption – or at least to express our gratitude.

No one likes to contemplate suffering, yet that is what we are called to do during Lent. On Friday I went to the afternoon Stations of the Cross for the school kids. They used a version that describes each of the Stations through the eyes of Mary, his mother. It stirred my heart. The sufferings of Jesus on the way to Calvary were so terrible. We want to turn our eyes away from the cruelty inflicted on him and yet we cannot. All we can do is watch and in that watching remind ourselves that all of Jesus suffering was for us – none of us are free of that guilt.

The Stations of the Cross originated with the early pilgrims to Jerusalem who wanted to follow the way that Jesus took to Calvary. This was the inspiration for the fourteen Stations of the Cross in most of our churches today.

During this Second Week of Lent I will try to meditate more devoutly on the sufferings of Jesus as depicted in the Stations of the Cross.

Jesus took Peter, James, and his brother John and led them up a high mountain by themselves. And he was transfigured before them, and his face shone like the sun, and his clothes became dazzling white...then from the cloud came a voice that said, “This is my beloved Son, with whom I am well pleased; listen to him.” Matthew 17:1-2, 5

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Blog Post February18, 2018, First Sunday of Lent

Have mercy on me, O God, in your goodness; in the greatness of your compassion wipe out my offense. Thoroughly wash me from my guilt and of my sin cleanse me. Psalm 51:1-2

At the start of every Lent we are reminded that the three pillars of Lent are Prayer, Fasting and Almsgiving. I always get stuck a little on the “fasting” part. As Catholics we are only required to fast on Ash Wednesday and Good Friday: one full meal a day with no food between meals. If you eat three meals a day, the other two should not total the main meal. But there must be more to fasting during Lent than those two required days.

Creighton University’s website offers this:
“To fast is to do without food. Its purpose is to experience the effects of not eating. It also serves to be a penance or a sacrifice - for the purpose of strengthening us. When we don't eat, for even a little while, we get hungry. When we get hungry, we have a heightened sense of awareness. If, when we eat too much, we have a sluggish feeling, when we fast, we have a feeling of alertness. Fasting is a wonderful exercise whenever we want to sincerely ask for an important grace from God. It is not that our fasting "earns" God's attention, but by fasting, we clarify our thinking and our feeling. It is purifying and prepares us to pray more deeply.”

For me prayer and almsgiving for Lent are pretty straight-forward. But fasting takes more thought, more decision making. I’m inspired by the Jesuit commentary from Creighton about fasting to create a heightened sense of awareness and to clarify our thinking. In a homily on fasting the priest suggested that instead of relating it to food we consider our actions – that we might try fasting from losing our temper, or laziness, or uncharitable words.

Whatever we choose to do, Lent is a time to take stock and get our priorities straight. When we observe Lent with the “prayer, fasting, and almsgiving”, we are following the crux of the two great commandments of the Lord: to love God above all else, and to love your neighbor as yourself. “On these two commandments depend the whole Law and the Prophets.” (Mt 22:40)

Then he said to all, “If anyone wishes to come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me. For whoever wishes to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will save it. Luke 9:23-24

Email whether or not you think proposing metaphorical fasting from sinful acts such as displays of temper leads us away from coming to appreciate the literal meaning of fasting from the good of food for awhile.

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Blog Post February11, 2018, Sixth Sunday in Ordinary Time

Blessed are they who observe what is right, who do always what is just. Remember us, O Lord as you favor your people; visit us with your saving help. Psalm 106:3-4

With Ash Wednesday just a few days away the start of Lent is nearly here. So what will I do for Lent this year? I think of that old song “Little Things Mean a Lot” and am inspired to choose something that I will be able to stick to during the next forty days (forty six when you include Sundays).

I don’t want to start with a burst of enthusiasm and have it fizzle out in a week or two like a New Year’s resolution. But whatever discipline I choose, when I fall short I will console myself with St. Frances de Sales’ words: “Have patience with all things, but first of all with yourself.” One of the biggest temptations on the road to holiness is to get discouraged and quit.

At our house one of the “little things” we will do to help us keep mindful of the season is to read a brief scripture quote before every evening meal. Another is to have a purple runner on the dinner table during Lent to remind us that we are in the midst of a penitential season. These are indeed “little things” but St. John of the Cross writes: “The Lord measures out perfection neither by the multitude nor the magnitude of our deeds, but by the manner in which we perform them.” So my prayer is that I will perform these small Lenten deeds well.

Jesus spent 40 days in the desert praying and fasting after he was baptized by John. The Catechism tells us, “By the solemn forty days of Lent the Church unites herself each year to the mystery of Jesus in the desert.” (CCC 540) And how does it do that? – Through its individual members. Our Lenten task is to replenish our spiritual strength through prayer and sacrifice – to deepen our relationship with the Lord. Bishop Fulton Sheen writes “Unless there is a Good Friday in your life, there can be no Easter Sunday.”

As I ready myself for Lent I think of the leper’s words in today’s gospel when he implored Jesus to heal him: “If you wish, you can make me clean.”(Mark 1:40-45) This is what I will ask of Jesus as I begin my Lenten journey.

A leper came to Jesus and kneeling down begged him and said, “If you wish, you can make me clean.” Moved with pity, he stretched out his hand, touched him and said to him, “I do will it. Be made clean.” Mark 1:41:42

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Blog Post February 4, 2018, Fifth Sunday in Ordinary Time

Praise the Lord, for he is good; sing praise to our God for he is gracious. He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds. He tells the number of the stars; he calls each by name. Psalm 147:1,3

On Friday we celebrated the Feast of the Presentation of Jesus in the temple. It’s been forty days since we celebrated Jesus’ birth at Christmas and according to Jewish law, on this day he was presented in the Temple by Mary and Joseph.

In Pope Francis’ homily for the Feast of the Presentation he said: “In the Christian East, this feast is called the ‘Feast of Encounter’: it is the encounter between God, who became a child to bring newness to our world and an expectant humanity, represented by the elderly man and woman in the Temple.”

The Feast of the Presentation, February 2nd, is also Candlemas day. In the 11th century a custom had developed of blessing candles on this Feast Day. When the candles were lit there was a procession through the darkened church and the people sang the Canticle of Simeon praising Jesus as "a light to the revelation of the Gentiles". When I think of this I’m reminded of what light means to us. Every time there is a power outage and my world goes dark I’m reminded of how dependent I am on light.

On Saturday we celebrated the Feast of St. Blaise where the Candlemas Candles were used in the ancient custom of the blessing of the throats to ward off ailments of the throat. Usually we think of sore throats as the problem, but the fact is one of our biggest throat ailments is in the words that come out of our mouths.

In James 1:26 we read: “Those who consider themselves religious and yet do not keep a tight rein on their tongues deceive themselves and their religion is worthless.” This week I will try to pay special attention to my words in the light of this scripture passage.

He told them, “Let us go on to the nearby villages that I may preach there also. For this purpose have I come.” So he went into their synagogues, preaching and driving out demons throughout the whole of Galilee. Mark 1: 38-39

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Blog Post January 28, 2018, Fourth Sunday in Ordinary Time

O sing to the Lord a new song; sing to the Lord, all the earth! Sing to the Lord, bless his name; tell of his salvation from day to day. Declare his glory among the nations, his marvelous works among all the peoples! Psalm 96:1-3

This week we heard the dramatic story of the conversion of St. Paul and how Timothy and Titus were faithful helpers in his mission to the gentiles. The Church reminds us that as Christians we too are called to evangelize. The problem for most of us is how do we as lay people do that?

One priest gave this example: if you’re sitting in a coffee shop you can ask the person at the next table, “Are you a Christian?” I cringe thinking how that might play out.

Bishop Barron writes we might be tempted to ask ourselves why God doesn’t just do the work of conversion himself – why involve us? “We’re tempted to say, “You’re God. Just get on with it.” The bishop’s answer is that God wants to involve us so we might use our freedom, intelligence and creativity to be part of what he is doing, just as he involved his people in the bible. But for me the problem still remains: How? How are we as lay people to evangelize?

I think priests and nuns have it easy when it comes to evangelization because people expect them to talk about God. It’s their vocation. For the rest of us it’s not so clear. When I did a Google search for some guidelines on my calling as a lay Catholic it yielded a lot of information about lay responsibility but little about how to fulfill it.

The Catechism of the Catholic Church says this: “The initiative of lay Christians is necessary especially when the matter involves discovering or inventing the means for permeating social, political, and economic realities with the demands of Christian doctrine and life.” And again: “Lay believers are in the front line of Church life; for them the Church is the animating principle of human society.” (CCC 899)

What I take from this is that what I need to do as a lay person is to bring my Christianity to the communities in which I normally interact. My voice in those situations will reflect my Christian beliefs whether it’s about poverty, education, support of the unborn or whatever else may be the issue of the moment. I don’t need to ring doorbells or stand on a soap-box – but I do need to be faithful to my beliefs when the matter comes up and to act according to them in my ordinary, everyday life.

God created each of us as our own unique self, made in his image. We all have different talents, different personalities and gifts. Some of us may have a gift for preaching and teaching – most of us not. So I do the best I can in the place in which I find myself and take heart from Francis of Assisi: “The deeds you do may be the only sermon some persons will hear today.”

After this the Lord appointed seventy others, and sent them on ahead of him, two by two, into every town and place where he himself was about to come. And he said to them, “The harvest is plentiful, but the laborers are few; pray therefore the Lord of the harvest to send out laborers into his harvest. Luke 10:1-2

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Blog Post January 21, 2018, Third Sunday in Ordinary Time

Why do you recite my statutes and profess my covenant with your mouth, though you hate discipline and cast my words behind you? When you do these things, shall I be deaf to it? Psalm 50:16-18

I’ve been mulling over a phrase in my mind: “Just that one thing”. I started thinking about this after Monday’s reading where Samuel told Saul he had disobeyed the Lord in his mission to destroy the Amalekites. Saul argues that he did destroy them – just as the Lord commanded. But Samuel reminds him that was only part of the deal – he was to take away none of the spoil. Saul tries to justify himself by saying they took the best of spoil to sacrifice to the Lord. But that is a shabby excuse. We hear the consequences of his disobedience in Samuel’s words: “Because you have rejected the command of the Lord, he, too, has rejected you as ruler.” (1 Samuel 15:16-23)

Just that one thing – and it cost Saul his kingship. I ask myself how did he come to do just that one thing. We don’t commit major sins and disobediences out of the blue. Somewhere along the way Saul decided to rely on his own judgment rather than to obey God. It didn’t happen overnight. It probably began with small things until somewhere along the way Saul put his own will over that of God.

The lesson I take away from this is that “little things” do mean a lot. Small sins – repeated, excused in our hearts as insignificant, are the most dangerous of all because they weaken our conscience. Gradually the boundaries of right and wrong are stretched and we are ripe to fall into more serious sin.

One of the best ways to keep ourselves on track in our relationship with God is a daily examination of conscience. It’s a simple exercise – taking just a few minutes at the end of each day to ask ourselves if we have lived it in a way that would please God. It’s hard to go too far wrong with that kind of daily attention to our spiritual health.

Truly, truly, I say to you, everyone who commits sin is a slave to sin. The slave does not continue in the house for ever; the son continues for ever. So if the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed.

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Blog Post January 14, 2018, Second Sunday in Ordinary Time

Sacrifice or offering you wished not, but ears open to obedience you gave me. Holocausts or sin-offerings you sought not; then said I, “Behold I come.” Ps 40,6-7

I’ve always been a little puzzled by the reading on Thursday, about how Israel went out to battle the Philistines and after a terrible defeat they sent to Shiloh for the Ark of the Covenant. The Israelites were confident this would win the day for them. Instead it was a disaster. “…and they fled, every man to his home; and there was a very great slaughter, for there fell thirty thousand foot soldiers of Israel. And the ark of God was captured; and the two sons of Eli, Hophni and Phinehas, were slain.” (1 Samuel 4:1-11)

I wondered why God would allow such a defeat especially in the face of their belief that the ark would save them. One writer pointed out there is a big difference between faith and idolatry – and in this case, they were trying to boss God around. Israel had fallen away from God during this period in its history. Eli had not been able to teach his sons the Lord’s ways and they were known to use their position in the temple for their own selfish ends and to care little about service to God. It’s been suggested that if instead of sending for the ark the Israelites would have prayed and shown repentance rather than removing the ark from its rightful place, they may be been spared.

This great defeat occurred more than a thousand years before the birth of Christ. And now, two thousand years later it seems not much in our nature has changed. I ask myself how often do I pray out of desperation rather than devotion, even promising to change my life and when my prayers are answered go back my old ways. How often do I call on God when things are tough – but not so much the rest of the time?

Jesus tells us that God our Father loves us and that he forgives us. But for our part we need to acknowledge our sinfulness and to ask the Father for forgiveness. For this we pray.

Then he began to reproach the cities in which most of his deeds of power had been done, because they did not repent. “Woe to you, Chorazin! Woe to you, Bethsaida! For if the deeds of power done in you had been done in Tyre and Sidon, they would have repented long ago in sackcloth and ashes. Matthew 11:20-21

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Blog Post January 7, 2018, Feast of the Epiphany

Rise up in splendor, Jerusalem! Your light has come, the glory of the Lord shines upon you. See, darkness covers the earth, the thick clouds cover the peoples; but upon you the Lord shines, and over you appears his glory. Isaiah 60:1-2

Today we celebrate the Feast of the Epiphany – the journey of the wise men that ends as the star brings them to the place of the Savior’s birth. The word “epiphany” comes from the Greek epiphainen, which means "to shine upon," "to manifest," or “to make known.” In a sermon by St. Leo he points out that the adoration of the Magi foreshadows the beginnings of Christian faith among all the peoples of the world and that at the Epiphany, the voice of God himself calls the whole world to adore Jesus, and to hear him.

The Feast of the Epiphany was celebrated in the East and in certain Western Churches before it was ever observed in Rome. For those churches where it was kept on January 6th, it was the equivalent of Christmas. When the feast was introduced at Rome in the second half of the sixth century it became an extension of the Christmas festival.

I’m reminded on this Feast of Epiphany that it is up to us to seek the meaning of the Epiphany in our own hearts. I’m inspired by these words of Benedict XVI: “The Magi set out because of a deep desire which prompted them to leave everything and begin a journey. It was as though they had always been waiting for that star”.

For this New Year my resolve is to try to journey through the coming days with a new awareness of what I am seeking – to truly try to follow the star.

When they saw the star, they rejoiced exceedingly with great joy; and going into the house they saw the child with Mary his mother, and they fell down and worshiped him. Then, opening their treasures, they offered him gifts, gold and frankincense and myrrh.

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Blog Post December 31, 2017, Feast of the Holy Family

God sets a father in honor over his children; a mother’s authority he confirms over he sons. Whoever honors his father atones for sins, and preserves himself from them. When he prays, he is heard; he stores up riches who reveres his mother. Sirach 3:2-4

Today we celebrate the feast of the Holy Family and tomorrow we mark the start of the New Year – the first day of 2018.

The gospel for the feast of the Holy Family describes Jesus’ presentation in the temple and we hear Simeon’s words: “Behold, this child is destined for the rise and fall of many...” and to his mother “you yourself a sword will pierce”. (Luke 2:22-40)

The Holy Family leaves the temple to continue with their daily lives and the stage is set for the journey to our Redemption. In the next thirty years Jesus lived an ordinary life in the little family at Nazareth. In a 2011 address Pope Benedict XVI said of the life of the Holy Family: "The house of Nazareth is a school of prayer where we learn to listen, to meditate, to penetrate the deepest meaning of the manifestation of the Son of God, drawing our example from Mary, Joseph and Jesus.”

For me the greatest teaching of the Holy Family is obedience. Each member had their part to fulfill - father, mother and son, carrying out their duties day after day in what appeared to be ordinary lives. What a lesson for us in patience, trust and perfect faith in God. This is the example I will try to keep before me at the start of another new year.

Now, Master, you may let you servant go in peace, according to your word, for my eyes have seen your salvation, which you prepared in the sight of all the peoples, a light for revelation to the Gentiles, and Glory for your people Israel. Luke 2:29-32

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Blog Post December 24, 2017, Fourth Sunday of Advent

Drop down dew from above, you heavens, and let the clouds rain down the Just One; let the earth be opened and bring forth a Savior. Isaiah 45:8

Today we have a double celebration – the Fourth Sunday of Advent and Christmas Eve. So how do we pack a week of preparation into a single day?

My solution as we light the Fourth Advent Candle is to take a few minutes thinking about the homily for the school kids on their last Mass before Christmas vacation. Father said all during Advent everyone in scripture had been talking about Jesus –The Old Testament forecast Jesus coming – Gabriel announced it to Mary – John the Baptist proclaimed he had come.

Father asked the kids to think about what they would say to Jesus as he lay in the manger the night of his birth. When he ended his homily Father sat down and waited, giving us time to think about it. When I asked myself that question all I could think of was “Thank you.”

This beautiful little Christmas prayer will help me prepare for Christmas day:

”Lord Jesus Christ, you are that light in which we place our hope. Break upon minds clouded by confusion, hearts, darkened by self-seeking, spirits dimmed by deadening habits, and set your people free to welcome your coming with joy.”

…there, ahead of them, went the star that they had seen at its rising, until it stopped over the place where the child was. When they saw that the star had stopped, they were overwhelmed with joy. Matthew 2:9-10

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Blog Post December 17, 2017, Third Sunday of Advent

Sing praise to the Lord for his glorious achievement; let this be known throughout all the earth. Shout with Exultation, O City of Zion, for great in your midst is the Holy One of Israel. Isaiah 12:5-6

Eight days until Christmas! Today is “Gaudete” Sunday, Latin for "Rejoice". We light this candle to mark the beginning of the third week of Advent, but this year it comes close to end of Advent. Next Sunday when we light the fourth candle it will be Christmas Eve – not another week of Advent, but a single day.

When we lit the pink candle on the Advent wreath at Mass today we heard the joyful entrance prayer:
“Rejoice in the Lord always; again I say, rejoice. Indeed the Lord is near.” (Philippians 4:4-5)

Liturgists tell us we rejoice on Gaudete Sunday because we’ve passed the midpoint of Advent and the Church lightens the mood a little to encourage us to continue our spiritual preparation. But this year we’ve more than passed the midpoint.

With such a short time until Christmas the tension mounts – both spiritual and secular. There is so much to do in so few days. This is the time to stop, pray, and take a deep breath. You can’t do everything. Set your priorities.

This entrance antiphon will help me to set my priorities for the coming week:
“He who is to come will come and will not delay, and now there will be no fear within our land, for he is our Savior.”

You know the time; it is the hour now for you to awake from sleep. For our salvation is nearer now than when we first believed; the night is advanced, the day is at hand. Let us then throw off the works of darkness and put on the armor of light. Romans 13:11-12


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Blog Post December 10, 2017, Second Sunday of Advent

I will hear what God proclaims; the Lord – for he proclaims peace to his people. Near indeed is his salvation to those who fear him, glory dwelling in our land. Psalm 85:8-9

Friday, December 8th we celebrated the Feast of the Immaculate Conception. The last time this Feast Day fell on a Friday was in 2006. The next time will be in 2023. For me, to celebrate the Feast of the Immaculate Conception on a Friday is a special gift that helps me draw together the birth of Jesus with the crucifixion and the obedience of Mary. I see in it a beautiful wholeness that enfolds the mystery of God’s love for us in a way I do not pretend to understand, but that moves me just a little bit farther along on my spiritual journey.

In the gospel we hear the story of how the angel Gabriel told Mary that she was chosen to be the mother of Jesus Christ, the Son of God and Mary's response, "Let it be done to me according to thy word."(Luke 1:26-38) Someone once wrote that unlike all the others, Mary’s soul was perfectly empty of self – of the false self that was the result of Adam’s sin. It was this that made it possible for God to fill her perfect emptiness with Himself. St. Thomas Aquinas called Mary: “totius Trinitatis nobile triclinium, the noble resting place of the Holy Trinity”.

Pope Pius IX declared the Immaculate Conception as dogma in 1854 with these words: "The most Blessed Virgin Mary, in the first instant of her conception, by a singular grace and privilege granted by almighty God, in view of the merits of Jesus Christ, the savior of the human race, was preserved free from all stain of original sin.”

Mary is not only the mother of Jesus, but our mother as well. St. John Vianney (The Cur d’Ars) wrote, “Mary is our mother twice. She gave birth to humanity twice – once at the Nativity and then again at the foot of the Cross.” These are the thoughts I will try to keep close to my heart as we enter this Second Week of Advent.

John the Baptist appeared in the desert…And this is what he proclaimed: “One mightier than I is coming after me. I am not worthy to stoop and loosen the thongs of his sandals. I have baptized you with water; he will baptize you with the Holy Spirit.” Mark 1:4,7-8

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Blog Post December 3, 2017, First Sunday of Advent

A bright light will shine to all the ends of the earth; many nations will come to you from far away, the inhabitants of the remotest parts of the earth to your holy name, bearing gifts in their hands for the King of heaven. Tobit 13:11

Today is the first Sunday of Advent. As we light the first candle in our Advent wreath I think of how during the weeks ahead we are meant to prepare our hearts for the gift of our redemption.

From ancient times many believed (and continue to believe) in the cyclical nature of time. Nietzsche called it the "eternal return of the same." But as Christians we know time is linear, moving forward with purpose. The past unfolds into the future purposefully, steadfastly, toward the end of time which will come as God wills it.

We enter this holy season knowing it is sacred ground that stretches from the promises of the Old Testament to the birth of the Child, our Redeemer. At our house the Advent wreath helps remind us that Advent has a penitental dimension that accompanies its joyous anticipation.

The Advent wreath has been used since the middle ages as part of the spiritual preparation for Christmas. The evergreens of the wreath signify continuous life while the circle signifies the eternity of God and the immortality of the soul. The four candles represent the four weeks of Advent – the three purple candles symbolize prayer and penance – the rose candle symbolizes rejoicing and is lit on the third Sunday to celebrate the midpoint of Advent. The lighted candles remind us that Christ is the light of the world.

Below is the traditional prayer for the Blessing of the Advent Wreath:

Lord our God,
we praise you for your Son, Jesus Christ:
he is Emmanuel, the hope of the peoples,
he is the wisdom that teaches and guides us,
he is the Savior of every nation.
Lord God,
let your blessing come upon us
as we light the candles of this wreath.
May the wreath and its light
be a sign of Christ’s promise to bring us salvation.
May he come quickly and not delay.
We ask this through Christ our Lord. Amen.

My Advent resolution this year is to begin each morning of Advent with a little prayer about what it is I am preparing to celebrate.

So stay awake, because you do not know the day when your master is coming. Therefore, you too must stand ready because the Son of Man is coming at an hour you do not expect. Matthew 24:42,44

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Blog Post November 26, 2017, Feast of Christ the King

Put no trust in princes, in mortal men in whom there is no help. Take their breath, they return to clay and their plans that day come to nothing. Psalm 146: 3-4

When Pius XI instituted the Feast of Christ the King in 1925 it was partly in response to a growing secularism. I wonder what our Holy Father would think about the state of things today. His words in 1925 were impassioned:”... not one of our faculties is exempt from his empire. He must reign in our minds…in our wills…in our hearts...He must reign in our bodies and in our members, which should serve as instruments for the interior sanctification of our souls…”

Pius XI ended his encyclical with the message: "The faithful, moreover, by meditating upon these truths, will gain much strength and courage, enabling them to form their lives after the true Christian ideal.” With this exhortation we celebrate the last Sunday of Ordinary time. These are fitting words to keep in our hearts as we approach the beginning of Advent next Sunday.

That in the name of Jesus every knee should bow, of those that are in Heaven, on earth and under the earth: And that every tongue should confess that the Lord Jesus Christ is in the glory of God the Father. Philippians 2:10-11

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Blog Post November 19, 2017, Thirty-Third Sunday in Ordinary Time

O Lord, you have probed me and you know me; you know when I sit and when I stand; you understand my thoughts from afar. My journeys and my rest you scrutinize, with all my ways you are familiar. Psalm 129:1-3

Have you ever wondered how old you will be when you die?

I’m always amazed at The New York Times obits listings of so many people in their eighties and nineties – and on Friday the death of Eric Newman at 106! On the other hand, the next listing was for Gustav Ahr, a twenty-one year old musician.

Over time the actuarial tables for life expectancy have added years to our life expectancy, mostly due to better health care and medical advances. But that doesn’t tell us anything about the time of our own death. For many the idea of living to a ripe old age is not a happy thought. A friend once said, “it’s not fair. Therese of Lisieux was a great saint but she died at 24. She didn’t have to try to be holy for sixty or seventy years”. On Friday we celebrated the feast of St. Elizabeth of Hungary, a princess of the royal court known for her kindness to the poor, who also died at age 24. For most of us the journey will be much longer – and for some it will stretch into an old or even a very old age.

Last Sunday’s gospel cautioned us with the parable of the ten foolish virgins – five of whom had not made provisions to meet the bridegroom. Since we know “neither the day nor the hour”, it’s up to us to be prepared every hour of every day. I think those of us who live our lives into old age have been entrusted with a special calling. Old age is a gift and a responsibility. It is up to us to be examples of faith and prayer in a world that strays farther from God at every turn.

For you yourselves know very well that the day of the Lord will come like a thief in the night. When people are saying, “Peace and security,” then sudden disaster comes upon them, like labor pains upon a pregnant woman, and they will not escape. 1 Thessalonians 5:2-3

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Blog Post November 12, 2017, Thirty-Second Sunday in Ordinary Time

There is a stream whose runlets gladden the city of God, the holy dwelling of the Most High. God is in its midst; it shall not be disturbed; God will help it at the break of dawn. Psalm 46:4-5

Thursday we celebrated the feast of the dedication of the first church in Rome, the Basilica of St. John Lateran. It is the pope’s basilica, consecrated in 324 AD and known as the most ancient church in the world – but its history has been turbulent. In 410 the basilica was pillaged by the Visigoths and in 455 by the Vandals. In 896 an earthquake collapsed its central roof, and in 1308 and 1361 it was ravaged by fire. But always it was rebuilt.

The ancient basilica reminds me of the Church itself that has suffered trials and persecutions throughout the centuries but endured no matter what the obstacles. I think about how we are the Church, each one of us is part of the whole. Each of us then must do our part to keep it strong and holy, especially in these troubled times.

In St. Paul’s letter to the Corinthians he compares himself to “a wise master builder” who laid a foundation to be built on by others and tells us that we are God’s building. Then in case we still don’t get he says: “Do you not know that you are God’s temple and that God’s Spirit dwells in you?” (1 Corinthians 3:9,10,16)

So our work is laid out for us, to take great care each day to build on the foundation of our faith so that each of us will be the temple that God envisioned us to be.

Do not deceive yourselves. If you think that you are wise in this age, you should become fools so that you may become wise. For the wisdom of this world is foolishness with God. 1 Corinthians 3:18-19

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Blog Post November 5, 2017, Thirty-First Sunday in Ordinary Time

The souls of the just are in the hand of God, and no torment shall touch them. They seemed, in the view of the foolish, to be dead; and their passing away was thought an affliction and their going forth from us, utter destruction. But they are in peace. Wisdom 3:1-3

Wednesday was the feast of All Saints Day. The 8:30 Mass at our church was packed not only with the school kids but with all the parents and grand-parents who came to see their first-graders dressed up as their favorite saints. There were many Josephs and Marys, Thereses and Patricks, and a St. Francis with a bird on his shoulder.

Father talked about the saints and their relationship to God then asked the kids “who wants to be holy?” Every hand shot up. Then he asked the grown-ups at the back of the church, and the response was the same – all of us want to be holy. The thing is, between wanting and doing the chasm is formidable. I wonder how many hands would have shot up if the question had been “Are you trying as hard as you can to be holy every day?”

We know we are all called on to “be holy as your heavenly Father is holy”. But I think most of feel a little like Augustine:”I want to be holy, but not just yet.” Thérčse of Lisieux writes, “God would never inspire me with desires which cannot be realized; so in spite of my littleness, I can hope to be a saint.” So the first step in the pursuit of holiness may be to pray for the desire to be holy.

On Thursday we celebrated All Soul’s Day – the day set aside to remind us to pray for our beloved dead and to ask them to pray for us. To remember the dead is part of an ancient tradition but it wasn’t until the 11th century that St. Odilo of Cluny decreed that it should be celebrated November 2nd in all of his Benedictine monasteries. Over the next two centuries other monasteries began to follow suit until it finally became a part of the official Liturgical year. Now the whole month of November is devoted to prayer for the souls in purgatory, which the Church refers to as the “Holy Souls”.

Pope Benedict XVI tells us, “I would go so far as to say that if there was no purgatory, then we would have to invent it, for who would dare say of himself that he was able to stand directly before God. And yet we don’t want to be… ‘a pot that has turned out wrong,’ that has to be thrown away…Purgatory basically means that God can put the pieces back together again…”

So what does this mean for us – All Saints Day, All Souls Day? For me it’s a great reminder that we are on this journey together, working our way through life in the pursuit of holiness. But most important is that we need to work at it each day, knowing our time is limited. I’m inspired by the words of Mother Teresa: “Yesterday is gone. Tomorrow has not yet come. We have only today. Let us begin.”

Beloved, we are God’s children now; what we shall be has not yet been revealed. We do know that when it is revealed we shall be like him, for we shall see him as he is. 1 John 3:1-2

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Blog Post October 29, 2017, Thirtieth Sunday in Ordinary Time

Have mercy on me, O Lord, for I am in distress. Tears have wasted my eyes, my throat and my heart. For my life is spent with sorrow and my years with sighs. Affliction has broken down my strength and my bones waste away. Psalm 31:9-10

At Mass on Friday the first reading was St. Paul’s letter to the Romans (7:18-25) where he tells us it is impossible to resist temptation without the grace of God. “For I do not do the good I want, but I do the evil I do not want.” We can all join in that declaration. Our nature is fallen – we are sinners. And so we pray for God’s grace and deliverance.

In his letter to the Corinthians Paul tells us “…a thorn was given me in the flesh”. He says he prayed not once, but three times that it would leave him. Yet instead of the cure he sought the Lord told him: “My grace is sufficient for you, for power is made perfect in weakness.” (2 Corinthians 12:7-9)

This is a hard lesson. Even Paul in all his holiness did not have his prayer answered in the way he wanted. Yet God wills only the best for us – clearly we do not know what that is and so we don’t know what to ask for. Then how do we pray? When Jesus’ disciples asked him to teach them how to pray, he responded “Pray then this way” and gave them the words of the “Our Father”. (Matthew 6:9-13).

In St. Augustine’s letter to Proba* (a widow in a religious community in Carthage) he answers her request about what it is right to prayer for. He starts by telling her that that even such a great man as St. Paul did not know what he should pray for. Then he instructs her to use the Lord's Prayer as a model for all her praying. He tells her to use few words, but says words are necessary because:”They recall to our minds what we are praying for, and allow us to consider it. We shouldn't believe that they inform the Lord or persuade him of anything.”

The point is we do not pray to change God’s mind, but to change ours. As we consider what it is we are praying for we remind ourselves that the bottom line is to pray that our hearts will be transformed – that in the end we can truly declare: “Not my will but thine be done.”

So, I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may dwell in me. Therefore I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities for the sake of Christ; for whenever I am weak, then I am strong. 2 Corinthians 12:9-10

*This is probably Augustine's best-known letter. Known as Letter 130, it was written in the year 412, by which time he had been a bishop for about seventeen years.

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Blog Post October 22, 2017, Twenty-Ninth Sunday in Ordinary Time

I have called you by name, you are mine. When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and through the rivers, they shall not overwhelm you; when you walk through fire you shall not be burned, and the flame shall not consume you. Isaiah 43:1-2

“Unless a grain of wheat falls to the ground and dies, it remains just a grain of wheat; but if it dies, it produces much fruit.” (John 12:24) Jesus was talking about his own death when he said this, but the words are meant for us also. I think we would all like to produce an abundance of fruit – it’s the dying part that frightens us. Yet Jesus is telling us we must die to our selfish, self-centered, false selves if we would bear much fruit. It is an invitation to transformation. But transformation means leaving behind our old ways.

Change is never easy. I think of the fortitude required of Abraham when at age 75 God told him to leave the well-established city of Haran and head out into the desert to a place that God would show him. All of his friends, his familiar way of life, all had to be left behind. (Genesis 12) There is no way Abraham could have done it without an unwavering trust in God. Trust is the key for us too if we are to follow the path that God has laid out for us.

Twenty years ago I made my first retreat at Gethsemani Abbey where a monk suggested I find a mantra that would help me keep my spiritually on track. I remember saying, skeptically, that what I really needed was to be able to trust in God. I’ll never forget the way his eyes lit up at that. “So there you have it,” he said. “Trust in God”.

For twenty years that has been my mantra. Father was right – Trust in God is all I really need.

Do not worry about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:6-7

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Blogpost October 15, 2017,Twenty Eighth Sunday Ordinary Time,

I called to the Lord in my distress; he answered and freed me. The Lord is at my side; I do not fear. What can man do against me? The Lord is at my side as my helper; I shall look down on my foes. Psalm 118: 5-7

On Friday we heard Luke’s Gospel where Jesus is accused of driving out a demon “By the power of Beelzebul” and he replies that a kingdom divided against itself cannot stand –that the devil doesn’t fight against himself. (Luke11:15-26) That part of Jesus’ teaching is pretty straight forward, but then he says something I struggle to understand.

Jesus tells the crowd that when an unclean spirit goes out of someone and doesn’t find rest he tries to go back to that place. “But upon returning, he finds it swept clean and put in order. Then he goes and brings back seven other spirits more wicked than himself…and the last condition of the man is worse than the first.”

I think Jesus is telling us our heart was not made to be empty – one way or the other it will be occupied. It is not enough to rid ourselves of some sin or bad habit. The space must be filled with God’s presence – with our will turned decisively to his will. We fool ourselves if we think that we are good because we have no great sin to confess. To be lukewarm in our spiritual life is to risk the return of demons seven fold. We read in Revelations: “I know your works; you are neither cold nor hot… So, because you are lukewarm, and neither cold nor hot, I am about to spit you out of my mouth. (Revelations 3:15-16)

There is an old joke about a psychiatrist who asks his patient if he has trouble making decisions. The patient says in response, "Well, doctor, yes and no."

My prayer this week is that I will not to be like that patient when it comes to inviting God into my heart.

My brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of any kind, consider it nothing but joy, because you know that the testing of your faith produces endurance; and let endurance have its full effect, so that you may be mature and complete, lacking in nothing. James 1:2-4

Email whether or not your experience has shown you that people who have overcome a sinful practice but get careless and do not avoid occasions of sin fall back into the sinful way to sin even more seriously.

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Blog Post October 8, 2017 Twenty-Seventh Sunday in Ordinary Time

For surely I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord, plans for your welfare and not for harm, to give you a future with hope. Then when you call upon me and come and pray to me, I will hear you. When you search for me, you will find me; if you seek me with all your heart. Jeremiah 29:11-13

I‘m always a little uncomfortable when I hear Jesus’ directions to the seventy-two disciples he sent out in pairs to every town and place he intended to visit: “Carry no money bag, no sack, no sandals, and greet no one along the way.” He also tells them to eat and drink what is offered and not to move about (looking for a better deal) but to stay in the same house. (Luke 10:1-12)

What is this gospel saying to us? If you’re like me your closets are full of clothes, your kitchens sport every appliance and when you travel your suitcases can hardly hold your essentials. I ask myself how we can get untangled from these ties that bind. For me the first step is to ponder this message of Jesus to his disciples, to think about what it means for us in our everyday lives. We may not be one of those seventy-two, but we too are called on to be his disciples. If we take Jesus’ words into our hearts we see that the simpler we are able to make our lives, the more time and energy we have to follow him.

Jesus’ words to the seventy-two are not just about travel to those towns of his time, but about a way of life. Do not be greedy, do not waste your time in gossip and small talk, do not squander your energy by looking for better deals in your life, be satisfied with what has been given to you – and above all remember those words from Jeremiah: “I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord, plans for your welfare and not for harm, to give you a future with hope.”

Make purses for yourselves that do not wear out, an unfailing treasure in heaven, where no thief comes near and no moth destroys. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. Luke 12:33-34

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Blog Post October 1, 2017, Twenty-Sixth Sunday in Ordinary Time

I will give thanks to you,, O Lord, with all my heart, for you have heard the words of my mouth; in the presence of the angels I will sing your praise; I will worship at your holy temple and give thanks to your name. Psalm 138:1-2

On Friday we celebrated the feast of the Archangels Michael, Gabriel and Raphael. Tomorrow we celebrate the feast of the Holy Guardian Angels. I firmly believe in the presence of angels among us. Jesus himself talks of angels when he tells Nathanael: “Truly, truly, I say to you, you will see heaven opened, and the angels of God ascending and descending upon the Son of man.” (John 1:51)

So the question is what do angels mean to you and me in our everyday life? Personally I see them as a bridge to God – the thought that I have my own guardian angel makes me think about channels of grace flowing from God into my heart.

I love The Guardian Angel poem I learned in grade school:
Angel of God, My Guardian Dear
to whom God's love commits me here.
Ever this day be at my side
to light and guard to rule and guide. Amen

A few days ago I visited a hospice patient who was very anxious. We talked about her guardian angel who is watching over her and when I recited the little poem she smiled as though a cloud had been lifted.

I’m inspired by these words of Jennifer Hubbard who lost a child at the Sandy Hook shooting: “We need not summon; we need simply to rest in knowing the angels are among us all the days of our lives. They are our guardians, our guides, and our constant companions. Surely I can feel the rush of their wings ever so slightly brush my cheek and know they are in this space.”

The Lord has put angels in charge of you, to guard you in all your ways. With their hands, they shall support you, lest you strike your foot against a stone. Psalm 91:11- 12

The Catechism of the Catholic Church tells us that angels are messengers of God to humans. Email if you have ever had a good thought which just comes into your head for no reason inexplicably. Would you be willing to attribute the arrival of this thought as the action of an angel?

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Twenty-Fifth Sunday in Ordinary Time,

Make a joyful noise to the Lord, all the lands! Serve the Lord with gladness! Come into his presence with singing! Enter his gates with thanksgiving, and his courts with praise! Psalm 100:2,4

This weekend I will be on retreat at Gethsemani Abbey in Kentucky. This Sunday’s gospel about the landowner who gave all the workers the same wage (no matter what time of day they went into his fields) will have a special meaning for me as I think about my work as a follower of Christ. Any time I’m tempted to draw comparisons with others or to say “it isn’t fair”, I need to remind myself the only person I need to judge is myself and the only question I need to ask the Lord is “am I doing the work you want me to do in your vineyard?”

A retreat is a perfect time to get centered on the things that matter and to do a kind of check list about my spiritual life. The only problem is that I usually begin my retreat thinking,”I’m not doing too badly”, and come away from it feeling like I have to start all over again.

I’m comforted by Jesus word to the Pharisees who asked his disciples, “Why does you teacher eat with tax collectors and sinners?” And Jesus’ reply, “I did not come to call the righteous but sinners.”

But even the hairs of your head are all numbered. Fear not, therefore; you are of more value than many sparrows. Matthew 10:30

Email how you would calm the following anxiety. Once, long ago, I was a terrible sinner and felt the call of Jesus to return. I responded to the call but now that I am righteous, God is not looking for me.

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Blog Post September 17, 2017, Twenty-Fourth Sunday in Ordinary Time

Who is like the Lord, our God, and looks upon the heavens and the earth below? He rises up the lowly from the dust; from the dunghill he lifts up the poor. Psalm 113:5-7

As I watched the news on the hurricanes in Texas and Florida, it reminded me how little control we have over our lives from moment to moment. Disaster hits from out of the blue. One moment all is well and the next water is sweeping through the streets and winds are tearing the roofs from our houses. It’s a stark reminder of how fragile we are as human beings.

The one thing we can turn to over and over is our faith in God and his love for us. The best preparations we can make for whatever might befall is to strengthen our faith bit by bit, day by day. Jesus told his followers: “I will show you what someone is like who comes to me, listens to my words, and acts on them. That one is like a man building a house, who dug deeply and laid the foundation on rock; when the flood came, the rivers burst against that house but could not shake it because it had been well built.” Luke 6:46-48

In the midst of the hurricane reports was the story of "Harvey the Hurricane Hawk" who flew into a taxi cab in Houston to take shelter. The driver brought the bird to his apartment where they waited out the storm until rescuers took her to a wildlife refuge. For “Harvey the Hurricane Hawk” it was a leap of faith that saved her life (despite the name she was a young female).

Friday was the memorial Mass of Our Lady of Sorrows which commemorates the seven sorrows of our Blessed Mother beginning with the prophecy of Simeon and ending with the burial of Jesus. Mary is the perfect model of how we are to take up our cross and follow Jesus with unwavering faith. It’s not an easy task, but when things get tough I think of Caryll Houselander’s words: “Suffering is the most precious coin of all. Suffering of body, suffering of mind, paid down willingly for Christ in man, enables him to carry his redeeming cross through the world to the end of time.”

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A good person out of the store of goodness in his heart produces good, but an evil person out of a store of evil produces evil; for from the fullness of the heart the mouth speaks. Luke 6:45

Blog Post September 10, 2017, Twenty-Third Sunday in Ordinary Time

Come, let us bow down and worship; let us kneel before the Lord who made us. For he is our God, and we are the people he shepherds, the flock he guides. Psalm 95:6-7

At our house we like to celebrate Labor Day with a backyard cookout – the last of the season. On Monday we gathered around the picnic table with our hamburgers, brats, baked beans and potato salad to lament the passing of summer. Vacations are over, the days are shorter, the kids are back at school, and we begin to think more seriously about work for the coming year.

In Monday’s Gospel we read about the beginning of Jesus work of salvation. Jesus read from the scroll of the prophet Isaiah: “The Spirit of the Lord is upon me, because he has anointed me to bring glad tidings to the poor. He has sent me to proclaim liberty to captives and recovery of sight to the blind, to let the oppressed go free, and to proclaim a year acceptable to the Lord.”

Then Jesus told the Jews that this day the scripture was fulfilled in their hearing. At first they “spoke highly of him” until he reminded them that the miracles of Elijah and Elisha were done for foreigners, not Jews – and that no prophet is accepted in his own land. Then they tried to kill him. (Luke 4:16-30)

For me this is a sobering reminder of what lies ahead as the seasons begin to unfold. Even as we look forward to the lavishness of fall with it abundant harvests and begin to anticipate the Birth of the Child at Christmas, we are faced with the reality of Jesus’ mission. I find it hard to balance the joy of our salvation with the knowledge of the crucifixion. It helps me to think of the example of Mary whose joy was forever tempered by the prophecy of Simeon.

So this week I will think about my work, about how to balance the good with the bad, how to be grateful for the gift of still being able to work, and how to offer up the hard stuff when it comes – as it surely will.

Then Jesus told his disciples, “If any want to become my followers, let them deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me. For those who want to save their life will lose it, and those who lose their life for my sake will find it. Matthew 16:24-25

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Blog Post September 3, 2017, Twenty-Second Sunday in Ordinary Time

Thus will I bless you while I live; lifting up my hands, I will call upon your name. You are my help, and in the shadow of your wings I shout for joy. Psalm 63:4,7

In today’s gospel Jesus tells his disciples he must go to Jerusalem to suffer greatly and be killed and we hear Peter’s protest that such a thing should happen. My sympathies are with Peter. Even now, all these centuries later, even knowing the Lord is risen – the crucifixion is hard to contemplate. When I read this gospel I think about how hard it must have been for Peter to hear from Jesus’ own lips that he must suffer and die.

The fact is not only must Jesus be crucified, but we are told that to be a follower of Jesus we too must take up our cross and follow after him. (Matthew 16:21-27) The transformation of Peter from a stance of protest and denial to a willingness to suffer and die as a follower of Jesus shows us such transformation is possible. So what can we do to make that happen?

Consider these words of instruction from Peter: Therefore gird up your minds, be sober, set your hope fully upon the grace that is coming to you at the revelation of Jesus Christ. As obedient children, do not be conformed to the passions of your former ignorance, but as he who called you is holy, be holy yourselves in all your conduct; since it is written, “You shall be holy, for I am holy.” 1 Peter 1:13-16

All of us are called on to be holy. The end result would be great for us – it’s getting there that is the problem. Holiness is something we tend to put off. Maybe we’ll pursue it tomorrow or the next day – maybe in a New Year’s resolution – maybe next year. Fortunately God never lessens his pursuit of us.

This is the will of God, your holiness…Therefore, whoever disregards this, disregards not a human being but God, who also gives his Holy Spirit to you. 1 Thessalonians 4:3, 8

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Blog Post August 27, 2017, Twenty-First Sunday in Ordinary Time

I will walk with blameless heart within my house; I will not set before my eyes whatever is base. I will hate the ways of the crooked; they shall not be my friends. Psalm 10:2-3

Charles and I are in San Diego visiting grandkids this weekend, but I’d like to leave you with this thought from my post on the Twenty-First Sunday of 2013:

A friend of mine in her forties was lamenting the fact that she is growing old – little by little. She said she was fifteen pound lighter twenty years ago and could eat whatever she wanted. Now she is finding a few gray hairs and has less energy than she used to.

It made me think about aging and that our spiritual self, unlike our physical self, is designed to grow and flourish over time. This is the biggest advantage of growing old, time to work out our failings. But that assumes our spiritual health is a priority.

Remember Oscar Wilde’s Picture of Dorian Gray in which the handsome young man sells his soul so that the portrait of him will age but he will not? He then pursues a decadent life, retaining an appearance of youth and innocence while his portrait becomes more grotesque with each sin. When Dorian Gray tries to destroy the portrait it returns to its original beauty, but all of its ugliness, accrued over years of debauchery, returns to his face. What if we had a picture like that of our soul?

I like to think that the older we get, the more we are able to view our inner selves, that even as time reduces our outer vision, our inner vision is sharpened. Much like physical exercise this inner vision takes effort and works best when it is trained to become a habit. This is a good argument for taking a few minutes at the end of each day to see how our spiritual life is doing – we used to call it ‘examination of conscience’.

But the one who listens and does not act, is like a person who built a house on the ground without a foundation. When the river burst against it, it collapsed at once and was completely destroyed. Luke 6:49

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Blog Post August 20, 2017, Twentieth Sunday in Ordinary Time

May God have pity on us and bless us, may he let his face shine upon us. So may your way be known upon the earth; among all nations, your salvation. Psalm 67:1-2

I’ve been thinking about Matthew’s gospel where Peter asks Jesus how many times we need to forgive and Jesus responds, “seventy-seven times.” Then Jesus tells us the story of the servant whose master forgives him a huge debt. But after he is forgiven the servant seizes a fellow servant who owes him a much smaller debt and has him thrown into prison. The result is that the master has the servant whose debt he forgave handed over to the torturers until he would pay what he owed. (Matthew 18:21-35)

Mercy has two parts – the giving of it and the acceptance by the receiver. If we are the givers of forgiveness it makes us feel empowered, we are on top of things, in the driver’s seat. On the other hand, when we are the receivers of forgiveness, of mercy, it reminds us of our need, that we are wanting and dependant.

Sometimes I think of mercy as a pecking order. If you’re at the top of the heap it’s easy to show mercy to those below and to feel good about your generosity. But what about when you’re on the receiving end of another’s mercy? Sometimes it’s hard to even acknowledge mercy from others – sometimes we can’t even admit we need their forgiveness. The lurking sin is our pride.

We know pride is one of the seven deadly sins. Pride cast Adam from the garden, pride cast Satan from heaven. To meditate on God’s mercy to us, reminds me of how great a gift is his forgiveness, and how that is what is expected of us, to show the same mercy to others – How many times? “seventy-seven”.

But because of his great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in transgressions—it is by grace you have been saved. Ephesians 2:4-5

How do you connect mercy and forgiveness? Email your experience of cases such as: showing mercy and forgiveness, showing mercy without forgiveness, forgiveness without mercy, and no mercy and no forgiveness

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Blog Post August 13, 2017, Nineteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time

Lord, on the day I called for help, you answered me. I will give thanks to you, O Lord, with all my heart, for you have heard the words of my mouth; in the presence of the angels I will sing your praise. Psalm 138:1-2

I’ve been thinking a lot about Angels lately. It started a few days ago when I visited an Alzheimer's patient and recited this familiar childhood prayer for him:
Angel of God, my guardian dear,
to whom God's love commits me here,
ever this day, be at my side,
to light, to guard, to rule, to guide.

It made Ted’s face light up to hear this little prayer again and we began to talk about angels. I told him my husband Charles says that Angels are thoughts from God that help us in our daily life.

Ted said that sounded right because people are so different from each other that special thoughts would need to be sent to each of them. I was amazed at the discussion that followed since Ted is in an advanced stage of Alzheimer’s. He usually repeats the same stories from his past every visit and forgets important events from a few hours before. But when it came to Angels he was animated and talking about them made him happy. Fr. Alfred Delp, the German Jesuit who was executed by the Nazis in 1945, may have shared Charles’ idea of angels. He wrote from prison: “if the angels murmured word does not simultaneously shake us to the depths and lift up our souls – then it is over for us. Then we are living wasted time, and we are dead, long before they do anything to us.”

In a meditation on Guardian Angels, Pope John XXIII wrote: “We must remember how admirable was the intention of divine Providence in entrusting to the angels the mission of watching over all mankind, and over individual human beings, lest they should fall victims to the grave dangers which they encounter.”

So whether Angels are thoughts from the Divine sent to guide and inspire us, or winged representatives in our midst, they are manifestation of God’s great love for each one of us – upfront and personal.

He who conquers shall be clad thus in white garments, and I will not blot his name out of the book of life; I will confess his name before my Father and before his angels. Revelation 3:5.

Email your reflections on the following question. If God created angels to be messengers of his thoughts to humans, God offered angels the choice of whether or not to be faithful conveyers of his messages but some angels made the choice of conveying their own messages to humans, what would those defiant angels be and what kind of messages would they bring to human thinking?

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Blog Post August 6, 2017, Eighteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time , Feast of the Transfiguration

How lovely is your dwelling place, O Lord of hosts! My soul longs, indeed it faints for the courts of the Lord; my heart and my flesh sing for joy to the living God. Psalm 84:1-2

I posted my very first blog in November of 2008 to share some of my spiritual thoughts and insights. I thought I had something to say and something to teach – but the fact is that writing my blog every week for over the last nine years has been my own greatest teacher. Year after year I hear the daily Mass readings repeated in their three year cycle and ponder them for something to share. In the process I have learned more than in any lecture or classroom. Sometimes it’s hard to believe that all that seems so new to me has always been there only waiting to be seen.

On Thursday I was lector at Mass and as usual checked the reading from the night before. (Exodus 40:16-21, 34-38) This is the reading where Moses is given precise directions about how to erect the Dwelling – how to place its pedestals, set up the boards, put in its bars, and set up its columns. We are told in great detail how he carried out all as the Lord commanded him. Then we are told the people would not set out on their journey until the cloud rose from the Dwelling, and if it did not lift, they did not go forward. We are told it was thus “in all the stages of their journey”.

As I read these words for the Liturgy it suddenly struck me how much this tells us about listening for God’s will in our lives and for following it in the smallest detail. The reward for doing this is that God will be with us in all the stages of our journey. It takes prayer and discipline, but at the end is ‘the pearl of great price’.

Jesus took Peter, James, and his brother John and led them up a high mountain by themselves. And he was transfigured before them, and his face shone like the sun, and his clothes became dazzling white...then from the cloud came a voice that said, “This is my beloved Son, with whom I am well pleased; listen to him.” Matthew 17:1-2, 5

Email reasons whether or not you ever had an experience of really understanding a truth of faith or biblical passage when you tried to explain it to someone else.

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Blog Post July 30, 2017, Seventeenth Sunday in Ordinary Time

You, O Lord, are a God merciful and gracious, slow to anger, abounding in kindness and fidelity. Turn to me, and have pity on me; give your strength to your servant. Psalm 86:15-16

We are all familiar with Jesus’ parable of the sower. Last Sunday we heard the details once more in Matthew (13:24-43), then parts of it again on Wednesday. But there was still more to come. On Friday we heard Jesus’ explanation of the seed sewn on the path, on rocky ground, and among thorns. (Matthew 13:18-23) Then Jesus tells us, “Whoever has ears, ought to hear”. What does Jesus mean by this? What are we supposed to be hearing and doing?

Jesus makes it clear that it’s no accident if our hearts have become like hardened paths or rocky ground or thorns. He tells us we are responsible for that inner place where the word of God is strewn like seed – we are responsible in our thoughts and in our words and in our deeds. Every day we live and breathe we are cultivating the soil of our hearts.

Bishop Barron reminds us that it takes work to bring our faith to its most fruitful place – but the reward is great. He writes: “When we understand the faith, when we take the time to read theology, to study the Scripture; when we persevere, discipline ourselves, and practice the faith; when we have our priorities straight, then the seed will take root in us.”

Think about that. Getting the soil to be fruitful doesn’t just happen. It takes work – hard work on a daily basis. So the question is how much Scripture do you read and how much discipline do you exert in your daily life? Jesus makes it clear that we will be held responsible for the quality of our soil. He tells us, “Whoever has ears, ought to hear”.

It’s a little frightening to think about how easy it is to drift along in our lives and let our spiritual inclinations wither. I’m reminded of the classic story of the old devil Screwtape who told his nephew Wormwood: “Indeed the safest road to Hell is the gradual one – the gentle slope, soft underfoot, without sudden turnings, without milestones, without signposts.” *

I think one of the best antidotes to slipping down “the gentle slope” is a daily examination of conscience with the simple question: Where have I been, where am I going, is this where I want to be?

As for what was sown on good soil, this is he who hears the word and understands it; he indeed bears fruit, and yields, in one case a hundredfold, in another sixty, and in another thirty.” Matthew 13:23

* C.S. Lewis, The Screwtape Letters

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Blog Post July 23, 2017, Sixteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time

With you is wisdom, she who knows your works and was present when you made the world; she understands what is pleasing in your sight and what is right according to your commandments. 1Wisdom 9:9

We all know we’re going to die one day – sometimes we think about it, sometimes we talk about it. My friends’ death preferences fall into two categories: Those who want to die in their sleep, and those who want some warning, some time to prepare for their death before it happens.

My friend and gym partner always said she wanted to die in her sleep. From time to time we would debate the issue (my preference is time for preparation). Last Saturday night my friend died in her sleep, peacefully, in her own bed. She had been at the gym on Friday, on the treadmill and the bikes as usual. All was well.

At my friend’s funeral Mass I’m sure I wasn’t the only one who was thinking it was a good time to take stock of my own life. A sudden death is a stark reminder that we know ‘neither the day nor the hour’ when the bridegroom with come for us. So my friend leaves us with that lesson: time is short, live each day as if may be your last.

Yesterday was the Feast of St. Mary Magdalene. Bishop Barron Writes of the resurrection of Jesus:”The stone had been rolled away. The stone blocking entrance to the tomb of Jesus stands for the finality of death. When someone that we love dies, it is as though a great stone is rolled across them, permanently blocking our access to them…” But the prophet Exekiel assures us of God’s plan, "I will open your graves and have you rise from them."

The saying is sure: If we have died with him, we shall also live with him; if we endure, we shall also reign with him; 2 Timothy 2:11-12

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Blog Post July 16, 2017, Fifteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time

I call upon you, for you will answer me, O God; incline your ear to me, hear my words. Show your wondrous mercies, O savior of those who flee from their foes. Psalm 17:6-7

Tuesday, July 11th was the Feast of St. Benedict, the founder of Western monasticism. Benedict was born in Nursia, Italy around 480. He was 20 years old when he left his studies in Rome and became a hermit for three years. He then founded twelve communities for monks before moving to the mountains of southern Italy where he established the monastery at Monte Casino around 529. It was here that he wrote the “Rule of Saint Benedict”, a practical guide for monastic life that is still in use today. Both St. Benedict and his twin sister St. Scholastica are buried at Monte Cassino in the reconstructed cathedral.

As a Lay Cistercian of Gethsemani Abbey, this day has a special significance for me. Part of the LCG commitment ceremony states the intent is “…to live a lifestyle in the spirit of the Rule of St. Benedict and the Cistercian charism, and within my family, at my place of work, and in my community.” The “lifestyle” is one of trying to maintain an inner silence and to keep our hearts fixed on prayer as much as possible as we move through our day. Fr. John Main writes that Benedict’s way urges its followers to look for “…what is eternally real, the new creation and seek the purity of heart that will open your eyes.” *

The amazing thing about the monastery of Monte Cassino is its endurance. It was demolished for the first time by the Lombards in 580 and rebuilt. In 884 the Saracens sacked it and burned it down. Again it was rebuilt. In 1944 Monte Cassino was destroyed by Allied bombing, and once more it was rebuilt, a tribute to faith and perseverance.

Jesus said: “Come to me, all you who labor and are burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am meek and humble of heart; and you will find rest for yourselves. For my yoke is easy, and my burden light.” Matthew 11:28-30

*From Silence and Stillness in Every Season p.194

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Blog Post July 9, 2017, Fourteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time

Remember me, O Lord, when you show favor to your people. Visit me with your saving help, that I may see the prosperity of your chosen ones, rejoice in the joy of your people, and glory with your inheritance. Psalm 106:4-5

I have dozens of religious books in my little library, accumulated over the years, but I find myself reading them less and less. Not only that, when someone recommends a new spiritual book, I no longer am motivated to seek it out. I used to be on a determined quest for something that would inspire me to be closer to God. I thought if I just read the right book or heard the right speaker, I would be on my way to holiness. But all that happened was that I was driven to read more books and to wonder when I might find the one that would lead me where I needed to go.

We can always persuade ourselves to put off any serious spiritual effort until we know a little more – read a few more books – are better prepared. I never thought of it as procrastination before, but that’s exactly what it was. At one point I needed to go from thinking to doing. What does “doing” mean in the spiritual life? The answer is a little different for each of us.

In a recent homily about the different approaches of the four Evangelists, Father said the way to Jesus is a little like traveling to New York City – you can get there by car, by boat, by train or by air. So it is in our spiritual journey – there is not a single path. It is up to us to be attentive to the way that is best for us.

A few weeks ago representatives of a number of third order and associate groups gave a presentation about their spirituality. The purpose was to dispense information for lay people who may be interested in joining them. We heard about Third Order Dominicans, Franciscans, Carmelites and Lay Cistercians, each with a slightly different emphasis – for some it was preaching, for others charitable works or contemplation. It was a beautiful reminder of the many paths to holiness and how it is up to us to find the best fit.

Sometimes we forget that we have an obligation to become holy. St. Paul tells us that God “…chose us in Christ before the foundation of the world to be holy…” (Ephesians 1:4) But holiness isn’t something we can decide to get like a college degree. It’s a grace from God and the best way to obtain a grace is to ask for it – and to be watchful for the answer, which often comes in unexpected ways.

And he said to them, “Why are you afraid, you of little faith?” Then he got up, rebuked the winds and the sea, and there was great calm. Matthew 8:25-26

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Blog Post July 2, 2017, Thirteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time

Blessed are you who fear the Lord, who walk in his ways! For you shall eat the fruit of your handiwork; blessed shall you be, and favored. Psalm 128:1-2

The month of July is dedicated to the Precious Blood of Jesus. The feast of the Precious Blood was instituted in 1849 by Pius IX, but the devotion is as old as Christianity. The early Fathers said that the Church was born from the pierced side of Christ, and that the sacraments were brought forth through His Blood. In the first letter of St. Peter we read: “You know that you were redeemed from the vain manner of life handed down from your fathers, not with perishable things as silver or gold but with the Precious Blood of Christ as the Lamb without blemish and without spot.”

The trouble is we are separated by so many centuries from the crucifixion and death of Jesus that sometimes our hearts grow cold to the reality of the human suffering of Jesus as he shed his Blood for our redemption – and the fact that he would have gone through the same agony and pain if there was only one of us to be redeemed.

June 27th was the feast of “Our Lady of Perpetual Help”, the title of the Blessed Virgin Mary in the 15th-century Byzantine icon legend says is a copy of a painting by Saint Luke. Here we see the child Jesus clinging to his mother’s hand in fear – he has run to her so quickly one of his sandals has fallen off and is dangling from his foot. Why is he so afraid? He is gazing up at an angel holding the lance and cross and nails of his passion.

As I meditate on this icon of “Our Lady of Perpetual Help” I feel more connected to the humanity of Jesus. It helps me to pray for a greater awareness and thankfulness for the gift he bestowed on us in the shedding of his Precious Blood. No wonder the Church dedicates an entire month to this holy gift.

Enter through the narrow gate; for the gate is wide and the road is easy that leads to destruction, and there are many who take it. For the gate is narrow and the road is hard that leads to life, and there are few who find it. Matthew 7:13-14

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Blog Post June 25, 2017, Twelfth Sunday in Ordinary Time

The designs of his heart are from age to age, to rescue their souls from death, and to keep them alive in famine. Psalm 33: 11.19

Friday was the feast of the Solemnity of the most Sacred Heart of Jesus. Pope Benedict XVI tells us: “His divine Heart calls to our hearts, inviting us to come out of ourselves, to abandon our human certainties to trust in him…”

Private devotion to the Sacred Heart of Jesus can be traced back to the eleventh century but the first official liturgical Feast of the Sacred Heart did not occur until August 31, 1670 in Rennes, France, through the efforts of Saint John Eudes. The Mass and Office he composed were adopted especially for the spread of devotion to the Sacred Heart. In 1856 Pope Pius IX established the Feast of the Sacred Heart as obligatory for the whole Church, to be celebrated on the Friday after the Octave of Corpus Christi, 19 days after Pentecost. In 2002 the Solemnity of the Sacred Heart of Jesus was established to also be a special Day of Prayer for the Sanctification of Priests.

Today devotion to the Sacred Heart of Jesus is one of the most widely practiced Catholic devotions. Not surprising when you think about the fact that we are celebrating our Creator’s endless Divine love for us. Any day you pick up the paper and read the headlines, the gift of that love becomes even more astonishing.

On Thursday Charles and I toured the St. Gabriel Catholic Radio Station during its open house here in Columbus, Ohio. The station began broadcasting out of Marysville in 2005 – the first and only Catholic Radio station in central Ohio. The AM broadcast range wasn’t very far-reaching, but it was a start.

In 2008 the station was able to secure a broader signal and finally, in 2011, they purchased their present AM 820 spot – formerly WOSU-AM. St. Gabriel’s resources and popularity continue to grow by leaps and bounds. I think about that as I write this blog because the jewel of that little radio station is its Sacred Heart Chapel with its simple altar and the Crucifix imported from Italy. We were told that every afternoon at 3:00 pm the little bell by the altar is rung summoning the staff and volunteers to pray together the “Chaplet of Divine Mercy”.

The image I take away from my tour of St. Gabriel Catholic Radio is an inspiring one of great dedication and prayer, of workers in whom the words of Benedict XVI must resound: “His divine Heart calls to our hearts, inviting us to come out of ourselves, to abandon our human certainties to trust in him…”

“Come to me all you who labor and are burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am meek and humble of heart; and you will find rest for yourselves. For my yoke is easy, and my burden light.” Matthew 11:28-30

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Blog Post June 18, 2017, Feast of Corpus Christi

Bless the Lord, O my soul; and all of my being, bless his holy name. Bless the Lord O my soul, and forget not all his benefits. Psalm 103:1-2

The feast of Corpus Christi is one of five occasions in the year on which a diocesan bishop is not to be away from his diocese except for a grave reason. By tradition Catholics take part in a procession following Mass in which the Blessed Sacrament is placed in a monstrance and held up by a member of the clergy as the people follow behind with prayers and hymns. The procession usually ends with benediction. At our church it also ends with a picnic on the church grounds to thank all those who have taken part in our perpetual adoration during the year.

The institution of Corpus Christi as a feast was the result of many years of work by Juliana de Cornillon, a 13th century Norbertine canoness born in Ličge, Belgium. Orphaned at the age of five, Juliana and her sister Agnes were put in the care of the Augustinian nuns at the convent and leprosarium of Mont-Cornillon, where Juliana developed a special devotion to the Blessed Sacrament.

In 1208 Juliana had a vision of Christ in which she was instructed to plead for the institution of the feast of Corpus Christi. The vision was repeated for the next 20 years until she finally told her confessor, who told the bishop. The result was in 1264 Pope Urban IV instituted the Solemnity of Corpus Christi in a papal bull “Transiturus”, which established it as a universal feast of the Church to be celebrated on the Thursday following Trinity Sunday.

In many countries the feast of Corpus Christi continued to take place on the Thursday following Trinity Sunday,but in March, 2017 Pope Francis officially moved the feast from Thursday to the Sunday following Trinity Sunday (which is when Italy and the United States celebrate it).

This hymn by St. Thomas Aquinas provides a beautiful meditation for the Feast of, Corpus Christi:
O Salutaris Hostia (O Saving Victim)

O saving Victim, opening wide
The gate of Heaven to us below;
Our foes press hard on every side;
Thine aid supply; thy strength bestow.

To thy great name be endless praise,
Immortal Godhead, One in Three.
O grant us endless length of days,
In our true native land with thee.

Jesus said to the Jewish crowds: “I am the living bread that came down from heaven; whoever eats this bread will live forever and the bread that I will give is my flesh for the life of the world.” John 6:51

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Blog Post May 28, 2017, Seventh Sunday of Easter, Celebration of The Feast of the Ascension of the Lord

All you peoples, clap your hands, shout to God with cries of gladness. For the Lord, the most High, the awesome, is the great king over all the earth. Psalm 47:1-2

Thursday was the Feast of the Ascension of the Lord – but in most dioceses in the U.S. it is celebrated on the following Sunday – as it will be celebrated today at Immaculate Conception Church.

The blog I wrote for the Ascension last year expresses my thoughts on this celebration so well, that I am repeating it today. I hope it will give you something to think about, as it does me.

I’ve always thought of the Ascension as the public triumph of Jesus proving to the world he was indeed the Son of God. Even as I write these words “triumph” and “proving”, I realize how much I’m affected by the same values as those of the people who crucified him.

What is the real meaning of the Ascension? What does it mean for you and me?

Pope Benedict XVI writes: “The meaning of Christ’s Ascension expresses our belief that in Christ the humanity that we all share has entered into the inner life of God in a new and hitherto unheard of way. It means that man has found an everlasting place in God.”

St. John Paul II wrote:”And renew your faith today in the promise of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has gone to prepare a place for us so that he can come back again and take us to himself.”

This seems pretty straight forward until I read in St. Augustine: “For just as he remained with us even after his ascension, so we too are already in heaven with him, even though what is promised us has not yet been fulfilled in our bodies.”

I’m filled with awe as I think about these words even though I don’t understand them. I guess that is part of the human condition – to endure the lack of clarity and keep trying. I take comfort in the words of St. Anselm of Canterbury, “I do not seek to understand that I may believe, but I believe in order to understand.”

They said, “Men of Galilee, why do you stand looking up toward heaven? This Jesus, who has been taken up from you into heaven, will come in the same way as you saw him go into heaven.” Acts 1:11

When you take the Anselmian approach of believing in order to understand, you have to be continually trying to formulate doctrinal statements in your own words - as you understand them. You keep formulating and re-formulating doctrines even though you realize none will "get it just right."Email one of your formulations of Benedict's claim that in the ascension humanity has entered God's inner life.

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Blog Post May 21, 2017, Sixth Sunday of Easter

Deep is calling to deep in the roar of your torrents. All your waves and breakers sweep over me. Psalm 42:7

On Friday I returned from my retreat at Gethsemani Abbey which was of special significance for me this year. Twenty years ago I made my first retreat at Gethsemani and have made it an annual event ever since.

This year Fr. Carlos gave a talk on salvation where he described a commercial by a Catholic organization. It opens with a man walking down the stairs to the subway with a sandwich in his hand. He sees a beggar huddled in a corner, looks from his sandwich to the beggar and walks over to give him the sandwich. As the man hands the sandwich to him he sees the beggar’s face has become the face of Christ. In the next shot the beggar is taking the sandwich from the man and as he takes it he sees in the man’s face the face of Christ. Fr. Carlos says this is the crux of salvation, the way we minister to each other, the give and the take, seeing each in Christ.

The drive from Columbus to Gethsemani is about 4 1/2 hours – enough time to make the transition from the bustle of my secular world to the silence of the monastery. The transition on the way back is a little harder, but I always come away from my retreat with something special. This time it will be Fr. Carlos’ image of Christ in each of us – in everything we say and do. When you think about it, it’s a big responsibility, but one that raises us from the ordinary to the divine.

Jesus said to his disciples: "I am the true vine, and my Father is the vine grower. He takes away every branch in me that does not bear fruit, and every one that does he prunes so that it bears more fruit. John 15:1-2

Email your opinion on this question.. Someone who is justifiably angry with you is shouting at you with a rage filled face. To try to control your temper you look for Christ's face in that angry face. If you succeed would you see Christ expressing anger?

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Blog Post May 14, 2017, Fifth Sunday of Easter, Mother’s Day

Lord, it is you who are my portion and cup; it is you yourself who are my prize. The lot marked out for me is my delight; welcome indeed the heritage that falls to me! Psalm 16:5-6

Mother’s Day is a good time to remind ourselves that Jesus gave us Mary, his mother as a final gift as he suffered on the cross. Even before that when God gave the message of his love to the human race, he chose motherhood to express it: “Can a mother forget her infant…even should she forget, I will never forget you.” (Isaiah 49:15).

A few days ago I was struck by a comment from a hospice patient regarding the impact his mother had on his life. His said his work had taken him all over the country with many trips to New York City but wherever he was, his mother was always with him. He smiled and tapped his head. “Here”, he said, “and she saved me from a lot of trouble”.

Mothers do that - and just as our mothers did that for us, so we must do that for our children.

May this Mother’s Day bring expressions of love and gratitude to all the mothers in our lives.

When Jesus saw his mother, and the disciple whom he loved standing near, he said to his mother, “Woman, behold, your son!” Then he said to the disciple, “Behold, your mother!” And from that hour the disciple took her to his own home. John 19:25-27

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Blog Post May 7, 2017, Fourth Sunday of Easter

I was hard pressed and was falling but the Lord came to help me. The Lord is my strength and my song; he is my savior. There are shouts of joy and victory in the tents of the just. Psalm 118:13-15

On Saturday the second graders at Immaculate Conception Church made their First Communion. Parents and grandparents were there to celebrate the event and afterwards there were festive parties at home with cards and gifts. On Wednesday the children will wear their First Communion dresses and suits again at the school Mass, for all to admire.

Religious educators admit it is often a challenge to get both kids and parents to understand this is about more than a pretty white dress and a party, but they work at it. In one parish they hold a retreat just for the children called “a Jesus Day” that focuses entirely on Jesus and the gift of the Eucharist.

How much do they really understand about the significance of Holy Communion? According to one educator, “It’s hard to say. We instruct the kids as much as we can, but sometimes we have to leave it up the Holy Spirit. It’s a journey for them. They’re not going to get it all now. We’re just planting the seed and giving them the tools, information and experience to help it grow.”

I find that a very comforting response. When I think of my own first communion years ago I’m embarrassed to say what I remember most is my beautiful white dress and worrying about whether I would be able to swallow the host. But it was a beginning – without that first time at Jesus’ table there wouldn’t be a second and a third – and a lifetime of receiving the Body and Blood of Jesus. It is up to us who have traveled this path for many years to see to it that these children who are at the beginning of their journey are encouraged to receive the Eucharist as often as possible and to be reminded of the grace and blessings of it.

I was saddened when one pastor told us that he sees some children receive their First Communion with all the joy and celebration their family can muster and on the next Sunday neither child nor parents come to Mass.

The Church teaches us that God's whole plan for our salvation is directed to our participation in the life of the Trinity – the communion of Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. Our sharing in this life begins with our Baptism, when by the power of the Holy Spirit we are joined to Christ, thus becoming adopted sons and daughters of the Father. In being united to the humanity of Christ we are at the same time united to his divinity.

The Eucharist is a mystery we cannot fathom, but for which we are ever grateful as we contemplate Jesus’ promise to us: “Just as the living Father sent me and I have life because of the Father, so also the one who feeds on me will have life because of me.” (John 6:53-57)

So Jesus said to them, “Amen, amen, I say to you, unless you eat the Flesh of the Son of man and drink his Blood, you do not have life within you. Whoever eats my Flesh and drinks my Blood has eternal life, and I will raise him on the last day. John 6:53-56

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Blog Post April 30, 2017, Third Sunday of Easter

Clap your hands, all you peoples; shout to God with loud songs of joy. For the Lord, the Most High, is awesome, a great king over all the earth. Psalm 47:1-3

In today’s gospel we hear once more how Jesus walked along with the two men on the road to Emmaus. Despite the way he explained every passage of the scripture that related to him (there are 300 regarding the messiah) they did not recognize him – not until the breaking of the bread at their table. (Luke 24:13-35) I ask myself how that was possible. Jesus was right there with them and they did not recognize him.

There’s a shaggy dog story about a man who visits a number of cathedrals in Europe. At each he sees a marble column with a golden telephone on it and a note: “direct line to heaven: $1,000”. His last stop is Ireland where he visits another cathedral with the same marble column and golden telephone, but this one reads: “direct line to heaven: 25 cents.” When he asks the priest why, he answers: “Because you’re in Ireland now. It's a local call."

Why does this remind me of the Road of Emmaus? Jesus on the road to Emmaus was a direct encounter with the Lord. Think of it as the $1,000 call to heaven. But we have something even closer to God than that – we have God within us – the in-dwelling of the Holy Spirit. It’s better even than the twenty five cent call on the golden telephone – we’ve got a direct line, available 24 hours a day and it’s free.

Pope Benedict XVI tells us: “… the Spirit of the Father and of the Son, is henceforth as it were the soul of our soul, the most secret part of our being, from which an impulse of prayer rises ceaselessly to God, whose words we cannot even begin to explain.”

When he was at the table with them, he took bread, blessed and broke it, and gave it to them. Then their eyes were opened, and they recognized him; and he vanished from their sight. They said to each other, “Were not our hearts burning within us while he was talking to us on the road, while he was opening the scriptures to us?” Luke 24:30-33

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Blog Post April 23, 2017, Second Sunday of Easter Divine Mercy Sunday

Let the house of Israel say, “His mercy endures forever.” Let the house of Aaron say: His mercy endures forever.” Let those who fear the Lord say: His mercy endures forever.” Psalm 118:2-4

The celebration of Our Lord’s Resurrection continues in the Church for the eight days known as the Octave of Easter. Each day of the Octave is ranked as a Solemnity in the Church’s liturgical calendar, the highest ranking of liturgical feasts.

Why do we continue the celebration of Easter? Our attitude about most things in our life is ‘that was yesterday, let’s move on.’ We’re always looking for something new to grab our attention and as a result often miss the best of what is right in front of us. In a recent homily Father pointed out that while Jesus was alive he performed many astonishing miracles but when he rose from the dead he did not perform any more miracles. Father waited a moment for that to sink in before repeating – “He rose from the dead.”

All week long the gospels have been recounting the appearances of the risen Christ – Mary Magdalene’s meeting with Jesus in the garden, the disciples on the road to Emmaus, Jesus appearance to his disciples in the locked room. What strikes me most about these readings is that Jesus was not recognized by those who knew him so well when he walked the earth – it makes me wonder how often we encounter him in our daily lives and fail to recognize him.

Today, the Second Sunday of Easter marks the end of the Octave. At the canonization of Sister Faustina Kowalska in the Year 2000, Pope John Paul II declared that from then on the Second Sunday of Easter would also be called the Sunday of Divine Mercy. He noted this was fitting since “Divine Mercy is the Easter gift that the Church receives from the risen Christ and offers to humanity…” In today’s gospel we are reminded of that gift as Jesus appears to his disciples despite the locked doors, and gives them the power to forgive our sins with the Sacrament of Penance. (John 20:21-23)

The closing of Easter Octave does not mean an end of Easter. The Easter season continues for 50 days, through the Ascension of Our Lord to Pentecost Sunday. Saint Augustine shares this perspective: "The season before Easter signifies the troubles in which we live here and now, while the time after Easter which we are celebrating at present signifies the happiness that will be ours in the future.” Something to think about.

What was from the beginning, what we have heard, what we have seen with our eyes, what we looked upon and touched with our hands concerns the Word of life – for the life was made visible; we have seen it and testify to it and proclaim to you the eternal life that was with the Father and was made visible to us. 1 John 1:1-2

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Blog Post April 16, 2017, Easter Sunday

I am the Resurrection and the life says the Lord; whoever believes in me shall never die. John 11:25

An early name for Christians was “the Easter people”. The celebration of Easter began sometime in the fourth century, replacing an old pagan festival in which colored eggs were exchanged.

The Venerable Bede (672-735), Benedictine monk and English historian, tells us the name Easter is taken from the Teutonic goddess, Estre – goddess of the rising light of day and spring.

What does it mean for us, to be an Easter people? In the Gospel of John, we hear Jesus’ first words after his resurrection: “Peace be with you.” To be an Easter people is to live in the peace of Christ – to be at peace within ourselves, our families and everyone around us. To be an Easter people is to be a people of eternal life and union in the love of God.

We are an Easter people. Let us celebrate and enjoy the triumph of this wondrous day.

You have been born anew, not from perishable but from imperishable seed, through the living and abiding word of God. (1 Peter 1:23)

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Blog Post April 9, 2017, Palm Sunday

Through his suffering, my servant shall justify many, and their guilt he shall bear. Therefore I will give him his portion among the great, and he shall divide the spoils with the mighty. Isaiah 53:11-12

As I hear the Palm Sunday readings I am reminded of Palm Sunday a few years ago, at Gethsemani Abbey in Kentucky. That evening a friend who lives near the monastery invited me to go with her to a Passion Play at St. Paul Church in Louisville, about an hour away. The enactment had over 20 musicians and both an adult and children’s choir, all very dedicated to this ministry.

The church that night, it was packed. It’s not a very big church, but fortunately half the congregation participated in the play. It’s an important spiritual event for them that they perform with enthusiasm. At the scene of Jesus entering Jerusalem parishioners filled the aisles cheering and waving lush green palms – people of every shape and size, young and old, dressed in the robes of Jesus’ time. And when the mood turned angry at the Passion they were just as engaged and believable. It was riveting. Suddenly it was over 2,000 years ago and we were in Jerusalem with the angry mob crying “Crucify him! Crucify him”.

I was suddenly stricken with a sense of my sinfulness – that it was my sins for which Jesus died on the cross. And that is what I am thinking about on this Palm Sunday morning, that it was my sins that nailed Jesus to the cross. This is what I want to keep before me as we enter the solemnity of this week.

If we have let our Lenten practices slide, now is the time to renew our efforts – to prepare for the Triduum beginning with the Mass of the Lord’s Supper on Holy Thursday and ending with the Easter Vigil on Holy Saturday.

May your week be filled with reverence and prayer as we approach these holy days.

Though he was in the form of God, did not regard equality with God as something to be grasped. Rather he emptied himself, taking the form of a slave, coming in human likeness; and found human in appearance, he humbled himself and became obedient to the point of death— even death on a cross. Philippians 2:5-7

Email your opinion on what is more important for your spiritual growth. (a) Understanding why Jesus had to suffer and die for our sins, or (b) Having a vivid sense of Jesus having actually suffered and died for our sins.

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Blog Post April 2, 2017, Fifth Sunday of Lent

O my people, I will open your graves and have you rise from them, and bring you back to the land of Israel. Then you shall know that I am the Lord, when I open your graves and have your rise from them, O my people. Ezekiel 37:12-13

On this Fifth Sunday of Lent we hear the beautiful story of the raising of Lazarus. Jesus has raised others from the dead – the daughter of Jarius, the son of the widow of Nain – but Lazarus was different. Lazarus was dead for four days before Jesus raised him up. The rotting of the flesh had already begun. But there is more to this event than meets the eye. (John 11:1-44)

Saint Augustine wrote in a homily on the raising of Lazarus: Everyone who sins, dies. Every man fears the death of the flesh, few the death of the soul. Lent is a season that reminds us to labor to avoid sinning. This is the point of our Lenten penance and sacrifices: interior conversion.

My cat Mr. Jinx went into hiding this morning. It’s his habit to leap from the floor to my desk to a ledge where he sleeps during my morning prayers. This morning there was a stack of folders on my desk so when Mr. Jinx landed he slid, bounced to the floor and disappeared. He’s embarrassed. I won’t see him again until he figures we both forgot about the incident. Sometimes our sins are a little like that – we want to forget about them – we don’t want to admit we are at fault.

Bishop Robert Barron writes: “…at the end of the day it (sin) kills us spiritually and buries us. But nothing is impossible for God. Even those who are dead and in the ground, even those for whom, it seems, no hope remains, can be summoned back to life.”

Jesus opened Lazarus’ grave and restored him to life even as he himself was drawing closer to his own death in on the cross. Jesus told her, “I am the resurrection and the life; whoever believes in me, even if he dies, will live, and everyone who lives and believes in me will never die. John 11:25-26

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Blog Post March 26, 2017, Fourth Sunday of Lent

Cry to God, and he will deliver you from the power and hand of the enemy. For I have put my hope in the Everlasting to save you, and joy has come to me from the Holy One, because of the mercy that will soon come to you from your everlasting savior. Baruch 4:21-22

Saturday was the Feast of the Annunciation, the first step in our redemption. My heart is moved by the words of Pope Benedict XVI: “In Jesus, God has placed, in the midst of barren, despairing mankind, a new beginning which is not a product of human history but a gift from above.”

In today’s gospel Jesus cures the man who was blind from birth, but instead of acknowledging the power of God the Pharisees look for ways to deny it. Jesus tells his disciples “We have to do the works of the one who sent me while it is day. Night is coming when no one can work.” (John 9:1-41) I ask myself what is this night ‘when no one can work’? I think Jesus is telling us that without him in our midst it is night, and without his presence we can accomplish nothing.

So the man who was born blind is made to see. And when the Pharisees question him he testifies, “It is unheard of that anyone ever opened the eyes of a person born blind.” And he was right - only God could open the eyes of one who was born blind. And only God can open our eyes and keep them open as we make our way through each day.

During this Fourth Week of Lent I want to dwell on the words of the blind man for my own life: “I was blind, but now I see.”

I also saw the holy city, a new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride adorned for her husband. During the day its gates will never be shut, and there will be no night there. Revelation 21:2,25

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Blog Post March 19, 2017, Third Sunday of Lent

If today you would hear his voice, harden not your hearts, as at Meribah, as on the day at Massah in the wilderness, when your fathers tested me, and put me to the proof, though they had seen my works. Psalm 95:8-9

On Saturday we heard the story of the prodigal son and how his father ran to welcome the young man back after he had decadently squandered his fortune in a foreign land. The son returns home hoping only to be able to tend his father’s flocks as a shepherd to get enough to eat. To his dismay his father responds by dressing him in fine clothes and preparing a joyous feast to celebrate his return. (Luke 15)

At Sunday’s Mass we heard the story of the Samaritan woman. It also is a tale of love and forgiveness, but this time it is not a parable – this is a real life event in which Jesus, the Son of God, responds to a woman who has like the prodigal son, squandered her gifts in a wayward life. Jesus is sitting alone at the well when the Samaritan woman stops to draw water and he engages her in conversation. At first we feel her hostility, then, as Jesus replies with intimate details of her life she comes to believe that this is indeed the Messiah. The woman then abandons her water jug and rushes to town to tell everyone the good news. (John 4:5-42)

I think about the Samaritan woman as I continue my Lenten journey – how she was able to let Jesus enter her life which allowed her to see herself in her sinfulness. That was the first step in preparing herself for forgiveness, just as it is with us. So what does your life look like? How good are you really? Lent is a great time to clear our vision about ourselves and to do a reality check on how far we have wandered from the straight and narrow. It’s a time to remind ourselves that despite the distance we may have gone Jesus welcomes us back with love and forgiveness, just as the father welcomed his Prodigal son.

Jesus said to her, “Everyone who drinks of this water will be thirsty again, but those who drink of the water that I will give them will never be thirsty. The water that I will give will become in them a spring of water gushing up to eternal life.” John 4:13-14

Email your reflections on the following question about a sense of God's presence. Would a sense of God's absence be a sense that your most secret thoughts and deeds were not known by any being besides you?

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Blog Post March 12, 2017, Second Sunday of Lent

The Lord said to Abraham: “Go forth from the land of your kinsfolk and from your father’s house to a land that I will show you. I will make of you a great nation, and I will bless you, and make your name great, so that you will be a blessing.” Genesis 12:1-2

Today we celebrate the Feast of the Transfiguration. It’s interesting that this happens on the Second Sunday of Lent. Not only are Peter, James and John instructed by this wondrous event, but so are we. In the reading from Genesis God tells Abraham to go forth from the place where he is, to a land that God will show him. I think this is what God is telling us at the beginning of lent – that we are to travel these forty days from our self indulgence, from our selfishness and sinfulness to a place that God will show us – a place of goodness and virtue, the result of being at one with God’s will.

When Jesus takes Peter, James and John up the mountain to see him transfigured before their eyes – “his face shone like the sun and his clothes became white as light” – it is to show them that even though the Son of Man will suffer much, this is what will be at the end of the journey when he is raised from the dead. (Matthew 17)

Today the message of The Transfiguration is just as relevant for us. In this revelation we are shown what the sacrifices and sufferings of our day to day life are meant to yield. If we are faithful in our journey, we too will be transfigured at the time of our resurrection. The voice that came from the cloud to the apostles offers us with the same message: “This is my beloved Son, with whom I am well pleased; listen to him.”

As I begin this second week of Lent, I need to follow God’s command to “listen to him” and remind myself not to be discouraged at my failures, but simply to start over again with new resolve.

Behold, a bright cloud cast a shadow over them, then from the cloud came a voice that said, “This is my beloved Son, with whom I am well pleased, listen to him”. When the disciples heard this, they fell prostrate and were very much afraid. But Jesus came and touched them, saying, “Rise, and do not be afraid.” Matthew 17:6-7

The gospel message is general. It tells us "to listen up," be alert for,what He might tell us. Email a topic about which He may tell you to do something this second week of Lent 2017.

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Blog Post March 5, 2017, First Sunday of Lent

Have mercy on me, O God, in your goodness; in the greatness of your compassion wipe out my offense. Thoroughly wash me from my guilt and of my sin cleanse me. Psalm 51:1-2

It’s hard to believe Ash Wednesday has come so quickly and that we are already at the First Sunday of Lent. Once more I’m faced with the same question: What do I do to bring myself closer to God during this solemn season?

The more I thought about it the closer I came to my resolution that this year I won’t give up anything during Lent. Instead I will try to do the same things I do every day, except do them just a little bit better – to be more devout in my prayers, to be less distracted in meditation, to interact with others in a kinder, more generous way – the list goes on.

The problem is with such a collection of unspecifics, how do I gauge my progress? How do I know if what I am doing is good enough for Lent? When I asked my spiritual director if he approved he told me about a friend of his from many years ago. His friend decided to give up smoking and a beer at a local tavern with his friends after work. All during Lent his friend went to the tavern without having a drink and with a pack of unopened cigarettes in his pocket! Father said some people like to show off like that during Lent – it’s not until they fail in their resolutions that they get anything virtuous out of it.

That brings me back to the question, how do I know if what I am doing is making any spiritual progress? The fact is I don’t know –it’s not up to me to judge my progress – only God knows that. Giving up a few desserts or TV for the season is not going to be a ticket into God’s kingdom. That gift was already bought and paid for by Jesus’ death on the cross. For us the task is simply to follow after him in whatever path he lays out for us. That’s what I’m going to try to do for Lent this year.

Then he said to all, “If anyone wishes to come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me. For whoever wishes to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will save it. Luke 9:23-24

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Blog Post February 26, 2017, The Eighth Sunday in Ordinary Time

The Lord is kind and full of compassion, slow to anger, abounding in love. How good is the Lord to all, compassionate to all his creatures. All your creatures shall thank you, O Lord, and your friends shall repeat their blessings. Psalm 25: 8-10

The topic for our fifth Alpha session was “How does God Guide Us?” Nicky Gumbo, the lively presenter in the video, told anecdotes about his being guided by God in crucial decisions. But our brief discussion session was not so lively. The questions proposed for discussion boiled down to: Do you ask God to guide you in decision making? Have you had evidence of God guiding any of your decisions? Only one man at our table told of a series of three events which suggested that God intended for him to make a certain decision. No other members at the table were prepared to interpret past decisions as being guided by signs from God. Presumably they were not in the practice of looking for patterns of natural events as signs from God. No one volunteered to tell how they used prayer in their decision-making process. My husband Charles, who is supposed to guide the discussion, just couldn’t get a good discussion going.

It was better when we got home, sat down in our living room before a fire and de-briefed ourselves on the Alpha session. Charles told me his answers to the questions of the session. As table host he is supposed to speak just a bit less than whoever else speaks the least. He said that he does not look for patterns of events as fitting together to form a message from God. It strikes him as superstitious. He said that in decision-making he does not pray in the form of asking “God what should I do?” He prays by keeping God in mind.

How does he keep God in mind? Every day for several years we have been saying the morning and evening prayers of the Liturgy of the Hours. Morning Prayer begins with Psalm 95. Each day we come to the verse “If today you hear his voice harden not your heart.” Charles says he tries to keep that in mind throughout the day. He’s recently developed the practice each morning of saying the words of Samuel as he throws back the covers of his bed: “Here I am Lord, I come to do your will”. He says his hope is to serve God well that day and as a Vincentian to find the face of Christ in every person he meets. He doesn’t think he’s very successful at that, but I strongly disagree.

The kingdom of God is not a matter of food and drink, but of righteousness, peace and joy in the Holy Spirit; whoever serves Christ in this way is pleasing to God and approved by others. Let us then pursue what leads to peace and to building up of one another. Romans 14:17-19

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Blog Post February 19, 2017, The Seventh Sunday in Ordinary Time

How sweet are thy words to my taste, sweeter than honey to my mouth! Thy word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path. Psalm 119:103,105

The topic for the fourth session of the Alpha program last Tuesday was prayer. The question was, “How and why should I read the bible?” Catholics are often dismayed at the way some Protestants are able to quote the bible with book and verse. But that doesn’t mean Catholics do not read the bible. Part of every Mass is The Liturgy of the Word that includes readings from the Old and New Testament and the psalms. Plus the homily is usually tied to the readings so whether we go to Mass only on Sunday or daily, we get a portion of “Bible study”.

The Church not only presents the bible to us on a daily basis, but has always encouraged us to take its words to heart when we are alone. Lectio Divina is a way to read and meditate on Scripture even when we are by ourselves. One way Lectio helped me is with the story of Jesus and the ten lepers. I had heard the story countless times, how Jesus cured the ten lepers but only one came back to thank him. I used to feel a little smug thinking I would never be like those nine lepers who didn’t show up to thank him – until one day I was struck by all the times God had answered a prayer of mind and all I did was breathe a sigh of relief and get on with my life! Now when I hear the story of the ten lepers my response is one of thankfulness – and a little contrition for all those times I forgot to say “thank you”.

The 4th century deacon St. Ephrem writes this about scripture: “We lose more of it than we grasp, like those who drink from a living spring. For God’s word offers different facets according to the capacity of the listener, and the Lord has portrayed his message in man colors, so that whoever gazes upon it can see in it what suits him.”
St. Benedict says meditating on scripture is “listening with the ear of the heart”.

Everyone then who hears these words of mine and does them will be like a wise man who built his house upon the rock; and the rain fell, and the floods came, and the winds blew and beat upon that house, but it did not fall, because it had been founded on the rock. . Matthew 7:24-25


Email whether or not your experience has shown you that older practicing Catholics who reached 18 before the end of Vatican II were ignorant of the major events, stories, teachings etc., of the bible even if most might admit that they never read the bible as a single book.

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Blog Post February 12, 2017, The Sixth Sunday in Ordinary Time

Come, let us sing to the Lord and shout with joy to the Rock who saves us. Let us approach him with praise and thanksgiving and sing joyful songs to the Lord. Psalm 95:1-2

The topic for the third session of the Alpha program last Tuesday was prayer. There are lots of forms of prayer from adoration to thanksgiving, but I’m sure the one that gets employed the most is petition. We know that God hears all of our prayers and we are told he answers all of them as well – but not necessarily in the way that we want.

Prayer is an essential part of our relationship with God. It’s not just asking, it’s getting to know, and learning to be in the presence of God. I love the picture of Jesus standing outside of a door that has no knob, knocking to gain entrance. The artist tells us this is the door to our heart and it can only be opened from the inside. It’s a classic picture inspired by Revelation 3:20: “Behold, I stand at the door and knock; if any one hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in to him and eat with him, and he with me.”

Saturday was the Feast of Our Lady of Lourdes celebrating her appearance to Bernadette Soubirous in 1858. Each year six million pilgrims flock to the site with their petitions for healing. There are some miracles, but most of their petitions seem unanswered. Yesterday we had a healing Mass at Immaculate Conception Church. I had a list of people to pray for who are in various stages of illness. It helped me as I finished my petitions to recall the words of Fr. James Sullivan: The true miracles of healing which take place in our lives are those that we could never even have imagined. We may not even realize that we have a need to be healed in a certain way. Our prayer is a simple plea: “Heal me, Lord, according to your will.”

And they brought to him a man who was deaf and had an impediment in his speech...And taking him aside from the multitude he put his fingers into his ears, and he spat and touched his tongue; and looking up to heaven, he sighed, and said to him, “Ephphatha,” that is, “Be opened.” And his ears were opened, his tongue was released, and he spoke plainly. Mark 7:32-35

Email whether or not you have ever felt a desire, indeed a need, simply to pray. You can't really classify it as a desire to ask for something, adore God or ask for pardon. You simply want to do something which is pray - lifting your heart and mind to God.

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Blog Post February 5, 2017, The Fifth Sunday in Ordinary Time

Open my eyes that I may see the wonders of your law. I am a pilgrim on the earth; show me your commands. My soul is ever consumed as I long for your decrees. Psalm 119: 18-20

For me the death of John the Baptist is one of the most disturbing accounts in the gospels. I think because it’s so senseless. Herod was fascinated by John the Baptist. We’re told “When he heard him speak he was very much perplexed, yet he liked to listen to him.” We all know the story of Herodias’s daughter performing a dance at Herod’s birthday party that delighted him so much he offered to give her whatever she wished – and urged by her mother she asked for the head of John the Baptist. (Mark 6:14-29)

Religious scholars often view the death of John the Baptist in the light of what it meant to Jesus in the larger Messianic context. But the thing that sticks in my mind about John’s death is the fact that Herod ordered to have him killed even though he didn’t want to. Here he is throwing this party, he gets a little drunk, Herodias’s daughter performs an provocative dance and he’s enthralled – his mouth moves quicker than his brain, he blurts out the offer “Ask me whatever you wish…” and suddenly he’s stuck. I think to myself, he didn’t really have to do it – he could have said ‘not that. Name something else.’ But here’s where it gets so sticky. Why did Herod kill John when he didn’t want to? Because was afraid of looking bad in front of his court. He couldn’t stand the thought that they might criticize him – that they would say he didn’t follow through. And here we have the bottom line - it would be too embarrassing.

I think the reason I’m so disturbed by this story is that I see the same weaknesses in myself – caring too much about the opinion of others, failing to retract when I’ve made a wrong choice, not standing up for what is right no matter what the cost. For me Herod’s story is a cautionary tale – we do not know how far we might fall without God’s help – and so we pray.

You are the light of the world. A city set on a mountain cannot be hidden. Nor do men light a lamp and put it under a bushel basket; it is set on a stand, where it gives light to all in the house. Just so, your light must shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your heavenly father. Matthew 5:14-16

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Blog Post January 29, 2017, The Fourth Sunday in Ordinary Time

Trust in the Lord and do good, that you may dwell in the land and be fed in security. Take delight in the Lord, and he will grant you your heart’s requests. Psalm 37:3-4

On Tuesday evening our church hosted its first session of the Alpha program, publicized as “a tool for the New Evangelization that is being used by thousands of Catholic parishes in over 70 countries around the world.” It’s also interdenominational and has had millions of people around the globe experience it. I wasn’t sure I wanted to participate in something that lasted for nine weeks, but the format was inviting. It starts with dinner at 6:30p.m. There are eight people at each table – tables are assigned and you keep the same table every week. At 7:00pm a video is shown, followed by discussion that ends no later than 8:30.

I decided to participate and in the program and was impressed by the detailed organization and the quality of the presentation. There was a mix of age and gender at the tables which made for interesting discussions. People who had come with some reluctance, not knowing what to expect, or if they would want to come back, were enthusiastic about the experience. I think the popularity of Alpha is a response to what feels like a cultural war where Christian values are under attack on every front – from marriage and sexuality to the value of human life.

In his letter to the Hebrews St. Paul wrote: You need endurance to do the will of God and receive what he has promised. (Hebrews 10:36) It’s up to each of us to seek out and engage in those things that will help us to endure – on Tuesday I’ll attend the second session of Alpha.

The Alpha program has a website

I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. From now on there is reserved for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous judge, will give me on that day, and not only to me but also to all who have longed for his appearing. (2 Timothy 4:7-8)

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Blog Post January 22, 2017 The Third Sunday in Ordinary Time

The people who walked in darkness have seen a great light; those who lived in a land of deep darkness— on them light has shined. For the yoke of their burden, and the bar across their shoulders, the rod of their oppressor, you have broken as on the day of Midian. Isaiah 9:2, 4

Saturday we read the astonishing statement in Mark’s gospel that when Jesus’ relatives heard about his work and the crowds gathering around him they wanted to seize him saying, “He is out of his mind.” (Mark 3:20-21) Then Sunday’s gospel begins with Jesus hearing that John had been arrested. When he heard the news he withdrew to Galilee and called his first apostles – Simon and his brother Andrew, then James and his brother John. From that time on he began to preach. (Mt.4:12-23)

When I consider this part of Jesus’ life I’m struck by the overwhelming obstacles he encountered at every turn. Imagine at the start of this great work having your own relatives trying to stop you because they think you are out of your mind. Then you hear that the one person who had some idea of your mission has been arrested. On top of that you are scorned at every turn by the most respected spiritual leaders of the day, the Pharisees and the Sadducees – and even accused of being a blasphemer, an enemy of God.

The amazing thing about this sequence of events is Jesus response to them. In the face of these obstacles, which must have been so disheartening to his human nature, he moves forward in his work. He chooses his apostles and begins, from that time on, to preach the good news. He knows by now that it will not be accepted by the movers and shakers of his Jewish culture. Still, he will preach the good news – he will heal the sick and befriend the outcasts – and he will be crucified for our sins.

These are the things I will dwell on this week to lift my spirits when I get discouraged.

As he was walking by the Sea of Galilee, he saw two brothers, Simon who is called Peter, and his brother Andrew, casting a net into the sea; for they were fishermen. And he said to them, “Follow me, and I will make you fishers of men.” At once they left their nets and followed him. Matthew 4:18-20

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Blog Post January 15, 2017, The Second Sunday in Ordinary Time

I waited patiently for the Lord; he inclined to me and heard my cry. He drew me up from the desolate pit, out of the miry bog, and set my feet upon a rock, making my steps secure. He put a new song in my mouth, a song of praise to our God. Psalm 40:1-3

On Monday we celebrated the Baptism of the Lord. In today’s gospel we delve more deeply into the mystery as John the Baptist calls out for all to hear: “Behold the Lamb of God who takes away the sin of the world.”

This is the beginning of Jesus’ public ministry and one of the five major milestones in his life (with the Transfiguration, the Crucifixion, the Resurrection and the Ascension). Jesus’ Baptism in the Jordan River marks the start of his mission of redemption that will lead in a direct course to the crucifixion. The descent of the dove symbolizes the anointing of the Holy Spirit, which Jesus receives as the Christ, Greek for “the Anointed One.”

What does the Baptism of Jesus mean for the rest of us? Recently I read:”Just as Jesus is revealed as the beloved Son at the Jordan, so, too, we receive a new identity in baptism as adopted children of the Father.” This is true for each one of us. I remind myself that I received this ‘new identity’ when I was baptized as a baby so many years ago. I ask myself, what have I done with this gift – how has this indwelling of the Holy Spirit that marks me as a child of God been manifested in my life?

This is a fitting question to mull over at this start of “Ordinary Time” as we follow Jesus on his journey toward the crucifixion. It’s a good time to reflect on our own lives and ask ourselves if they are truly the living expression of our baptism.

John the Baptist saw Jesus coming toward him and said, “Behold, the Lamb of God who takes away the sin of the world! He is the one of whom I said, ‘A man is coming after me who ranks ahead of me because he existed before me.’ John 1:29-30

Do you know the date of your baptism? Email your assessment of the following assignment for improving your spiritual life. Look up the date of your baptism and make plans to commemorate it each year, by letting friends and family know, as the beginning of your life after being born again.

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Blog Post January 8, 2017, The Feast of the Epiphany

Rise up in splendor, Jerusalem! Your light has come, the glory of the Lord shines upon you. See, darkness covers the earth, and thick clouds cover the peoples; but upon you the Lord shines, and over you appears his glory. Isaiah 60:1-2

In the West, Christians began celebrating the Feast of the Epiphany in the 4th century, associating it with the visit of the Wise Men to Jesus. In the Gospel of Matthew we read that the three kings found baby Jesus by following a star across the desert to Bethlehem. (Mt. 2:9)

As a child I had beautiful images of these three kings coming to the stable in Bethlehem to kneel down before the baby Jesus. What a great event! But I was a little confused that everyone else didn’t know this baby was the Son of God – king of the universe. How could such recognition by foreign dignitaries be ignored by the rest of the world? But the fact is the Birth of the Child is still ignored by much of the world. I’m reminded today that it is up to each of us to seek the meaning of the Epiphany deep in our hearts. I’m inspired by these words: “The Magi set out because of a deep desire which prompted them to leave everything and begin a journey. It was as though they had always been waiting for that star” (Pope Benedict XVI). In this New Year my resolve is to journey through the coming days with a new awareness of what I am seeking – to truly follow the star.

In the time of King Herod, after Jesus was born in Bethlehem of Judea, wise men from the East came to Jerusalem, asking, “Where is the child who has been born king of the Jews? For we observed his star at its rising, and have come to pay him homage.” Matthew 2:1-2

Email how you deal with the following issue. The revelation of Jesus to the non-Jewish kings was the beginning of Christianity and a great blessing for the whole world. Yet we must appreciate this blessing while still valuing and respecting Judaism as it was and still is today.

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Blog Post January 1, 2017, Feast of the Solemnity of Mary, the Holy Mother of God

May God be gracious to us and bless us
and make his face to shine upon us,
that your way may be known upon earth,
your saving power among all nations.
Let the peoples praise you, O God;
let all the peoples praise you.
Psalm 67:1-3

This New Years Day we celebrate the Feast of the Solemnity of Mary, the Holy Mother of God. It is also World Day of Peace. May this year bring Peace and Blessings for us all.

But when the fullness of time had come, God sent his Son, born of a woman, born under the law, in order to redeem those who were under the law, so that we might receive adoption as children. And because you are children, God has sent the Spirit of his Son into our hearts, crying, “Abba! Father!” So you are no longer a slave but a child, and if a child then also an heir, through God. Galatians 4:4-7

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Blog Post December 25, 2016,Christmas Day, The Feast of the Nativity of the Lord

For while gentle silence enveloped all things, and night in its swift course was now half gone, your all-powerful word leaped from heaven, from the royal throne, into the midst of the land that was doomed… and touched heaven while standing on the earth. Wisdom 18:14-15

On this day that celebrates the wonder of God’s love for us, I am moved by two passages.
The first is from Fr. John Main: “Christmas is the feast of the divine explosion, the love of God revealed in the poverty of Christ.”*
The second is from Thomas Merton: “At the center of our being is a point of nothingness which is untouched by sin and by illusion, a point of pure truth, a point or spark which belongs entirely to God... This little point of nothingness and of absolute poverty is the pure glory of God in us. It is so to speak His name written in us…It is like a pure diamond, blazing with the invisible light of heaven.” *

The great joy of Christmas is that without the birth of Christ there is no “divine explosion”, no God blazing in us with “the invisible light of heaven”. Without the birth of Christ we would be forever relegated to an eternal ash heap – and for this we are forever grateful.

May you have a Happy and Blessed Christmas, and may the Child touch your heart in a special way this day!

Then the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid; for behold, I proclaim to you good news of great joy that will be for all the people. For today in the city of David a savior has been born for you who is Christ the Lord. And this will be a sign for you: you will find an infant wrapped in swaddling clothes and lying in a manger.” Luke 2:10-12

*From Silence and Stillness in Every Season p.360
* Merton’s Palace of Nowhere, James Finley, Ave Maria Press 2003.

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Blog Post December 18, 2016, Fourth Sunday of Advent

Then Isaiah said: “Hear then, O house of David! Is it too little for you to weary mortals, that you weary my God also? Therefore the Lord himself will give you a sign. Look, the young woman is with child and shall bear a son, and shall name him Immanuel”. Isaiah 7:13-14

The fourth candle of our Advent Wreath is lighted. The waiting is almost over. Just one more week and it will be Christmas Day. So how are we preparing ourselves during this last week of Advent? It’s hard not to get caught up in the frantic activity of the countdown – trying to get everything done in time to celebrate the great event. There is shopping to finish, menus to prepare, cards that still need to be sent. Those are all good things. But during this last week of Advent it is even more important to focus on the main event – the coming of Christ.

I find it useful to pay special attention to the daily readings as we draw closer to Christmas. During the past weeks the liturgy has been filled with the messages of the prophets and the promise of a redeemer. A few days ago we heard Jesus words that when John the Baptist announced his presence, the chief priests and the elders did not believe him. Even though it was all there before them – the words of the prophets, the teaching and miracles of Jesus himself, the Pharisees did not believe in him.

It’s easy to separate ourselves from those who didn’t believe in Jesus all those centuries ago – but what about us in our world today? I think of the rich man who ignored Lazarus suffering at his gate and when he died called to Abraham from the great divide, asking him to send Lazarus to warn his brothers. He said if someone from the dead went to them, they would surely repent. Then we hear Abraham’s words, as true today as they were then: “If they will not listen to Moses and the prophets, neither shall they be persuaded if someone should rise from the dead.” (Luke 16:31)

The liturgical countdown started at Mass yesterday with Matthew’s gospel of the genealogy of Christ. (Mt 1:1-17) In the coming week we will hear stories of God’s remarkable plan going forward in the birth of Samson, Samuel, and John the Baptist. These stories are beautiful reminders that God has a special plan for each of our lives. This week I will think about the many ways God’s plan has evolved in my own life – and pray for the courage and insight to cooperate with it.

Joseph, son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary as your wife, for the child conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. She will bear a son, and you are to name him Jesus, for he will save his people from their sins.” Matthew 1:20-21

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Blog Post December 11, 2016, Third Sunday of Advent

On that day, a shoot shall sprout from the stump of Jesse, and from his roots a bud shall blossom. The spirit of the Lord shall rest upon him: a spirit of wisdom and of understanding, a spirit of counsel and of strength, a spirit of knowledge and fear of the Lord, and his delight shall be the fear of the Lord. Isaiah 11:1-3

The power went out at our house around 5:00 am on Friday. I knew something was wrong when I glanced over at the digital clock just as it went dead. The temperature was in the 20s with the forecast of a high temp of 29. Gone were the bright Christmas decorations that lighted the houses up and down the street when I went to bed. It was suddenly a cold dark world.

We take light and warmth so much for granted these days that we have forgotten what it is like to be without it. Christmas is a beautiful reminder of this – Christ coming to us as the light of our sin-dark world.

Our power came back on after about three hours and suddenly my world was warm and bright again. But I will take the lesson with me for the rest of Advent - of how quickly all of that can change. The Third Sunday of Advent, also called Gaudete Sunday from the Latin word "Rejoice", marks another week of our journey. As we light this candle I’m reminded of that not only is Christ the light of the world, but as his people, we are also meant to be the light of the world. (Mt 5:15) My resolution this week is to try to make my little world a little brighter during this Third Week of Advent.

Jesus said to them, “The light is with you for a little longer. Walk while you have the light, so that the darkness may not overtake you. If you walk in the darkness, you do not know where you are going. While you have the light, believe in the light, so that you may become children of light. John12:35-36

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Blog Post December 4, 2016, Second Sunday of Advent

A voice cries out: “In the wilderness prepare the way of the Lord, make straight in the desert a highway for our God. Every valley shall be lifted up, and every mountain and hill be made low; the uneven ground shall become level, and the rough places a plain. Then the glory of the Lord shall be revealed, and all people shall see it together, for the mouth of the Lord has spoken.” Isaiah 40:3-5

Today we light the second candle on our Advent wreath and note with a bit of a shock how quickly the first week has flown by. Isaiah reminds us that as we wait for the Lord to come we need to be about the business of preparation, to “make straight in the desert a highway for our God”. This is the work of Advent – to make straight a highway for God through the desert of our sinful self.

The readings this past week have been ones of invitation and encouragement to help us along the way, starting with Monday’s gospel where Jesus cured the centurion’s servant. We still hear the words of that centurion’s remarkable faith at every reception of the Eucharist: “Lord I am not worthy to have you enter under my roof…” (Mt.8:5-11)

On Tuesday we were taken a step further, to hear the effect of the Lord’s coming on a fallen world:”Then the wolf shall be a guest of the lamb, and the leopard shall lie down with the kid…There shall be no harm or ruin on all my holy mountain; for the earth shall be filled with the knowledge of the Lord, as water covers the sea.” (Luke 10)

When I was a kid I used to wonder why all these beautiful things did not happen when Jesus was born into the world. But now I see the answer is pretty obvious – these wonderful things are promised only to a world that embraces the coming of the Lord.

In this week’s readings Jesus also called the apostles to help with his work – a reminder for us that we too are called not only to be followers but to evangelize – if not by words of persuasion then by the witness of our daily lives. In today’s gospel we hear the account of John the Baptist preaching in the desert of Judea. His voice echoes through the centuries for each one us, in this year of 2016 – “The voice of one crying out in the wilderness: ‘Prepare the way of the Lord, make his paths straight.’” Mt 3:1-3

As we begin this second week of Advent, let us make a special effort to meditate on this exhortation of John the Baptist.

When he saw the crowds, he had compassion for them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd. Then he said to his disciples, “The harvest is plentiful, but the laborers are few; therefore ask the Lord of the harvest to send out laborers into his harvest.” Matthew 9:36-38

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Blog Post November 27, 2016, First Sunday of Advent

In the days to come, the mountain of the Lord’s house shall be established as the highest mountain and raised above the hills. All nations shall stream toward it; many peoples shall come and say: “Come, let us climb the lord’s mountain, to the house of the God of Jacob, that he may instruct us in our ways, and we make walk in his paths.” Isaiah 2:2-3

Today is the start of that journey “to the mountain of the Lord’s house” that we make each Advent. According to the Conference of Catholic Bishops, Advent formally began yesterday evening with First Vespers (Evening Prayer I) and will end on Saturday, December 24th. It is up to us to make the most of it. In today’s gospel Jesus tells us to be prepared “for at an hour you do not expect, the Son of Man will come.” (Mt. 24) We are reminded of the dual themes of Advent – the birth of the child Jesus and the perousia, the second coming of Christ.

Advent offers us 4weeks of spiritual preparation and anticipation of the birth of Jesus even as it competes with a climate of over-the-top consumerism. When I was a kid there was a concentrated move to “Put Christ back into Christmas”. It seemed to work for a few years and then disappeared. I didn’t realize how much the Christian celebration of Christmas has given way to the secular world until I paged through my catalog from the Metropolitan Museum of art to check out the Advent Calendars. The count-down to the birth of Jesus has been replaced by a “Waiting for Santa” pop-up calendar, and a “Gather around the Christmas Tree” with twenty-four birds. In addition, the “special card assortment” no longer offers the choice of all religious cards in the mix.

I feel the loss even more this year as we’re reeling from the political fall-out of the election, bubbling in our midst like a witch’s cauldron. The fact is it is up to each of us to be mindful of the message of this holy season – to anticipate the birth of our Redeemer and to be alert for his Second Coming. Today we light the first candle of the Advent wreath on our dining room table, the Patriarch’s Candle, reminding us of the Old Testament patriarchs who anticipated the fulfillment of God’s promises.

From his prison cell Alfred Delp, the Jesuit priest executed by the Nazis in 1945, wrote about the First Sunday of Advent: “Man must learn once again the fundamental character of this time is not one of activity. We, increasingly busy, seeking to have and to possess, easily gamble away the meaning. The human being we are must realize that he is a wayfarer, a scout, hungering and restless. He is dependent upon an angel approaching and touching him with the wing stroke reminder of a higher message.”

I pray that this Advent all of us will have the grace to take these words to heart as we enter this holy season.

You know the time; it is the hour now for you to awake from sleep. For our salvation is nearer now than when we first believed; the night is advanced, the day is at hand. Let us then throw off the works of darkness and put on the armor of light. Romans 13:11-12

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Blog Post November 20, 2016, Feast of Christ the King

Put no trust in princes, in mortal men in whom there is no help. Take their breath, they return to clay and their plans that day come to nothing. Psalm 146: 3-4

When Pius XI instituted the Feast of Christ the King in 1925 it was partly in response to a growing secularism. I wonder what our Holy Father would think about the state of things today. His words in 1925 were impassioned:”... not one of our faculties is exempt from his empire. He must reign in our minds…in our wills…in our hearts...He must reign in our bodies and in our members, which should serve as instruments for the interior sanctification of our souls…”

Pius XI ended his encyclical with the message: "The faithful, moreover, by meditating upon these truths, will gain much strength and courage, enabling them to form their lives after the true Christian ideal.” With this exhortation we celebrate the last Sunday of Ordinary time. These are fitting words to keep in our hearts as we approach the beginning of Advent next Sunday.

That in the name of Jesus every knee should bow, of those that are in Heaven, on earth and under the earth: And that every tongue should confess that the Lord Jesus Christ is in the glory of God the Father. Philippians 2:10-11

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Blog Post November 13, 2016, Thirty-Third Sunday in Ordinary Time

Praise the Lord for his goodness, and bless the King of the ages, so that his tent may be rebuilt in you with joy. May he gladden within you all who were captives; all who were ravaged may he cherish within you for all generations to come. Tobit 13:10

I think we’re all pretty much in shock over the results of the presidential election on Tuesday. The bone-crunching rift in our country played itself out in a race that was thought to be pretty much an open and shut victory for the democrats – until it wasn’t.

I’m reminded of our prayers at church the Thursday before the election - prayers that God would bless our country in this election process. Perhaps the greatest blessing was forcing us to face the deep anger and discontent gripping so much of our country. We’ve left a lot of good people behind while the economy has surged forward in its recovery. Now is the time to stop and see what we can do to heal the wounds that we allowed to fester.

Recently I read an essay by a poet about her husband’s long and painful illness that was infused with deep inspiring faith. Rita Simmonds ended her essay with an image that stirs my soul and gives me hope: “When Frank drew his last breath on January 19, 2015, the instant exploded into eternity.”

So we go forward blind but hopeful, struggling and staggering, sinful and wounded, knowing our country is in God’s hands as his plan unfolds.

May the God of steadfastness and encouragement grant you to live in such harmony with one another, in accord with Christ Jesus, that together you may with one voice glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. Romans 15:5-6

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Blog Post November 6, 2016, Thirty-second Sunday in Ordinary Time

Nations are in tumult, kingdoms are shaken; he lifts his voice, the earth shrinks away. The Lord of hosts is with us; the God of Jacob is our stronghold. Come, behold the works of the Lord. The redoubtable deeds he has done on the earth. Psalm 46:6-8

Our presidential election is only two days away. Much as I hope it will bring some peace and closure to the political chaos we’ve endured for months, some say it will continue no matter who wins. This has been a hard time for our country – we’ve all felt it. It’s incited arguments and divisions in families and among friends and neighbors.

At church last Thursday our parish began a 24 hour prayer vigil and Exhibition of the Blessed Sacrament to pray that we would elect leaders that are best for our country. On Friday afternoon I drove to an early voting site to cast my vote, hoping to put thoughts of the election behind me. I guess I wasn’t the only one who felt that way. A line stretched outside the whole length of the building and there was a traffic jam in the parking lot, so I decided to cast my vote on Tuesday instead. In the meantime I’ll keep praying for our country.

The first reading at Mass this morning was the story of the cruel torture and execution of seven sons and their mother for refusing to forsake the laws of their ancestors during the suppression of Judaism. (11 Maccabees 7) It’s a frightening tale of political oppression and power gone wrong. It reminds me that history unfolds in much the same pattern over and over, nations rise and fall – from one century to the next. I think of the beginning of Jesus’ ministry in Galilee after he heard of John’s arrest. We are told from that time on he began to proclaim, “Repent, for the kingdom of heaven has come near.” (Matthew 4:17) I think that’s pretty good advice for us these days.

Now may our Lord Jesus Christ himself, and God our Father, who loved us and gave us eternal comfort and good hope through grace, comfort your hearts and establish them in every good work and word. Thessalonians 2:16-17

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Blog Post October 30, 2016, Thirty-First Sunday in Ordinary Time

And I will give them one heart, and put a new spirit within them. And I will take the heart of stone out of their flesh and give them a heart of flesh, so that they may follow my statutes and keep my ordinances and obey them. Then they shall be my people, and I will be their God. Ezekiel 11:19-20

At Mass this morning we heard the gospel story of Zacchaeus, the “short in stature” tax collector who was so determined to see Jesus that he climbed a sycamore tree to see him as he passed through the crowd. It’s a pretty astonishing story. Tax collectors were despised as traitors who worked not for their Jewish community but for the Roman Empire and Zacchaeus wasn’t just any tax collector, but the “chief tax collector” – a man of great wealth and power in Jericho. Yet something drove this man to ignore the crowd and climb up a tree like a kid, just to get a look at Jesus. That look and the following encounter forever changed his life.

When Jesus said to Zacchaeus “come down quickly, for today I must stay at your house”, his response was a total change of heart. He immediately says “Behold, half of my possessions, Lord, I shall give to the poor, and if I have extorted anything from any one I shall repay it four times over.” (Luke 19:1-10)

Think for a moment about Zacchaeus’ response to Jesus compared to that of “the rich young man” from another parable. We are told the rich young man had come to ask Jesus what he must do to inherit eternal life. It sounds like he was already a pretty good fellow – that he had observed the commandments even from his youth. “And Jesus looking upon him loved him, and said to him, ‘You lack one thing; go, sell what you have, and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven; and come, follow me.’ At that saying his countenance fell, and he went away sorrowful; for he had great possessions.” (Mark 10:17-22)

I’ve written about the rich young man before and wondered what happened to him as the years went on. I’ve always seen Zacchaeus as an older guy in the midst of a successful career – maybe the rich young man had a change of heart by the time he also reached middle-age. Maybe he remembered that encounter from his youth, that look of love on Jesus’ face – maybe then he gave what he had to the poor and set out to follow him.

A few days ago I read this thoughtful commentary on Sunday’s Gospel:
“For us, the Sycamore tree is a symbol of that place in our own lives which enables us to have a clear vision of Jesus. Zacchaeus did not hesitate. With the same lack of caution which he had demonstrated in climbing the tree, he came down to stand in the presence of God Incarnate. There he heard the call that would forever change his life. So may it be with all of us.”

Most important, it’s never too late – if that call came when we were young and we failed to respond the way we think we should have, just keep listening. God will never stop calling.

For truly, I say to you, if you have faith as a grain of mustard seed, you will say to this mountain, ‘Move from hence to yonder place,’ and it will move; and nothing will be impossible to you.” Matthew 17:20

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Blog Post October 23, 2016, Thirtieth Sunday in Ordinary Time

The prayer of the lowly pierces the clouds; it does not rest till it reaches its goal, nor will it withdraw till the most high responds, judges justly and affirms the right, and the Lord will not delay. Sirach 35:17

I’ve had the same spiritual director for years and because he is a priest, I’ve had the advantage of confession at the end of each session. But our last meeting was cancelled because Fr. J, who has lived in an assisted living facility for the past few years, was hospitalized. His illness kept him in and out of the hospital for a number of weeks and when we finally met, he was still very weak.

During Fr. J’s illness I went to confession to a different priest for the first time in years. I know it is the same sacrament, the same forgiveness, the same grace – but somehow it felt odd to confess to someone who knew nothing of my history. I remind myself that Fr. J is almost ninety and that I should be grateful for the blessing of his direction instead of worrying about trying to find someone else.

Why is spiritual direction so important? Consider these points from the Ingatian Spirituality website*:

1. Spiritual direction focuses on religious experience. It is concerned with a person’s actual experience of a relationship with God.

2. Spiritual direction is about a relationship… It is what happens in an ongoing relationship between the person and God. Most often this is a relationship that is experienced in prayer.

3. Spiritual direction is a relationship that is going somewhere. God is leading the person to deeper faith and more generous service. The spiritual director asks not just “what is happening?”ť but “what is moving forward?”

ť 4. The real spiritual director is God. God touches the human heart directly. The human spiritual director does not “direct” in the sense of giving advice and solving problems. Rather, the director helps a person respond to God’s invitation to a deeper relationship.

If you can’t find a personal spiritual director, some alternatives are spiritual friendships and companionship. The most important thing is to keep trying to improve your relationship with God. Having a regular confessor can offer some help as well as the bible study groups many parish host these days, or Catholic book clubs. The point is we aren’t meant to be alone in our faith. Other people can encourage and strengthen us in our journey.

The role of other people in our spiritual life reminds me a little of the story of the little boy who cried for his mother during a nighttime thunderstorm. When she came she told him he didn’t need to worry because Jesus was there with him. “I know,” said the little boy clutching his pillow, “but I want someone with skin on.”

Have no anxiety at all, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, make your requests known to God. Then the peace of God that surpasses all understanding will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:6.7


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Blog Post October16, 2016, Twenty-Ninth Sunday in Ordinary Time

All those you protect shall be glad and ring out their joy. You shelter them; in you they rejoice, those who love your name. Psalm 5:11

Recently I read this thought-provoking quote in Magnificat magazine: “The kingdom of God is something that the individual from the age of reason to the end of life has to be continually realizing for himself. He has to be continually hammering away at the truths of faith, endeavoring to get more meaning out of them, to find in them the help and guidance that daily life continually demands.” (Fr. Bede Jarrett, Magnificat)

Fr. Jarrett made me think about the daily Mass I attend each morning and how, although I’ve heard the same beautiful gospels and readings hundreds of times, there is always something new to discover in them. So the question is how well have I used those readings to “continually hammer away at the truths of faith” in my life. I have to admit I haven’t profited to the degree I might have with a little more effort, a little more awareness. The danger with any spiritual practice, even Holy Mass, is to take for granted its blessings without exerting much effort on our part. This is not to be taken lightly. It’s a little like going to the wedding feast without a wedding garment. True, we’re all invited, but Jesus makes it clear that something is expected in return. (Matthew 22:1-11)

Saturday we celebrated the feast of St. Therese of Avila, one of my favorite saints. The thing I find so inspiring about St. Theresa is the fact that her ardent spirituality did not kick in until she was over 40 and inspired to found the first convent of the reformed Carmelites. From that time until her death in 1522 at age 67, Therese was a woman on fire with energy for God. In her dramatic reform of the Carmelites She went on to found fourteen more monasteries of nuns, returning the order to its practice of penance and silence. St. Therese reminds me that with God it is never too late to start anew.

In him you also, who have heard the word of truth, the Gospel of your salvation, and have believed in him, were sealed with the promise of the Holy spirit, which is the first installment of our inheritance toward redemption as God’s possession. Ephesians 1:13-14

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Blog Post October 9, 2016, Twenty-Eighth Sunday of Ordinary Time

The Lord has made his salvation known; in the sight of the nations he has revealed his justice. He has remembered his kindness and his faithfulness toward the house of Israel. Psalm 98:2-3

Friday was the feast of Our Lady of the Rosary. Parishioners of Immaculate Conception church met at the grotto at 7:00 pm to say the rosary together. We’ve been paying special attention to the Marian feasts in this year of our One Hundredth anniversary.

At Mass Father reminded us that according to tradition the rosary was given to St. Dominic in an apparition by the Blessed Virgin Mary in the year 1214. But the idea of praying with a rosary predates St. Dominic by centuries. Long before his time the rosary was used by monks to say the Our Father, which depending on circumstances, was said either 50 or 100 times. The rosaries were used to keep count and were known then as Paternosters (“Our Fathers”).

After Vatican 11 the rosary as a devotion fell out of favor – perhaps it was considered an old-fashioned way to pray. But it came back full force with Pope St. John Paul 11 who was deeply devoted to the rosary. He wrote:”The rosary does indeed ‘mark the rhythm of human life’, bringing it into harmony with the ‘rhythm’ of God’s own life, in the joyful communion of the Holy Trinity, our life’s destiny and deepest longing. Through the rosary the faithful receive abundant grace, as though from the very hands of the Mother of the redeemer.”

In his devotion to the rosary Pope St. John Paul 11 was inspired to make the first change to it in centuries by adding the Luminous Mysteries to the Joyful, Sorrowful and Glorious ones. At first I was uncomfortable with this tampering with the mysteries of the rosary that were established as far back as the 16th century (its earliest beginnings are found somewhere in the 12th century). But the more I thought about it, the more I saw the Luminous Mysteries as the missing piece in our meditation on the life of Christ.

When we pray the Luminous Mysteries we meditate on that piece of Jesus’ life we did not consider before in the decades of the Rosary. The Luminous mysteries fill in the space in Jesus’ life between the Finding in the Temple (the fifth Joyful Mystery and the Agony in the Garden (the First Sorrowful Mystery).

Think about this for a moment: in the Joyful mysteries we have Jesus’ infancy and early years until the age of 12. In the Sorrowful Mysteries we have his Passion and Death on the cross. In the Glorious Mysteries we have Jesus’ resurrection and triumph over death. But it is the Luminous Mysteries that dwell on Jesus’ adult life and ministry.

In the first Luminous Mystery we have the Baptism of Jesus and the beginning of his public life. In the second Luminous Mystery we have the Wedding Feast at Cana, which is Jesus’ first miracle. The Third Luminous Mystery is the Proclamation of the Kingdom, Jesus’ preaching throughout the gospels. The Fourth Luminous Mystery is The Transfiguration of Jesus where his is revealed in all his glory. The Fifth Luminous Mystery is The Institution of the Eucharist at the Last Supper. The more I think about it, the more I think the real question is not why do we need the Luminous Mysteries, but why has it taken so many centuries for them to become a part of the Rosary.

And the angel said to her, “Do not be afraid, Mary, for you have found favor with God. And behold, you will conceive in your womb and bear a son, and you shall call his name Jesus. Luke 1:30-31

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Blog Post October 2, 2016, Twenty-Seventh Sunday of Ordinary Time

If I take the wings of the morning and settle at the farthest limits of the sea, even there your hand shall lead me, and your right hand shall hold me fast. Psalm 139:9-10

Friday was the feast of St. Jerome (347-420 A.D.) who translated the Bible from Hebrew into Latin. We know it as the Vulgate. Jerome began in 382 by correcting the existing Latin language version of the New Testament which was based on the Septuagint (translated from Greek). For fifteen years, from 390 to 405 A.D. Jerome worked at his translation (mostly from Hebrew) into Latin. Added to that were his writings on theological controversies, historical works and many letters. I can’t imagine how he managed with only ink and parchment as his tools.

On the surface we seem to have made great progress in gathering and dispensing information – from the proliferation of books with the printing press, to the instant information of the internet. But some argue there is so much to pay attention to, that we no longer pay attention – at least not past the first sound bite. Educators fear kids are losing their ability to concentrate and to learn by sticking with and thinking through problems. I think about St. Jerome and the courage he must have had to undertake that massive task of translating the bible from Hebrew into Latin. He knew he had to prepare his mind and will if he was to succeed and so he withdrew to a cave in Bethlehem to concentrate his whole self on that one true thing – that pearl of great price. He knew the avoidance of distractions was essential.

Today we live in an age of distractions. In his 2010 book “The Shallows: What the Internet Is Doing to Our Brains” Nicholas Carr wrote, “The Net seizes our attention only to scatter it. We focus intensively on the medium itself on the flickering screen, but we’re distracted by the medium’s rapid-fire delivery of competing messages and stimuli.” For me the problem runs deeper than the scattering of our attention and the rapid fire delivery of competing messages. It threatens the development of the most important thing of all, that stillness of heart where God dwells in each one of us.

What to do about it? One writer suggests ”The only antidote to this culture of interruption technologies is for us to take back control of ourselves… to restore good human capacities—thinking, meaning-making, discerning … to shut off the computer, put the phone down, make time for casual conversations, sit patiently, and listen.” Sounds like great advice.

Be still, and know that I am God!
I am exalted among the nations,
I am exalted in the earth.
Psalm 46:10

And after he had dismissed the crowds, he went up the mountain by himself to pray. When evening came, he was there alone. Matthew 14:23

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Blog Post September 25, 2016, Twenty-Sixth Sunday of Ordinary Time

Woe to the complacent in Zion. Lying upon beds of ivory, stretched comfortable on their couches, they eat lambs taken from the flock, and calves from the stall. Therefore, now they shall be the first to go into exile, and their wanton revelry shall be done away with. Amos 6:4,7

In this morning’s gospel we hear the story of Lazarus and the rich man who ignored him as he lay at his door covered with sores. We’re not told the rich man interacted with Lazarus at all. There was no hand raised for begging, no whimpering cry for help. The rich man did Lazarus no harm – he didn’t even try to chase him away – he just ignored him.

But when the rich man died, we see the heavy price he paid for that omission, crying out to Abraham from the netherworld in the midst of his torment. I ask myself, was the penalty too great? After all, the rich man did Lazarus no harm. Yet even as the words rise to my lips I hear Jesus saying to Peter “Get behind me, Satan!” (Mt 16:23).

Like Peter, I’ve heard Jesus’ message over and over – a message that only takes root when it becomes a part of our daily life and as such mediates our actions. We are called on to check out even our small actions each and every day to make sure we are following the right path. The danger is that small sins lead to big ones and soon we no longer see them as sins at all.

I need to remind myself of this when I get a little tired of the homeless with their signs at the freeway exits and the calls for St. Vincent de Paul from people who can’t meet their rent or whose utilities will be turned off if the bill isn’t paid by the next day. I think the greatest temptation is to think the problem is so big that nothing we do makes any difference. The goal of St. Vincent de Paul speaks well to this – that the purpose of its members is not to change the poor but to change themselves.

In his commentary on this morning’s gospel, Cardinal Schonborn writes, “Sins of commission are usually the poisonous fruit of previous sins of omission”. Then he quotes from the Catechism “Feigned ignorance and hardness of heart do not diminish, but rather increase, the voluntary character of a sin.” (CCC 1859).

We may not have a Lazarus lying at our doorstep, but his problems are still with us, inviting us to be the hands of Christ - to do our part little by little, each and every day.

Then Abraham said, “If they will not listen to Moses and the prophets, neither will they be persuaded if someone should rise from the dead.” Luke 16:31

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Blog Post September 18, 2016, Twenty-Fifth Sunday of Ordinary Time

For surely I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord, plans for your welfare and not for harm, to give you a future with hope. Then when you call upon me and come and pray to me, I will hear you. When you search for me, you will find me; Jeremiah 29:11-13

I’ve been thinking about hope in what feels like a hopeless world these days. Yesterday I read, “Hope is anchored to reality through Jesus' resurrection”. The Catechism of the Catholic Church says: “When God reveals Himself and calls him, man cannot fully respond to the divine love by his own powers. He must hope that God will give him the capacity to love Him in return and to act in conformity with the commandments of charity. Hope is the confident expectation of divine blessing, and the beatific vision of God; it is also the fear of offending God’s love and of incurring punishment.” (ccc 2090)

St. Paul exhorts:” So then let us not fall asleep as others do, but let us keep awake and be sober; for those who sleep, sleep at night, and those who are drunk get drunk at night. But since we belong to the day, let us be sober, and put on the breastplate of faith and love, and for a helmet the hope of salvation. (1 Thessalonians 5:6-8)

Hope is the theological virtue that gives us the courage to act and to persevere. For me a good way to think about the value of hope is to think about its opposite – hopelessness. I think of one of those down days when I could hardly pick my spirit up off the floor. What if every day was like that? What if our whole world was like that? We need to pray for hope, just as we pray for any other virtue. But especially hope to energize our will and our imagination.

I take heart from St. Paul’s prayer, “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that you may abound in hope by the power of the Holy Spirit”. (Romans 15:13)

For in hope we were saved. Now hope that is seen is not hope. For who hopes for what he sees? But if we hope for what we do not see, we wait for it with patience. Romans 8:24-25

Email your your reflections on the following questions. If you believed that after your death you were nothing in the way you were before you were conceived, would your life be hopeless?

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Blog Post September 11, 2016,Twenty-Fourth Sunday of Ordinary Time

Create in me a clean heart, O God, and put a new and right spirit within me. Do not cast me away from your presence, and do not take your holy spirit from me. Restore to me the joy of your salvation, and sustain in me a willing spirit. Psalm 51:10-12

As I consider those words in the psalm, “Create in me a clean heart, O God, and put a new and right spirit within me”, I think to myself: if only it would be that easy. If only we could just pray for that ‘clean heart and new spirit’ to make it happen. I think we all fall into the trap now and then of mouthing the words and expecting God to do the rest.

But the fact is prayer is just the beginning. Prayer articulates for us the basics that we need for our journey. We know the ‘clean heart and right spirit’ are necessary for us to conduct our lives according to God’s plan, but that is truly just the beginning. It reminds me a little of college students training for their future careers. First they need to know what it is they want to be – the sort of work they want to do, the profession they want to enter. From there they select the list of courses they have to master, knowing that much hard work lies ahead of them if they are to attain their final goal.

Jesus has given us so many practical examples of the importance of work and planning in our lives – from the parable of the wise virgins who had enough oil when the bride groom came in the middle of the night, to the man who dug deeply and laid the foundation of his house on rock so when the flood came it stood firm. Prayer sets our eye on the goal and gathers the grace – it’s up to us to persevere with action and to remember: "From the one who has been entrusted with much, much more will be asked" (Luke 12:48).

I will show you what someone is like who comes to me, hears my words, and acts on them. That one is like a man building a house, who dug deeply and laid the foundation on rock; when a flood arose, the river burst against that house but could not shake it, because it had been well built. Luke 6:47-48

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Blog Post September 4, 2016, Twenty-Third Sunday of Ordinary Time

Who can know God’s counsel, or who can conceive what the Lord intends? For the deliberations of mortals are timid, and unsure are our plans....who ever knew your counsel, except you had given wisdom and sent your holy spirit from on high? Wisdom 9:13-17

Today Mother Theresa of Calcutta will be canonized as a saint of the Catholic Church in front of St. Peter's Basilica in Vatican City. Eighteen months after her death in 1997 Pope John Paul II waived the traditional five year waiting period, so the process could begin.

Agnes Gonxha Bojaxhiu was born in 1910 in Skopje, Yugoslavia where she grew up in a devout Catholic family. At eighteen she joined the Sisters of Loreto in Dublin, Ireland, an order of nuns dedicated to the education of girls. She was assigned to India where she taught at Saint Mary's High School For Girls where the students were from the city's poorest Bengali families.

There Sister Teresa learned to speak both Bengali and Hindi fluently. At the school she taught geography and history, hoping education would give the girls a way out of poverty. It was a noble cause – she worked hard and eventually became principal at St. Mary’s. Yet, it was not enough. She saw the misery of the poor outside the walls of the clean and orderly convent and could not turn away. The call came to her on September 10, 1946, as she traveled by train from Calcutta to Darjeeling. An interior voice invited her to a new mission. She said: “To fail would have been to break the faith.”

Shortly after this experience of “a call within a call” she was granted permission to live as an independent nun who would be known as Mother Teresa. After six months of basic medical training Mother Teresa moved into the slums of Calcutta to aid "the unwanted, the unloved, the uncared for." She said “God was calling me to give up all and to surrender myself to him in the service of the poorest of the poor in the slums.” In 1950, the Vatican granted Mother Teresa permission to establish the Missionaries of Charity, a religious order that began with only 12 women.

It’s a pretty astonishing story, the accomplishments of Mother Teresa – but more astonishing than her deeds is the fact that she accomplished them despite a spiritual darkness that lasted through the last fifty years of her life. Mother Teresa came to see her vocation was, in part, to suffer the Passion of Christ. She was moved to write: “If I ever become a saint—I will surely be one of ‘darkness.’ I will continually be absent from heaven—to light the light of those in darkness on earth.”

When the story of Mother Teresa’s ‘dark night of the soul’ was revealed in her letters, some felt dismayed and betrayed that she felt such spiritual darkness over all those years. How could she pretend to be so close to God with all those good works and love of the poor – was it all a sham? It was as though her critics had forgotten all the saints that spoke of their ‘dark night of the soul’ - and even Jesus’ words of abandonment on the cross.

To learn of this experience from Mother Teresa and to know she kept on despite those years of spiritual darkness is for me the greatest testimony to her sainthood. I see it as a loving gift for the rest of us – knowing that even the holiest among us may suffer feelings of abandonment, renews my courage.

The harvest is plentiful, but the laborers are few; therefore ask the Lord of the harvest to send out laborers into his harvest. Luke 10:2

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Blog Post August 28, 2016, Twenty-Second Sunday of Ordinary Time

Blessed is the nation whose God is the Lord, the people he chose for his inheritance. From heaven the Lord looks down and sees all mankind; from his dwelling place he watches all who live on earth—he who forms the hearts of all, who considers everything they do. Psalm 33:12-15

I’ve always been intrigued by the parable of the talents that we heard on Saturday. I ask myself: what are my talents? What do I do with them? Most of all, am I doing what I am supposed to be doing with the gifts I’ve been given? It’s a soul-searching question. Yesterday’s meditation in Magnificat added a new dimension to my view of this parable. Fr. Dajczer. A Polish professor of theology writes:
“A talent is a gift and a particular raw material…Christ, in giving you a talent, trusts you and waits for you to take proper advantage of it… A talent is not only receiving something, but it is also lacking something. In the light of faith, the good health you have is a talent, but bad health is also a talent. In each case Jesus poses the question, What are you doing with this talent? You can waste health and, even more so, a lack of health. Everything is a gift… God continuously bestows gifts on you.”
(Vol. 18, no.6.)

I ask myself, how can bad health be a talent? But Fr. Dajczer sees every moment of every day as a dispensing of God’s gifts on us – time – every moment of it – is a talent for us to use, and for which we must render an accounting.

Then the one who had received the one talent came forward and said, “Master, I knew you were a demanding person, harvesting where you did not plant and gathering where you did not scatter; soout of fear I went off and buried your talent in the ground. Here is it back.” His master said to him in reply, “You wicked, lazy servant!” Matthew 25:24-26

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Blog Post August 21, 2016, Twenty-First Sunday of Ordinary Time

Thus says the Lord God: O my people, I will open your graves and have you rise from them. I will put my spirit in you that you may live, and I will settle you upon your land; thus you shall know that I am the Lord. I have promised, and I will do it, says the Lord. Ezekiel 37:13-14

On Wednesday we heard the troubling parable of the landowner who went out at dawn to hire laborers for his vineyard. Every few hours he returned to the marketplace for more workers. At five o’clock when men were still standing around because no one had hired them, he sent them to work in his vineyard for the rest of the day. The challenging thing about this parable comes at the end where Jesus tell us all the workers received the same pay – whether they were there at dawn or didn’t get to the vineyard until the day was nearly over.

When the early workers grumbled because they got the same pay as the guys who only worked an hour that day, they were rebuked for their envy of the landlord’s generosity and told he could do what he wants with his own money. I hate to admit it, but I tend to be on the side of the disgruntled early workers – it just doesn’t seem fair to me.

This is one of those parables that invites me to dig a little deeper. Who are those workers that came late to the vineyard? We are told they were waiting to be hired all day, without success. It makes me think of all of the people who have fallen on tough times today. How hard it must be to be unemployed, perhaps homeless, despite their best efforts – or those who have suffered abusive families or addiction and have come to the table late. The parable of the vineyard reminds me how quick we are to judge others and the pitfall of comparing our lot with theirs. The early workers would have been content if they didn’t pay any attention to how much the others were given. But we do it all the time, comparing ourselves to others, then being filled with discontent.

This week I will reflect on St. Paul’s bit of wisdom: "Let everyone be sure to do his very best, for then he will have the personal satisfaction of work done well and won’t need to compare himself with someone else." (Galatians 6:4 LB)

And people will come from the east and the west and from the north and the south and will recline at table in the kingdom of God. For behold, some are last who will be first, and some are first who will be last. Luke 13:29-30

If you think the landowner's wage payment policy is unfair, email your your statement of a principle of fairness which the landowner's wage payment policy violates.

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Blog Post August 14, 2016, Twentieth Sunday of Ordinary Time

The Lord heard my cry. He drew me out of the pit of destruction, out of the mud of the swamp; he set my feet upon a crag; he made firm my steps. And he put a new song into my mouth, a hymn to our God. Psalm 40:2-4

A few nights ago a TV sit-com episode featured a charismatic black preacher. The lone white family in the audience was inspired by his ‘end of life’ question: “got your business done?” – thundered out like a prophet. The family went home determined to figure out what the business was that they were supposed to get done. The comedy revolved around how each member came up with goals that would make Mother Teresa look like a slacker. Then, after all their false starts, they decided, one by one, that maybe their “business” was just doing the best they could in their everyday jobs.

What surprised me was that for the next few days, out of the blue, the words of that dynamic preacher echoed in my thoughts: “got your business done?” That’s a great question. I thought that after all this time I would know what my business was, what it is God expects of me. But the more I consider it, the more I realize that my business isn’t something I can grasp like a mission statement, but is fluid – changing with the demands of each day. The only way to stay in touch with those changing demands is through prayer and vigilance – and most of all the desire to get ‘my business’ done they way God wants it done.

St. Elizabeth Ann Seton writes: “The first end I propose in our daily work is to do the will of God; secondly, to do it in the manner he wills it; and thirdly to do it because it is his will.” What a beautiful reminder of our purpose as we start each day.

I also saw the holy city, a new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride adorned for her husband. I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, “Behold, God’s dwelling is with the human race.” He will dwell with them and they will be his people.” Revelation 21:2-3

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Blog Post ,August 7, 2016, Nineteenth Sunday of Ordinary Time

You turn man back to dust, saying, “Return, O children of men.” For a thousand years in your sight are as yesterday, now that it is past, or as a watch of the night. Psalm 90: 3-4

Charles and I are in San Diego until August 9th, visiting grandkids. This blog is a repeat from August 11, 2013. I still find it thought-provoking.

A friend of mine was talking to his son about whether or not to care about other people’s opinion of him. His son said (in a somewhat accusing tone), “Well you don’t care what people think.” My friend said, “Of course I do, but I choose who those ‘other people’ will be.”

I thought about that, about those ‘other people’ and how much our behavior and values are formed by them. It’s not unusual to hear a teenager say “I don’t care what anyone thinks!”, usually it’s to justify something they really want to do that their parents don’t want them to do. It certainly doesn’t mean they don’t care what their school buddies think.

The thing is, part of our existence as social beings is that we do care about ‘the others’ in our world. The old saying, “Tell me who your friends are and I’ll tell you who you are,” reflects this universal bit of wisdom. Caring what others think can help increase our will and incentive to live up to our greatest ideals – to achieve our ultimate goal of holiness. It also reminds me of how important it is to choose who those others will be.

As a Lay Cistercian, I share the observation I often hear from other LCG members – that the more they follow the Lay Cistercian spirituality, the less they have in common with old friends and old ways. There is a certain sadness about this gradual separation that comes from a change in values once shared, yet it is the price of ‘growing up’ on our spiritual journey. It reminds me of the merchant who, when he found the pearl of great price, sold all he had to purchase it.

Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us rid ourselves of every burden and sin that clings to us and persevere in running the race that lies before us while keeping our eyes fixed on Jesus, the leader and perfecter of faith. Hebrews 12:1-2

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Blog Post July 31, 2016, Eighteenth Sunday of Ordinary Time

Charles and I will be in San Diego on Sunday, visiting grandkids, so I’m posting this early.

For what profit comes to a man from all the toil and anxiety of heart with which he has labored under the sun? All his days sorrow and grief are his occupation; even at night his mind is not at rest. Ecclesiastes 2:22-23

On Tuesday Fr. Jacques Hamel, 86, was attacked and killed while celebrating Mass in St.-Étienne-du-Rouvray, a working-class suburb of the cathedral city of Rouen, France. He was stabbed to death by two ISIS-linked assailants who took several nuns and worshippers hostage, then were themselves killed as they fled the bloody scene.

Archbishop Dominique Lebrun was in Krakow, Poland for World Youth Day, and immediately returned to Rouen to express his shock and grief at the attack. His parting words to the youth in Krakow were, “I leave here hundreds of young people who are the future of humanity. I ask them not to give in to the violence and to become apostles of the civilization of love.” And to the people of Rouen, “I cry out to God with all men of good will.”

It’s hard to digest the hate and horror of such an act. It feels like devils loose in our world. A friend emailed that she was utterly horrified by the news of that attack, but that she clung to these words by Desmond Tutu: “Do your little bit of good where you are; it’s those little bits of good put together that overwhelm the world.”

Then she reminded me that Rouen is the city where Joan of Arc was tried and burned at the stake.

The slaves said to him, ‘Then do you want us to go and gather them?’ But he replied, ‘No; for in gathering the weeds you would uproot the wheat along with them. Let both of them grow together until the harvest; and at harvest time

Expect blog postings on Sundays. These posts offer suggestions on spiritual growth by reflection on the seasons of the liturgical year.